Theshigo Washidu Posted April 3, 2023 Share Posted April 3, 2023 On 3/29/2023 at 5:53 PM, JayG said: The replies in here are insane. Don’t cheat, that’s shitty behaviour. Commit or don’t get into relationships. Period. OP I agree with you, I also want only one relationship and person to share myself with. ******* multiple people has always felt disgusting to me. Like… nah. Life’s too short to be throwing my body at men like meat. Ew. I work hard, value my life and myself. I ain’t about wasting my time and potential and health and life with random people and ******* with people mentally - that’s trash behaviour. Period Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonnyCat Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 (edited) On 3/29/2023 at 11:54 AM, Indie said: I couldn't care less about what anybody elses relationship looks like. But don't try to tell me that my relationship is unnatural because it doesn't fit your ideals. On 3/29/2023 at 12:14 PM, LustSpell said: As people above have already stated: You don't need to justify what you like. I mind my business and do my own thing when it comes to poly people and that's all that matters. They live their life, I live mine. On 3/29/2023 at 12:38 PM, JohnWayneHolland said: Both monogamy and polygamy are choices imo, but the truth is that humans (and all species tbh) can be attracted to multiple other humans at the same time, but it's up to every individual to choose if they want to spend the rest of their life with just one person or if they want to be able to fool around with multiple people. It's true that monogamy was imposed by society/religion, but there's nothing wrong with wanting to be in a monogamous relationship, just like there's nothing wrong with being in an open relationship as long as both parties are aware and are ok with that. This. Edited April 4, 2023 by JonnyCat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raphy23 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 (edited) The kind of love in the OP is real. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and never once did I think about sleeping with anyone else. For me sex is a way to show love for a partner, and he’s the only one I love. But if you are in a monogamous relationship and have sexual urges for others, that’s totally normal too. As long as you don’t act on them. Edited April 4, 2023 by Raphy23 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ATRL Moderator Bloo Posted April 4, 2023 ATRL Moderator Share Posted April 4, 2023 I swear, this is the most unproductive question. Who cares. If you're not monogamous, great; be so openly and live your best life. If you're monogamous, great; be so openly and live your best life. Stop debating with other people about how they should navigate their own romantic and/or sexual relationships. It's weird and sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
airplane Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 23 hours ago, FightForTanas said: STDs are running rampant and now we know why. 19 hours ago, mylicious said: What? I am sorry for your lack of motivation and ideas in life. Life only gets boring if you want it that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jan Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 They are right, monogamy is an invention of culture. But it doesn’t make it a bad thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cockatoo Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 On 3/29/2023 at 6:06 PM, Heldenzeit said: The beauty of humanity is that we‘re intelligent enough to have the option to choose a path of life. This debate is nonsense. Succinct and to the point Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cockatoo Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 I do agree with the OP though, it's mad that people who are in relationships complain about being in them. No one made you do that, leave if you're not happy If you don't want to be monogamous that's fine but then stay single... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FreeXone Posted April 5, 2023 Share Posted April 5, 2023 Sexually no. Romantically. Yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacardo Royale Posted April 5, 2023 Share Posted April 5, 2023 It's true but humans are also conditioned to be jealous and territorial which is counter productive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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