MoonGoodandHappy Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 (edited) So recently i tried to reach out to my ex boyfriend which i'm still in love, we broke up in 2021 and and since last January I've been talking to him again and I was really happy because I always think about him. I was very happy because for months he left me on "delivered" and now he talk to me again. I broke up with my current boyfriend 2 weeks ago and since i tried to get back my ex again because i'm still in love with him and now that i'm single again yesterday i asked him if we could met at a restaurant and he said that he was in a relationship (don't know if it's a boyfriend or girlfriend because he is bi). And he said maybe ond day we could meet at a restaurant but "nothing will happen because he is in a relationship"... And now i'm really really depressed about it and i want to know what to do to get my ex back ? Is it possible ? Edit : Since we talk again, he watch all my stories and respond to me very quickly. Like in a minute. This makes me think i could have a chance. Edited February 8, 2023 by MoonGoodandHappy
CottageHore Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 You don’t. You remind yourself he’s your ex and he left you. He’s moved on and you need to do the same. This is one of those moments where you need to deliberately practice self-love and deconstruct these thoughts about your ex and redirect your cognition and energy back to yourself. You don’t want him. You want what he represents. Go find that in yourself and then you will no doubt be able to find that in another person as well.
PoisonedIvy Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 You don’t [2] Learn to love yourself more, you don’t need a man.
wren Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 11 minutes ago, simplywohoo said: You don't . This guy is just playing you. You gotta do the tough work (which will be hard - will be good and bad days) and let him go for good. This guy will bring nothing but trouble.
Danny789 Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 You don’t, staying away is the only way to get over him. He probably felt comfortable enough to talk to you because he’s over it so you should do the same.
Specter Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 You "get them back" by moving on and living a healthy, productive life.
Jack. Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 Learn what you can from the relationship, appreciate the time you had with him and move on. There will be bigger and better dick elsewhere baby xx
MoonGoodandHappy Posted February 8, 2023 Author Posted February 8, 2023 (edited) 22 minutes ago, CottageHore said: You don’t. You remind yourself he’s your ex and he left you. He’s moved on and you need to do the same. This is one of those moments where you need to deliberately practice self-love and deconstruct these thoughts about your ex and redirect your cognition and energy back to yourself. You don’t want him. You want what he represents. Go find that in yourself and then you will no doubt be able to find that in another person as well. Omg but it's soo painful to do that. To be honest the fact he has a boyfriend made my day horrible. To be honnest i had the idea to met him again in several weeks because he said that we could one day, so i had thought that when we will see each other again in several weeks i could try to kiss him... but if you say that i should move on.... Edited February 8, 2023 by MoonGoodandHappy
Richmond Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 1 minute ago, Bloodflowers. said: You start being a homewrecker Only right answer
Mast Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 Move on. This isn't healthy and it really isn't fair to your other partner that you were texting your ex for months before you broke up.
Navy4Life Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 Girl why do you always insist on being in a relationship? Just stay single for a while, you’re clearly not ready for a relationship.
Distantconstellation Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 Just keep living your life and when he breaks up with this new person then try.
SoldierofLove Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 He’s your ex for a reason. This is an unhealthy obsession. You do not want to be the homewrecker. How you get him, or how you get him back in this case, is how you’re going to lose him. If you try to kiss him and he cheats on his current partner with you, you better believe that he will eventually cheat on you if you get back together. Move on. It’s for your own good. Stay single until you’re ready for a healthy relationship.
Power love Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 28 minutes ago, CottageHore said: You don’t. You remind yourself he’s your ex and he left you. He’s moved on and you need to do the same. This is one of those moments where you need to deliberately practice self-love and deconstruct these thoughts about your ex and redirect your cognition and energy back to yourself. You don’t want him. You want what he represents. Go find that in yourself and then you will no doubt be able to find that in another person as well.
BionicWooHoo Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 I hear you can get witches to cast love spells on Etsy so maybe try that
MoonGoodandHappy Posted February 8, 2023 Author Posted February 8, 2023 (edited) 10 minutes ago, SoldierofLove said: He’s your ex for a reason. This is an unhealthy obsession. You do not want to be the homewrecker. How you get him, or how you get him back in this case, is how you’re going to lose him. If you try to kiss him and he cheats on his current partner with you, you better believe that he will eventually cheat on you if you get back together. Move on. It’s for your own good. Stay single until you’re ready for a healthy relationship. If you could see him you would be obsessed too. He is very intelligent (he's a doctor), he's the most beautiful man i ever seen, he is really really beautiful and he has a lot of charm. He has a fit physique and a good personality. When i was with him it was like a dream. This is why i want him so bad. Edited February 8, 2023 by MoonGoodandHappy
Guest Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 8 minutes ago, BionicWooHoo said: I hear you can get witches to cast love spells on Etsy so maybe try that You may or may not be kidding, but OP please PLEASE stay away from magic (especially as it pertains to emotional manipulation of others) nothing good can come of it.
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