How do i get my ex back if he has a new boyfriend ?

[PopKills]

Act as you were only interested in being friends. Dig about his currently relationship. Find out what his partners is doing wrong and make him fixate on it. But REMEMBER plausible deniability: Don’t say anything bad about them yourself. 
 

As you dig deeper into his relationship mold your personality to his alleged likes and dislikes. His partner is argumentative? Be agreeable. His partner is dumb? Be an intelligent girl boss. Does he like the way they cook? Say, me too!

 

As you get closer to him, ask him to introduce you to his partner, either online or irl. Get close to them and start sowing seeds of discord between them. Make it seem like he lied, or did something stupid, or said something bad about them. Make it seem like you’re on their side.

 

As you’re simultaneously destroying their confidence in their relationship and also being their only comfort, things are going to get tricky. He’s going to try to make a move, but you CANNOT let yourself be the other woman. He has to break up w the partner before physical stuff happens

 

If it just can’t be helped, you have to show IMMESURABLE GUILT AND SHAME and force him to break up with them. He can’t see you as easy, you must show that you have morals and values and hate breaking your moral code.. you were just overwhelmed with passion for him
 

The only problem that now remains is the ex partner. If you’ve done the job correctly, they kinda hate him now anyway and you’re free to drop them out of your life before you make your shiny new relationship public.

 

Convince them to block his ass, drive it home that they‘re too good for him, then send a couple of men that you rejected their way. Then, start a petty fight with then, tell them they‘re toxic and end the friendship

 

A very important part of all this is that NO ONE can know what happened or else the whole relationship is publicly tainted. 

 

WAIT A FEW MONTHS BEFORE MAKING THINGS PUBLIC

Edited February 8, 2023 by PopKills

[MoonGoodandHappy]

1 hour ago, Juanny said:

Move on and have respect for yourself, no shade intended. I say this with all with complete empathy for you. 

 

Everything in life that you chase runs away, men especially. You’re expecting to ¨get your ex back" by acting like the only solution to your feeling of emptiness is a man who hasn’t shown you an ounce of respect or reciprocity. This is not only disrespectful and inhuman treatment toward yourself, but also a severely unattractive quality that is likely totally transparent not only to him but everyone else.

 

Any and all the issues you’re experiencing can only be resolved by yourself. No man is going to come in and fix you or make you happy and a relationship is not the key to your happiness. Everyone in here has said it already but you seriously need to be staying single and resolve your deep-rooted issues that seem to be driving you to attach your self worth and goals onto another person in an unhealthy and unstable manner. 

 

1 hour ago, Danny789 said:

You don’t, staying away is the only way to get over him. He probably felt comfortable enough to talk to you because he’s over it so you should do the same. 

But he watch all my stories, each one of them, he respond me quickly... This is what makes me think maybe i have a chance. And 5 minutes ago he responded to me by message at 7am... Like... he has a boyfriend but he keep an eye on me.... This makes me really think i could get him back.

Edited February 8, 2023 by MoonGoodandHappy

[Alldeezy]

Leave it, if you guys are meant to be they will come back around, if not move on really. 

 

 

[Taylucifer]

just wait until he’s out of the honeymoon phase with his current partner and it’ll be much easier for you

[jim19911126]

all you need is a therapist or a mental health professions, not this guy or any other men.

[fountain]

You’re deluded

[Orsay]

stand up 

[FreeXone]

 

If he is openly communicating with you and responding fast while he knows he has a boyfriend he is opening the door. 

 

Wreck homes. Get him BACK

 

 

[Cain]

Girlie…. Love yourself

[ProudLBS]

38 minutes ago, PopKills said:

Act as you were only interested in being friends. Dig about his currently relationship. Find out what his partners is doing wrong and make him fixate on it. But REMEMBER plausible deniability: Don’t say anything bad about them yourself. 
 

As you dig deeper into his relationship mold your personality to his alleged likes and dislikes. His partner is argumentative? Be agreeable. His partner is dumb? Be an intelligent girl boss. Does he like the way they cook? Say, me too!

 

As you get closer to him, ask him to introduce you to his partner, either online or irl. Get close to them and start sowing seeds of discord between them. Make it seem like he lied, or did something stupid, or said something bad about them. Make it seem like you’re on their side.

 

As you’re simultaneously destroying their confidence in their relationship and also being their only comfort, things are going to get tricky. He’s going to try to make a move, but you CANNOT let yourself be the other woman. He has to break up w the partner before physical stuff happens

 

If it just can’t be helped, you have to show IMMESURABLE GUILT AND SHAME and force him to break up with them. He can’t see you as easy, you must show that you have morals and values and hate breaking your moral code.. you were just overwhelmed with passion for him
 

The only problem that now remains is the ex partner. If you’ve done the job correctly, they kinda hate him now anyway and you’re free to drop them out of your life before you make your shiny new relationship public.

