discussion What are some features you find unattractive in men?

[playboi]

lack of intelligence and culture

over-confidence and under-confidence

 

 

[TanjiroKamado]

11 hours ago, VVVVVV said:

Omg, these thread its so american/ anglo/ caucasic/ white. Y all are lonely gay incels with no personality who never have sex or have not experimented enough. Y all boring, so restrictive, so basic and safe in everything. We need to see how every single one of you look. Because the more demanding they are the more ugly...

This meltdown only because someone said they dont like long hair. Seek help!

 

[TouchinFree]

I welcome all types. No discriminations at all. 

 

But a round big butt and good sucking skills are my favourite. 

[blown away]

Poor hygiene (hair, nails, teeth, ...)

Overtly muscular

 

Vanity

Arrogance

Selfishness

[mylicious]

12 hours ago, Wrecked said:

People with personalities like this. 

Yup, that’s what came to my mind when I read that. You all must be very young, at least I hope so, because being this shallow is very very sad.

[Wrecked]

1 hour ago, mylicious said:

Yup, that’s what came to my mind when I read that. You all must be very young, at least I hope so, because being this shallow is very very sad.

I just can’t imagine looking at somebody’s hairstyle or facial hair and thinking I automatically know what their personality is... 

 

 

[MALAMENTE]

Very long hair

Very skinny

No ass/thighs

Being a moron

 

[Aethereal]

5 hours ago, liquiddiamonds said:

Travel more often. The images of blacks and asians might have them with short hair or bald, but they rock many different hairstyles with longer hair. I’ve seen more men with longer hair in both my experiences in Continental Asia and here in Latin America then when I was studying in the US or the EU. Moreover, these groups were way less homogeneous with hairstyles. The pagan days are long gone lol when I was living in Germany most of them had buzzcuts or were straight balding with a cap on

Which country in Asia? 

https://www.quora.com/Are-long-haired-men-considered-taboo-for-Chinese-girls

[TanjiroKamado]

18 minutes ago, MALAMENTE said:

 

Very skinny

No ass/thighs

 

 

I know some people cant be helped due to having fast metabolism but damn are skinnies unattractive (to me). Nothing like a phat bubble ass 

[bigboss]

Not that hung up on looks. Easygoing personality and a nice voice are turn-ons.

[MALAMENTE]

3 minutes ago, TanjiroKamado said:

I know some people cant be helped due to having fast metabolism but damn are skinnies unattractive (to me). Nothing like a phat bubble ass 

I know, and I have nothing against them but I just don't feel attracted to them. For example, Timothee or Zayn: they are handsome but I just don't feel anything. You can never say never and I might just fall in love with someone that is not my type but its safe to say I don't turn around and look at men on the street with those characteristics. 

And I don't even ask for a fat ass, just something enough (of course a bubble butt or a fatty is good too). 

[katara]

Feminine

Make Up

Long Hair

Too Fat

Ugly

Very Thin Lips

Very Weak Jaw

Too Many Tattoos or Piercings

[Both Sides Now]

The projection going on in this thread 

 

[Khal]

3 hours ago, MALAMENTE said:

 

No ass/thighs

 

Yes

 

I know it sounds shallow, but something about having a flat ass is extremely unattractive. Not asking for something huge, but how are you wearing pants and there isn’t even a bit of a curve, just all back

[liquiddiamonds]

3 hours ago, Aristotle said:

Which country in Asia? 

https://www.quora.com/Are-long-haired-men-considered-taboo-for-Chinese-girls

East Asia, much less China, is not the whole of Asia  there’s not an asian take on hair. It’s completely different in India, for example, where i’ve spent time in. You’re just confirming that you don’t experience things yourself. Moreover, you’re bringing empty cultural topics (like your pagan german culture talk) when my argument is simply the statically confirmed fact that white men are more prone to baldness than men from other heritages (african, indigenous and asian). It’s science and mostly genetics. European countries in particularly are statistically the baldest in rankings. Western countries are also at the top of hair transplantation in number of procedures and costumers with men counting as more than 85% of them and citing cosmetic baldness as the main reason.
 

