Do Tops Need Friends?

[Phaunzie]

Obviously, only insecure people try to isolate their significant others. Like isolation from friends and loved ones is the first sign that you in a toxic relationship.

[TaggedGalaxy]

We need to stop treating tops as people, they are used for their dicks and that's it, they are tools to be used. So no they shouldn't be allowed friends 

[mylicious]

just when I thought this site couldn’t get any more stupid 

[terrorblade]

tops are a myth

[Patient Zero]

Is this how a straight girl thinks of her bf?

[P!nk]

I-

 

[zasderfght]

The more I see forums like this, the more I'm the problem, because I entertain/comment on content like this. I know ATRL isn't a website to be taken seriously, but when will people from our community-- particularly gay males-- understand that people can top, people can bottom, or people can do both. I understand if you're looking for just a hookup that you might be solely looking for penetrative sex or to get penetrated, but other forms of sex exist as well and toys are a thing. These forums kind of read like Grindr-confessions-of-an-18-year-old. If I solely looked for partners who preferred a sexual position in my bed, I've live a pretty lonely, sad existence. 

 

But to be on topic, yes, everyone should have friends. We weren't made to be stripped of social interaction and friendships build things like character, loyalty, trust, and friendships are a great way to co-exist and set/honor boundaries. 

[AvadaKedavra]

Yes they need friends. Money. Gifts. Everything to make them happy. If a top cries i cry  
We as bottoms we must care about our tops. First and above all. Theyre an endangered community 
Im just a doll sir 
 

[katara]

Yes everyone is more attractive if they have friends and a good social standing. 

[HausofArtpopII]

On 3/13/2023 at 7:04 PM, byzantium said:

Reading this thread makes me think that tops are not actually rare, they just don't want to waste their time with some of you.  

 

idk why yall are acting like they're rare 

 

tbh they're pretty easy to catch

[John Slayne]

On 3/14/2023 at 3:46 AM, ImsoLOUD said:

because all I see is verse men everywhere 

vers life best life! 

[John Slayne]

3 hours ago, zasderfght said:

The more I see forums like this, the more I'm the problem, because I entertain/comment on content like this. I know ATRL isn't a website to be taken seriously, but when will people from our community-- particularly gay males-- understand that people can top, people can bottom, or people can do both. I understand if you're looking for just a hookup that you might be solely looking for penetrative sex or to get penetrated, but other forms of sex exist as well and toys are a thing. These forums kind of read like Grindr-confessions-of-an-18-year-old. If I solely looked for partners who preferred a sexual position in my bed, I've live a pretty lonely, sad existence. 

 

But to be on topic, yes, everyone should have friends. We weren't made to be stripped of social interaction and friendships build things like character, loyalty, trust, and friendships are a great way to co-exist and set/honor boundaries. 

you spilled. i find the top/bottom jokes so corny at this point. we've heard them all before and they're just recycled versions of str*ight man/woman stereotypes. the top is manly, masculine, emotionless while the bottom is fem and needy. can you come up with something else?

[Rihinvention]

I feel like you all have bilingual arseholes but for some reason mine only understands English.