celeb news Bebe Rexha & boyfriend break up, Bebe posts his texts on weight gain

[Vilko]

I think he is in the better light here  and why would she even share a private message like that

[Trent W]

She really thought everyone was going to be like “eXPOsE hIm qUeEn” 

 

Seriously what an idiot, she’s trash for this

 
I lost respect for her, she could’ve destroyed that man’s life especially considering she is semi-famous on a  Z list level and he is seems like a normal guy

[Junlin]

Bebe he was telling you to stop messing your face 

[Big Bad Wolf]

If he doesn’t find her attractive anymore, then they should break up. The text was jarring though.

[JoeAg]

what to heck

[shelven]

I honestly feel bad for her because she's obviously in a bad place mentally right now if she genuinely thought that this text was some kind of "expose" instead of a perfectly reasonable and mature response to what was clearly some ongoing private disagreement between them  Her posting this just proves the point he makes at the end of the text that she has some inner issues that she needs to work out with a therapist.

[More Than A Melody]

Jonah Hill has an entire documentary about therapy. In his texts he was weaponizing therapyspeak in a relationship with a woman 15 years his junior who wasn't a celebrity and wasn't rich. Trying to change who she was when he met her and using manipulation tactics to achieve it. I think it was important for those texts to be shared. And when she kept oversharing, I thought she was doing too much.

 

These texts, with no context, make Bebe look bad. She asked her boyfriend if her face looked different after gaining weight, and he answered honestly, reassuring her that he loved her and found her beautiful. And it also seems like they have banter about physical appearance anyway. So what exactly are we looking at here? And what is the point of dragging this anonymous man anyway? He's a cinematographer with 15K followers. We wouldn't need to know any of this even if what he said was problematic (which without context, is absolutely not).

 

I'm sorry for whatever she's going through that made her think publishing this was okay, let alone necessary. She really dumped a boyfriend who seems pretty supportive over what seems like nothing (he could be a monster, idk that! She hasn't provided that information, despite dragging the audience into her private life).

[Velvet Night]

Sounds like she asked and got an answer she didn’t like. He was actually pretty respectful.

She probably saw people posting screenshots of their celebrity lovers (i.e. Jonah Hill) being a shitty significant other and thought to do the same. The problem is she’s in the wrong here imo

Edited July 17, 2023 by Velvet Night

[Truth Teller]

People using therapy language in their personal conversations has gone COMPLETELY out of control. I was 100% with him until he told her to write things down. This is a text with your girlfriend, not a CBT session. Very condescending too.

 

Anyway she's also wrong for posting this and he's probably right that she's projecting her insecurities on him

[aesthetic bih]

I ask people that I TRUST if they thought I got fat and they straight up told me I did. I did not take offense because they truly answered my question without insulting/ making fun of me. 

 

Bebe, nothing wrong with gaining a bit of weight, but making your ex seem like a bad guy for being respectfully honest with you is not a good look. (However, the "seek a therapist" part from the ex was a bit shady to me. Feels condescending and unnecessary.)

Edited July 17, 2023 by aesthetic bih

[Яeo.]

This MAN who is so articulate told her that he will love her no matter what, and acknowledges the fact that she gained weight (she did) and that her face changed because of it (which she asked for) but it doesn’t matter to him and she still broke up with him?

 

some people really self sabotage 

Edited July 17, 2023 by Яeo.

[rhaenyra]

9 hours ago, Tropical said:

Seems he was being pretty supportive and normal. Shame on her for weaponizing his honesty in their relationship for sympathy.

This^^^

 

It seems all Bebe wants are yes men. If you don't want honestly, find a random hook up. Don't get in actual relationships. 

Bebe has always given me pick me vibes and this pretty much proves it.

I would hate if I had gained 35 pounds and my SO didn't say anything to me

[Lovett]

8 hours ago, Bears01 said:

Jonah Hill set his boundaries, was he a little controlling? Yeah, but it still wasn’t the Publics business either. He wasn’t committing crimes and doing something horrible that NEEDED to be exposed to the world 

No he didn't, boundaries are for yourself not others. He set misogynistic, hypocritical rules. He tried to weaponize therapy terms to control her and that's been explained thoroughly in the other thread to you. Jonah Hill was categorically wrong in that situation.

 

I don't personally see anything wrong in the text that Bebe shared, so I don't overly understand why she shared it. She's dealing with a lot of **** at the moment, I hope she's doing ok.

[BOOM!]

Both are wrong imo. Bebe for posting this and for calling him "fat" and him for suggesting her to "write things down" and go to theraphy.

 

But she is SO wrong for posting the private conversation online. Please keep some things to yourself! She really thought that she did something...

Edited July 17, 2023 by BOOM!

[Kern]

7 hours ago, kimberly said:

you got intel into their relationship that we don't? 

 

I'll say it's a dumb move to post a text like this without providing any context, and that's on Bebe. but all of the egging in this thread is fatphobic and misogynistic gays at work, lol. typical ATRL stuff. "maybe he's worried about her health" is a dogwhistle. if he's concerned about her health he would have said he's concerned about her health. not call her ugly and insecure.

 

best course of action upon seeing this post was to ignore and move on. NOT jump in to defend the man apologizing for calling his girlfriend ugly by telling her to go to therapy.

Why are you so defensive? I don't care about their relationship and most of users here probably don't too. Also no one called her ugly and insecure  Just give up, you're wrong here

 

 

 

[Kern]

3 hours ago, Sparksfly88 said:

Ozempic will have her snatched back in shape quickly. I know people irl who’ve done it and they look amazing!

You can always just eat less and walk more?

[kimberly]

23 minutes ago, the70s said:

Why are you so defensive? I don't care about their relationship and most of users here probably don't too. Also no one called her ugly and insecure  Just give up, you're wrong here

 

I am not going to engage with this subject or with you further. clearly lacking the empathy and critical thinking skills for the conversation to go anywhere. you're the one that keeps replying to me to defend whatever takes you have about this poor woman.

 

[Kern]

4 minutes ago, kimberly said:

I am not going to engage with this subject or with you further. clearly lacking the empathy and critical thinking skills for the conversation to go anywhere. you're the one that keeps replying to me to defend whatever takes you have about this poor woman.

 

wow thanks for personal attack I guess

 

Spoiler

 

[Darius]

It sounds like she asked him for his honest opinion on whether she had gained weight and he said yes? Which, like, that’s an undeniable fact
 

It doesn’t seem he was negative about it, though. In fact, he sounds supportive. Weight gain does not automatically = bad 

[Khal]

She saw the Jonah Hill thing and wanted her own moment, huh?

 

However, unlike the Jonah texts which revealed him to be insecure and narcissistic, this text does the same, but not to the person she thought it would

[halcyonday]

Bebe this aint it

[iknowplaces]

She's a mess

[RideOrDie]

he seems like a sweet and caring man... 

bleta you really lost it 

[Bloodflowers.]

This is something she should deal with in private, posting it in public is kinda trashy.

 

If she has weight issues, she should either own up to it like a confident badass that owns up to her size or change her diet and start working out to get smaller. Let me give "I'm Gonna Show You Crazy" a stream real quick!

 

[apasionata]

50 minutes ago, the70s said:

You can always just eat less and walk more?

You can always shut up and let people take the easy way out without shaming them for doing so (Ozempic user here).

 

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Yes Bleta like you have stash for lifetime of Ozempic like get over yourself