Khal Posted Monday at 03:17 PM Share Posted Monday at 03:17 PM 1 hour ago, Buffy said: So this is like a magical wish you want to come true? Neither then because both are non-consensual and A is rape. Also if these are the only two choices maybe that’s why you can’t have either one. Love yourself. Huh? The OP says Option A is getting to have sex with your crush, but he doesn't reciprocate your feelings. Having sex with someone you don't have feelings for is rape? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dussel_06 Posted Monday at 03:22 PM Share Posted Monday at 03:22 PM I have been with option B and it sucks. Basically he has feelings for me and he admitted that I’m special to him. However, he has a girlfriend and plans to have a normal family with kids and stuff. He’s maybe a closeted bisexual but because of judgement in our society, he can’t be out. Plus he’s also not into sex. He’s the kind of sex after marriage kinda of guy. Very conservative and religious. Soooo option A. I’ll take what I can get. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdrianNicki Posted Monday at 03:28 PM Share Posted Monday at 03:28 PM Maybe I'm weird but I always considered crushes to be someone who I am attracted to physicly not romanticly. I had to get to know the person better in order to connect with them romanticly. I had plenty of crushes throughout the years and it doesn't mean I connected with every single one. I just found them attractive, that's all. So, sex is the only option for me. I don't really view sex as this big "act of love" anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thatsmydemi Posted Monday at 03:32 PM Share Posted Monday at 03:32 PM A. What's the point of option B if nothing happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Technicolor Posted Monday at 03:32 PM Share Posted Monday at 03:32 PM I'll choose sex. The feeling of him not loving me back would hurt me for a minute but I would move on eventually. Option B is more bittersweet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buffy Posted Monday at 03:34 PM Share Posted Monday at 03:34 PM 12 minutes ago, Khal said: Huh? The OP says Option A is getting to have sex with your crush, but he doesn't reciprocate your feelings. Having sex with someone you don't have feelings for is rape? The OP re-worded their post. In the beginning it sounded like they wanted to wish or bewitch someone into having sex with you. If you’ve seen how wishes work in movies/shows, you’d know you’re putting a spell on someone to do something against their will in which case would not be consensual and just an act of fulfilling your fantasy. Both options are stupid anyways. Have some self-respect and love yourself, Op! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsterJohn Posted Monday at 03:41 PM Author Share Posted Monday at 03:41 PM 5 minutes ago, Buffy said: Both options are stupid anyways. Have some self-respect and love yourself, Op! Speak for yourself. If you have some self respect I don't think you would feel the need to attack and put stranger on the internet down for no reason Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buffy Posted Monday at 03:48 PM Share Posted Monday at 03:48 PM 1 minute ago, MonsterJohn said: Speak for yourself. If you have some self respect I don't think you would feel the need to attack and put stranger on the internet down for no reason You’re worth more than a sack of meat, so I don’t get why you’re limiting yourself to those 2 options. Both are pretty masochistic choices in the end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ABeyBraith Posted Monday at 03:51 PM Share Posted Monday at 03:51 PM 1 hour ago, Buffy said: So this is like a magical wish you want to come true? Neither then because both are non-consensual and A is rape. Also if these are the only two choices maybe that’s why you can’t have either one. Love yourself. You need therapy. Like I’m so serious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsterJohn Posted Monday at 03:51 PM Author Share Posted Monday at 03:51 PM Just now, Buffy said: You’re worth more than a sack of meat, so I don’t get why you’re limiting yourself to those 2 options. Both are pretty masochistic choices in the end. I didn't choose option A as I wrote in the OP. And the option B has nothing to do with self respect, there are many cases people loving each other can't be with each other. If there is an easier option of course no one would choose the 2 above, but then it's not the point of the thread here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KingBeyonce. Posted Monday at 04:10 PM Share Posted Monday at 04:10 PM Everyone saying A but I'd choose B lol. I can get sex without feelings anywhere. I'd rather feel like someone cares about me and likes me. Even if we can't be together romantically. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CottageHore Posted Monday at 04:15 PM Share Posted Monday at 04:15 PM What good would it do me to love someone and have them love me but never even get to be together physically or in any other way? I’d let him **** me and then leave, sounds ideal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BionicWooHoo Posted Monday at 04:46 PM Share Posted Monday at 04:46 PM I’ve already had sex w my crush and he ghosted me after several months of sex so I guess the first has already happened to me 🥲 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dark Poet Posted Monday at 04:49 PM Share Posted Monday at 04:49 PM 1 hour ago, Khal said: Huh? The OP says Option A is getting to have sex with your crush, but he doesn't reciprocate your feelings. Having sex with someone you don't have feelings for is rape? Maybe they refer to the emotional rape. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Post Malone Posted Monday at 05:05 PM Share Posted Monday at 05:05 PM erm while would i rather live in torture over getting a cute quick nut Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsterJohn Posted Monday at 05:25 PM Author Share Posted Monday at 05:25 PM 19 minutes ago, Post Malone said: erm while would i rather live in torture over getting a cute quick nut Idk, if you can't completely separate physical sex with your feeling, option A might be emotional damaging option B seems like bring nothing, but loving someone and having them loving you back can be bittersweet feeling I guess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreampop Posted Monday at 05:28 PM Share Posted Monday at 05:28 PM B happens to me all the time so I’ll go with A to experience something different Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ONOPKA Posted Monday at 06:19 PM Share Posted Monday at 06:19 PM option b sounds like a lot of heartache so i'm gonna take the option a sex and find a new man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alyssa Edwards Posted Monday at 10:07 PM Share Posted Monday at 10:07 PM 8 hours ago, Buffy said: So this is like a magical wish you want to come true? Neither then because both are non-consensual and A is rape. Also if these are the only two choices maybe that’s why you can’t have either one. Love yourself. You must be fun at parties. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ciel Posted Monday at 11:16 PM Share Posted Monday at 11:16 PM B I think cause A would just make it worse for me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quiqui4eva Posted Tuesday at 03:28 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 03:28 PM Sex because there’s a high chance I’ll be disappointed in their performance and fall out of love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenMachine Posted Tuesday at 04:46 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 04:46 PM Option B sounds more torturous and tragic. What's the point of your crush loving you back if you can't stay together ? I'll take the A because it would be fun in the moment anyways, then cry for weeks because it's not reciprocated, then get over it and move on into someone new I already made out with a crush who didn't love me back anyways Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hallad173 Posted Friday at 04:40 AM Share Posted Friday at 04:40 AM Option B kinda gives Bromance vibes and I’ve been there and done that. I’d prefer that than Option A , knowing that the guy that is pounding me or being pounded (Vers sh*t)is absolutely not into you and just using you before they scoot away so you can’t try to cuddle or kiss them afterward is such a boner killer 😂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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