Timber Posted July 5, 2023 Posted July 5, 2023 (edited) I was planning to rent a place with a couple of my cousins (very close friends). I love them to death and I don't mind that they love K-pop. At first I thought moving in together would be great, when I talked to them about it they said that it was an amazing idea. I got put off about how they said that the entire house will be decorated with K-pop stuff...Like, c'mon isn't decorating your room (private living space) enough? Also, I think they have some serious spending issues. One of them has a full time job that pays decent, lives with her parents for free, but is always low on money. I know they're going to concerts and buying all sorts of K-pop stuff all the time but man, don't they feel bad being so irresponsible? The truth is that I don't make friends easy. I've tried roommates many times, and although I'm nice and they're usually nice, I just never really feel comfortable with strangers. I've known my 2 cousins all my life, we hang out all the time and always enjoy each others company. I could try living by myself but I don't think it's very financially smart and I'd probably get lonely... After writing this, I realized that my solution should be to go on with the move in. Just have to figure out how to not let the house become a K-pop shrine... Edited July 5, 2023 by Timber
Badgalbriel Posted July 5, 2023 Posted July 5, 2023 No. That's childish behavior. I would never display anything related to a celebrity in my house.
pavi Posted July 5, 2023 Posted July 5, 2023 A cute nod is fine and in a private room like a bedroom you can go crazy if you'd like (I have a Beyoncé, Dua and Charli poster in mine), but when you share a room, you both have to like what's in there. You'll have to find middle ground, otherwise it won't work! I advise you to set some rules and boundaries and discuss expecations before moving in in general, btw. Even if you've known people for a long time, moving in together is very different. You'll see sides of each other you normally don't see. I've seen many friendships close to me blow up because of moving in together without talking it through. Good luck!
Illuminati Posted July 5, 2023 Posted July 5, 2023 I think if you otherwise like them as people it could be fine. It's a small compromise that you may be able to negotiate in the future
Glorified Posted July 5, 2023 Posted July 5, 2023 55 minutes ago, getBusy said: It’s ok if you’re 13 yo +1
Alldeezy Posted July 5, 2023 Posted July 5, 2023 however I wouldn't put my whole House covered in Posters just my own bedroom (I do have one of Denis' album covers as flag in the kitchen. but thats it. my bedroom is legit my safe place, and I am the Only person who spends enough time in my room and I don't care if people call that childish. If anything people always wanna come over to see my room and i'm like no I remember this one guy who made the whole living room Marylin Manson and I was like and the kitchen had heaps of posters do and this was 50 year old man with his 21 - 25 year old housemates. like it's ok in your bedrooms but the whole house was like that.
Sergi91 Posted July 5, 2023 Posted July 5, 2023 No ma’am. Maybe have a poster and my collection in a room but not all over the house.
Tropez Posted July 5, 2023 Posted July 5, 2023 If you’re like 14 it’s cute. But as an adult it’s time to grow up. Plus if others are sharing it. That wouldn’t be fair to them.
GentleEarthquake Posted July 5, 2023 Posted July 5, 2023 Tell them to grow up and stop being delusional. I do have some kpop posters in my room, but I would never put in the other parts of my house
DamianSolo Posted July 5, 2023 Posted July 5, 2023 I would. It would have to be arty pictures of them, though. It wouldn't be random pictures or posters. If done right, it could actually be very classy and compliment decor and color themes. The one for Christina is something that would have to be in a game room, or something. I wouldn't want a regular poster like that in a living room or hallway. 1
Gorjesspazze9 Posted July 5, 2023 Posted July 5, 2023 (edited) I did when I was a teenager. But now I only keep merch in my bedroom or small things in my office. also all the judgment in this thread 💀 as if y’all don’t spend several hours a day talking about idols and thier chart positions everyday. “I don’t worship idols”. But have an idol in your Profile pic. the pretentiousness is real 😆 anyways it’s your house, Money and and property. Hang posters wherever you want. I wouldn’t but if someone wants to. Who actually cares. They can have an opinion if they want to pay rent 🤭 Edited July 5, 2023 by Gorjesspazze9
Robert Posted July 6, 2023 Posted July 6, 2023 (edited) If I was a teenager sure but not in my 20s/30s. I think the bedroom is fine thougg as that's a private space but for shared spaces, they need to understand not everyone wants pop memorabilia. Edited July 6, 2023 by Robert
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