Armani? Posted January 25, 2023 Posted January 25, 2023 I usually am not attracted to someone sexually if I want to date them unless I'm first romantically attracted to them, so it doesn't have that often tbh Just recently, I get aroused just daydreaming about this girl I literally just started talking to just because I assume there's some possible deep intimacy & emotional bonding & I barely know her. Maybe I thought I could read her aura when I saw her in person without knowing her like that Spoiler @Devin @Keith
KillingYourCareer Posted January 25, 2023 Posted January 25, 2023 I think it's a pretty widespread mindset. I agree with you that I don't really enjoy doing stuff without emotional attraction.
Blue. Posted January 25, 2023 Posted January 25, 2023 Not to categorize anytime without the whole info set but demisexuality is a thing, there are a lot of us in the spectrum (I am heterosexual but I go through heterodemisexual phases quite often). Sexuality is a vast pool of possibilities, do not try to categorize yourself according to the sexual normativity roles.
Rotunda Posted January 25, 2023 Posted January 25, 2023 It’s not how I conceptualize relationships, but I wouldn’t say I find it unrealistic.
Alldeezy Posted January 25, 2023 Posted January 25, 2023 It's normal tbh, I myself a hopeless romantic but yeah can be hard. But I tend to me more sexually attractived to guys I barely know. Ones I do have deep and meaningful Thing with I don't feel it with. So when I sleep with them I'm daydreaming about something else So Idk.. guess it's different for me
Devin Posted January 25, 2023 Posted January 25, 2023 Its not unrealistic. You prob go thru a mental observation or fantasize on who you find attractive.
Armani? Posted March 10, 2023 Author Posted March 10, 2023 On 1/25/2023 at 6:12 PM, Devin said: Its not unrealistic. You prob go thru a mental observation or fantasize on who you find attractive. Just had to bump this but it's unrealistic
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