MusicFan98 Posted January 30, 2023 Posted January 30, 2023 So, there's this person that I'm really really really into, it's been a while since I haven't felt like this and I think I may have a chance with them but I'm having some trouble with myself... I really like this person and look up to them, I feel like they are sincere, sweet, beautiful and very special and because of that I kinda feel like, they deserve someone that's actually a good person too, see I feel like I've done so many terrible stuff that I honestly think I should get away from that person and just stay like this. So what should I do? Am I being stupid?
Big Bad Wolf Posted January 30, 2023 Posted January 30, 2023 So you don't think you deserve them because of your past? That shouldn't be a reason to move forward, don't block your own blessings. So long as you're making the needed adjustments to be a better version of yourself and treat others emotions with delicacy and care.
Raphy23 Posted January 30, 2023 Posted January 30, 2023 Your past doesn’t dictate your future. Looks like you looking up to this person means you want to be more like them. I say go for it
fauxtography Posted January 30, 2023 Posted January 30, 2023 Not saying this to be mean but like, if you're already having thoughts like this are you even secure enough to enter a relationship?
Digitalism Posted January 30, 2023 Posted January 30, 2023 Sounds like self sabotage and like you need to work on your self esteem If he doesn't accept you as yourself with all your past mistakes then he wasn't the one for you
CandleGuy Posted January 30, 2023 Posted January 30, 2023 You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else. Therapy to work through your past issues and whatever you are holding against yourself. Then you can chase the dick.
Guest Posted January 30, 2023 Posted January 30, 2023 2 hours ago, Big Bad Wolf said: So you don't think you deserve them because of your past? That shouldn't be a reason to move forward, don't block your own blessings. So long as you're making the needed adjustments to be a better version of yourself and treat others emotions with delicacy and care. 2 hours ago, Raphy23 said: Your past doesn’t dictate your future. Looks like you looking up to this person means you want to be more like them. I say go for it 2 hours ago, fauxtography said: Not saying this to be mean but like, if you're already having thoughts like this are you even secure enough to enter a relationship? 2 hours ago, Digitalism said: Sounds like self sabotage and like you need to work on your self esteem If he doesn't accept you as yourself with all your past mistakes then he wasn't the one for you 1 hour ago, CandleGuy said: You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else. Therapy to work through your past issues and whatever you are holding against yourself. Then you can chase the dick. /endthread tbh and it’s no shade
Cain Posted January 30, 2023 Posted January 30, 2023 5 hours ago, fauxtography said: Not saying this to be mean but like, if you're already having thoughts like this are you even secure enough to enter a relationship? Very this
MonsterJohn Posted January 30, 2023 Posted January 30, 2023 Love yourself sis, like everybody said. You deserve love and a good bf despites your flaws, mistakes
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