If you can google chinese society’s take on long hair you can google these points too and see it for yourself. If white men were not as affected by these things we would be looking at a completely different set of beauty standards. Meanwhile braids, dreads, afros and just long non-straight hair are maligned just because they happen more often in other cultures or the hair type can sustain such hairstyles. And then you claim that most black men have short or bald hair as if the black community wasn't deeply affected by how their style their hair. If it's braided you're a drug dealer; afros are never professional for women; dreads are for the lazy and weed smokers; short to no hair as the equivalent of hygiene. The later is the craziest because hair length doesnt define care routine. A lot of people have musty, fried, terrible short hair. A bunch of stereotypes created by white people in their socities to disqualify those that don't fit a standard... but that's another topic 

 

Edited May 14, 2023 by liquiddiamonds

[tost1]

Shaved legs 

[livelikemusic]

2 hours ago, Both Sides Now said:

The projection going on in this thread 

 

One-hundred percent.

[aesthetic bih]

13 hours ago, AvadaKedavra said:

Im highly attracted to logan lerman with short hair but once he goes for long hair is a NO for me 

 

Idk, he looked better with the long hair for me. But he looked like 2 different persons, crazy 

[Aethereal]

26 minutes ago, liquiddiamonds said:

East Asia, much less China, is not the whole of Asia  there’s not an asian take on hair. It’s completely different in India, for example, where i’ve spent time in. You’re just confirming that you don’t experience things yourself. Moreover, you’re bringing empty cultural topics (like your pagan german culture talk) when my argument is simply the statically confirmed fact that white men are more prone to baldness than men from other heritages (african, indigenous and asian). It’s science and mostly genetics. European countries in particularly are statistically the baldest in rankings. Western countries are also at the top of hair transplantation in number of procedures and costumers with men counting as more than 85% of them and citing cosmetic baldness as the main reason.
 

If you can google chinese society’s take on long hair you can google these points too and see it for yourself. If white men were not as affected by these things we would be looking at a completely different set of beauty standards. Meanwhile braids, dreads, afros and just long non-straight hair are maligned just because they happen more often in other cultures or the hair type can sustain such hairstyles. And then you claim that most black men have short or bald hair as if the black community wasn't deeply affected by how their style their hair. If it's braided you're a drug dealer; afros are never professional for women; dreads are for the lazy and weed smokers; short to no hair as the equivalent of hygiene. The later is the craziest because hair length doesnt define care routine. A lot of people have musty, fried, terrible short hair. A bunch of stereotypes created by white people in their socities to disqualify those that don't fit a standard... but that's another topic 

 

China is the most populated country in Asia (or the second most populated) and East Asian countries are pretty uniform in some customs and beauty standards. Koreans, Chinese and Japanese (and probably other East Asians too) all prefer lighter skin, dislike heavy muscles and beards.

 

For Indians, as you already suspected I am not informed or have much experience with them but most of Indian men I have seen have short hair. And lastly long hair in men among African tribes is very rare, they often keep a bald style in their traditional image. Even African women are way more likely to keep shorter hair compared to other cultures.

 

Balding is more common among Caucasians and including Northern Europeans but it seems that enforced Eurocentric standards did not succeed to make that a part of the beauty standards. I can assure you most men of European heritage dislike going bald. 

 

 

Also straight white women do in fact love men with long hair. Preference for shorter hair is more common among gay men compared to straight women as is the preference for muscular bodies. 

Beefy muscular bodies are very rarely preferred among straight women in terms of percentages. On the other hand a significant minority of gay men prefer this type of body. 

[magazine]

Literally everything!

[Xtina23]

All men under 5' 10''

[bliaz]

21 hours ago, VVVVVV said:

Omg, these thread its so american/ anglo/ caucasic/ white. Y all are lonely gay incels with no personality who never have sex or have not experimented enough. Y all boring, so restrictive, so basic and safe in everything. We need to see how every single one of you look. Because the more demanding they are the more ugly...

 

Unbelievable that bodyshaming is allowed here. 

[Kimi]

Clean cut type od gays are often so plain and boring, also idk how to describe it but dark hair and trimmed black beard, like super trimmed. They are always so boring. 

[Stacy Jensen]

Piercings

Long or dyed hair (especially blonde)

No body hair

Too skinny

Bad teeth

Edited May 14, 2023 by Stacy Jensen

[John Slayne]

it's not a deal-breaker at all, but generally long hair is not the most attractive hairstyle for most men to me

 

same with nipple piercings 

 

Edited May 14, 2023 by John Slayne