Do you notice people checking you out in public?

[T.O.A.D.S.]

Do you? I was out shopping today and noticed I was checking out a guy. As soon as I noticed I was thirsting I stopped immediately.  I wondered if he realised...

 

[Right Now]

I do notice. If you keep making eye contact with the person inadvertently/feel eyes on you and after you look they glance away more than once, it can be obvious.

[Illuminati]

Yes with homophobic disgust

 

[vuelve88]

Yes, the cashiers at the grocery always check me out. Sometimes, I self-checkout. 

[Kayseri Mantisi]

7 minutes ago, vuelve88 said:

Sometimes, I self-checkout. 

[DamianSolo]

Not at all. I'm always in my own little world, whenever I'm out and about, getting what I need so I can come back home.

[TiaTamera]

Only if they are verbal by either catcalling or saying hello. Other than that, my head be in the clouds 

[Khal]

Yes, but I’m currently living in a city that’s overwhelmingly white, so I can’t tell if they’re checking me out because I look good, or because I’m one of the few black people they see

[Rev8]

No, im ******* blind

[Minogue]

Literally never. Even in gay parties. My friends usually have to tell me someone is

[liam13]

i dont but for a different reason

[Bloodflowers.]

After hitting the gym and getting new glasses, I do notice straight women checking me out. Little do they know, but still it boosted my confidence.

 

 

[PMKARDASHIAN]

25 minutes ago, DamianSolo said:

Not at all. I'm always in my own little world, whenever I'm out and about, getting what I need so I can come back home.

This. 
I throw my AirPods in everywhere I go and I try and get in and out of places as soon as possible. If people do check me out I never notice. 
when I’m at work however, people always make comments to me and I’m just there like…*nervous laughter* 

[Beyondslay]

 

No lol! Honeyyyyy...Men have to be very intentional and direct with me! otherwise I'm completely oblivious lol 

Edited July 6, 2023 by Beyondslay

[illia]

Yes and it's hella awkward actually

This is why I try not to check anyone out or at least do it as secretly as possible

[Yawn]

i did the other day when i glanced around and made eye contact because he was staring at me but then noticed it was a tinder match 

[Sazare]

Sometimes I see someone looking at me but I have no way of knowing why. Maybe they’re checking me out, but what if I just look like someone else they know? What if I have food on my face? Seems vain to assume they’re into me tbh

[stjosephprey4us]

Sometimes I’m unsure if people are checking me out in public or if they’re looking at me in disgust 

[ScorpiosGroove]

1 hour ago, Minogue said:

Literally never. Even in gay parties. My friends usually have to tell me someone is

46 minutes ago, Beyondslay said:

 

No lol! Honeyyyyy...Men have to be very intentional and direct with me! otherwise I'm completely oblivious lol 

this  

 

if friends or my man don’t tell me i’m not noticing ****, guess i can’t see, i’m blind.mp3

[EnigmaticAndroid]

More like gagging at the sight 

[Mitsouko]

Only old men. It's weird

[GentleEarthquake]

I'm too insecure and socially awkward to conclude someone is checking me out

[feelslikeadream]

I have a few pair of pants that whenever I wear them, I notice gays looking at my crotch. I just avoid wearing them at work and reserve them for scenarios in which I don't mind being checked out.

[T.O.A.D.S.]

3 hours ago, PMKARDASHIAN said:

This. 
I throw my AirPods in everywhere I go and I try and get in and out of places as soon as possible. If people do check me out I never notice. 
when I’m at work however, people always make comments to me and I’m just there like…*nervous laughter* 

 

4 hours ago, DamianSolo said:

Not at all. I'm always in my own little world, whenever I'm out and about, getting what I need so I can come back home.

Would you say you’re socially awkward or you just like keeping to yourselves? 

[EtherealCat]

im extremely bland people dont pay any attention to me