Satin Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 I wanted to know ATRL's thoughts on this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MAKSIM Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 It hurts to reflect on your life and think that you put so much energy into someone or something that may have never been fully reciprocated. I completely understand someone who would be hurt and angry if their partner came out, especially if it after being with them for so long. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shookspeare Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 imagine your husband becoming your gay best friend omg poor ha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wrecked Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 I mean, it must be horrible to be with somebody for so long only to find out they’ve been gay the entire time. But, we also don’t know the type of family and friends he had around him that could have made him scared to be his true self. I honestly feel for both sides. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TaggedGalaxy Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 This is unfortunately very common Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ATRL Moderator madonnas Posted April 22, 2023 ATRL Moderator Share Posted April 22, 2023 Reading the replies to that was a mistake … anyway, very sad for both of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Punky Rooster Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 Why has 21 years of her life been "wasted"? Assuming those years were happy ones, nothing else will change but the lack of sex. Straight people are so dramatic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zox Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 5 minutes ago, shookspeare said: imagine your husband becoming your gay best friend omg poor ha Sksjdkdkdkd 2 minutes ago, madonnas said: Reading the replies to that was a mistake … anyway, very sad for both of them. yeah I’m not even going to open that tweet page up lol It’s sad though understandable from both ends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Power love Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 Very sad for everyone involved even the children. I’m happy both can remain friends and live happy lives with ppl who genuinely love them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keter Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 Heartbreaking for her and the life she built with that person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Satin Posted April 22, 2023 Author Share Posted April 22, 2023 (edited) 6 minutes ago, Power love said: Very sad for everyone involved even the children. I’m happy both can remain friends and live happy lives with ppl who genuinely love them I believe they do not have kids. I watched the video and she seems actually very supportive of his choice, and he is supporting her for a bit while she job searches, at least marrying a caring gay is better than marrying a str8 dirtbag husband Edited April 22, 2023 by Satin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Jacobs Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 (edited) This happens a lot.. I have literally no sympathy for these men. JUST DON'T GET MARRIED!! WHY THE F WOULD YOU RUIN/ROB SOMEONE'S LIFE AND STEAL THEIR BEST YEARS? It's Disgusting and the most selfish thing imo Edited April 22, 2023 by Johnny Jacobs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saintlor Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 This is wrong on the gay man's part, but I feel like a lot of straight women make these posts to promote homophobic comments I also see thousands of girls on TikTok saying they found out their BF is gay and I feel like a large portion are lying and are just baiting the GP to be homophobic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WitnessOblivia Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 (edited) It's a very unfortunate situation and I feel bad for both of them. I don't really know the situation well enough to form a strong opinion. Also the replies People are truly trash. Edited April 22, 2023 by WitnessOblivia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLIME Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 Hope both are getting good dick now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helios Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 Im more concerned with yet ANOTHER ATRL member posting a tweet from an ANTI LGBT account. Why is this allowed on here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Satin Posted April 22, 2023 Author Share Posted April 22, 2023 3 minutes ago, WitnessOblivia said: It's a very unfortunate situation and I feel bad for both of them. Also the replies People are truly trash. Yeah OP is clearly a TERF and homophobe oops I thought she was a gay because she posted a video of Whitney Chewston Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wehan6 Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 the person who tweeted that being homophobic and transphobic scum lol of course anyway feel bad for both of them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redstreak Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 The way my partner was married to two different women 💀 it really is an unfortunate situation and I feel for her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blown away Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 I feel sad for both of them. The woman because she's losing her husband, who she probably still loves romantically, and there's nothing to do about it. I can't imagine the pain she must be suffering right now. The man because he's felt the need to hide his sexuality for so long. It's horrible that in today's society millions of people still have to hide who they are because of the reactions and consequences for their safety, social life, work, family bonds,... The caption going along with the tweet is appalling, as if the man purposely hid his sexuality for fun I can only imagine the emotional turmoil he's been having for all these years. I do hope they can still be friendly with each other, especially if they have children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoveInStereo Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 Coming out as gay late in life is the guilt free midlife crisis these days, huh? Leave your wife for your female secretary, society says you can rot in a hole. Leave your wife for a femboy, you’re a hero for unlearning systemic heteronormativity. It’s such a con. Selfishness is selfishness, don’t make vows you have no intention of keeping Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zox Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 10 minutes ago, Johnny Jacobs said: This happens a lot.. I have literally no sympathy for these men. JUST DON'T GET MARRIED!! WHY THE F WOULD YOU RUIN/ROB SOMEONE'S LIFE AND STEAL THEIR BEST YEARS? It's Disgusting and the most selfish thing imo 21 years ago was the year 2002… even popular democrats like Obama didn’t support gay marriage homophobia is very much still a thing today, let alone two decades ago. You don’t know what their situation was. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rhaenyra Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 30 minutes ago, TaggedGalaxy said: This is unfortunately very common Fr All those faceless profiles on gr*ndr? Majority are married, family men Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danny789 Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 I blame society and not the man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheLastChord Posted April 22, 2023 Share Posted April 22, 2023 2 minutes ago, Zox said: 21 years ago was the year 2002… even popular democrats like Obama didn’t support gay marriage homophobia is very much still a thing today, let alone two decades ago. You don’t know what their situation was. Yeah, this part I can get, we also don't know his family circle/friends/work/church/city etc that could have pressured him to stay in the closet back then. Also, maybe they had kids and then he felt that he didn't want to be separated from his kids, he also might truly love her, but a different kind of love and that probably made it harder for him to do this. I feel bad for both of them, because no one wants to stay in the closet that long and no one wants to be in a long-term relationship with someone who is hiding so much of their true self. Now, if this *** has been cheating on her for a long time then my sympathy goes out the window for him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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