RunUpDoneUp Posted January 6, 2023 Posted January 6, 2023 Talking to random people at wherever it's socially acceptable is a start. Striking up random convos with family members, neighbours and even strangers at the grocery store or intransit. Obviously you need to read whether someone is occupied or not before doing so. A simple "hi, how are you" or "anything new with you" goes a long way. Most people want to be listened to as well, so once you get them going, it's you who needs to cut the convo short in no time, lol. For dating, really it's all about cost and loss. Not in the winners and losers way but in the, "I can gain x, instead of missing y" by approaching this person I find attractive or want to get to know. I don't think the feeling of nervousness in your gut ever truly goes away but you learn to use it as a motivator instead of a deterant. People being weird and or misunderstanding each other is a normal thing, don't expect yourself to be above this, it's expected that you botch a convo here and there.
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