 

Convince them to block his ass, drive it home that they‘re too good for him, then send a couple of men that you rejected their way. Then, start a petty fight with then, tell them they‘re toxic and end the friendship

 

A very important part of all this is that NO ONE can know what happened or else the whole relationship is publicly tainted. 

 

WAIT A FEW MONTHS BEFORE MAKING THINGS PUBLIC

I was about to suggest causing an “accident” but this is way more fun!

[Cain]

Y’all broke up 2 years ago and you’re still obsessed with him?  that’s not a good sign of where you are mentally, maybe work on that first

[simplywohoo]

The OPs posts in here 

Pathetic 

[Archetype]

57 minutes ago, MoonGoodandHappy said:

If you could see him you would be obsessed too. He is very intelligent (he's a doctor), he's the most beautiful man i ever seen, he is really really beautiful and he has a lot of charm. He has a fit physique and a good personality. When i was with him it was like a dream. This is why i want him so bad.

If he’s so wonderful, why did you both break up?  Who was the one who initiated it and why?  You’re trying to defend your intentions to ruin his current relationship for your own selfish satisfaction which makes you look like a horrible person.  

[MoonGoodandHappy]

15 minutes ago, FreeXone said:

 

If he is openly communicating with you and responding fast while he knows he has a boyfriend he is opening the door. 

 

Wreck homes. Get him BACK

 

 

Yes, i texted him this morning and he responded in 1 minute. He watch all my stories, and respond even faster than when we were together.

[Danny789]

54 minutes ago, MoonGoodandHappy said:

 

But he watch all my stories, each one of them, he respond me quickly... This is what makes me think maybe i have a chance. And 5 minutes ago he responded to me by message at 7am... Like... he has a boyfriend but he keep on eye one me.... This makes me really think i could get him back.

If he wanted to be with you he would be with you, It’s as simple as that. He may still have feelings but told you that nothing is gonna happen because he loves the other person more

[Mr. Blue_Shirt]

Maybe seek a therapist 

[CristianGarcia]

40 minutes ago, MoonGoodandHappy said:

Yes, i texted him this morning and he responded in 1 minute. He watch all my stories, and respond even faster than when we were together.

Ok? I respond fast to guys that I’m putting no thought into. Lol 

 

He doesn’t care. If he did he wouldn’t have you as a back burner. Him saying “ maybe in the future” shows he knows he has you in his back pocket and he can get you whenever he feels like it. Which is why he’s putting more effort into someone else while you’re still giving him attention like a puppy. 
 

You shouldn’t want someone that messages their ex while they’re in a new relationship anyways. Shows lack of respect for you, him and his current situation. 

Edited February 8, 2023 by CristianGarcia

[#Beautiful]

if he'd leave his current partner for you or anyone else for that matter, please know that he would leave you the same way too. respect yourself 

[Dialamba]

Give up omg. 

[Kevin2803]

2 hours ago, MoonGoodandHappy said:

If you could see him you would be obsessed too. He is very intelligent (he's a doctor), he's the most beautiful man i ever seen, he is really really beautiful and he has a lot of charm. He has a fit physique and a good personality. When i was with him it was like a dream. This is why i want him so bad.

Besides his personality (which you mentioned last), you only want him back for superficial reasons? Let it go.

 

I get how you feel, atleast to some extent, but don‘t let it consume you. Things like „he watches every story, he answers fast“ probably means nothing.

[Pendulum]

Separate them - dig up nasty stuff about the current bf; or make some **** up, make him look like a cheater, then you slowly gaslight your ex into becoming your bf again = problem SOLVED

[Dolce Vita]

first, get close enough with your ex until he’ll eventually confide in you about the issues in his relationship. you need to make him see you as someone he can talk to about anything.

stalk his current bf on his socials and adopt the same traits/hobbies that he has. post regularly about the things you get up to. since your ex keeps tabs on you he will see similarities in you that he probably misses and the familiarity will make it easier for him to think about cheating.

what you’re doing is presenting yourself as an AVAILABLE OPTION because in a moment of weakness, these guys WILL seek you out. this should happen naturally if you really believe he wants you back anyways. good luck girlie!

[Gov Hooka]

2 hours ago, MoonGoodandHappy said:

 

But he watch all my stories, each one of them, he respond me quickly... This is what makes me think maybe i have a chance. And 5 minutes ago he responded to me by message at 7am... Like... he has a boyfriend but he keep an eye on me.... This makes me really think i could get him back.

He’s playing games with you. That alone should make him less attractive, he has no respect for his partner or you (considering he broke up with you) and is probably stringing you along because he knows you’re hooked. 

[Dekkan]

Respect yourself sis.

[Santhosh]

3 hours ago, MoonGoodandHappy said:

If you could see him you would be obsessed too. He is very intelligent (he's a doctor), he's the most beautiful man i ever seen, he is really really beautiful and he has a lot of charm. He has a fit physique and a good personality. When i was with him it was like a dream. This is why i want him so bad.

He's your ex for a reason 

 

So

 

NO