Are you kind to yourself?

[Europe]

I was watching this healthcare instructional video and at the 15 minute mark the girl urges viewers to be kind / compassionate towards themselves, but does anyone actually do that? Let's find out.

 

[EtherealCat]

ill start being kind to myself when i deserve it

[Saddy]

32 minutes ago, EtherealCat said:

ill start being kind to myself when i deserve it

[Sombre]

no tbh, beating myself up does wonders to my productivity 

[GentleEarthquake]

No

I have an ugly face

I have an awful body

I'm not smart

I'm not talented at anything related to science or art

I'm extremely clumsy

I'm bad at making friends

I'm mentally unstable

Etc.

 

[Pheromosa]

Yes, one of the only people I’m kind to 

Edited January 3, 2023 by Pheromosa

[M.R.]

It depends on the day.

[Cloudy]

Not at all

[Virgos Groove]

Not really, but I'm trying to change that

[brenda-walsh]

yes because i deserve it 

 

it took me a long time to get here though

[Grumpy Cat]

3 hours ago, GentleEarthquake said:

No

I have an ugly face

I have an awful body

I'm not smart

I'm not talented at anything related to science or art

I'm extremely clumsy

I'm bad at making friends

I'm mentally unstable

Etc.

 

and you have an atrl acc

[Grumpy Cat]

op- depends on the day

[Escape]

On 1/3/2023 at 9:29 PM, GentleEarthquake said:

No

I have an ugly face

I have an awful body

I'm not smart

I'm not talented at anything related to science or art

I'm extremely clumsy

I'm bad at making friends

I'm mentally unstable

Etc.

 

Me too sis, me too.

Edited January 4, 2023 by Avariko

[Alldeezy]

no! I'm probably like my own worst enemy. 

[Alldeezy]

11 hours ago, GentleEarthquake said:

No

I have an ugly face

I have an awful body

I'm not smart

I'm not talented at anything related to science or art

I'm extremely clumsy

I'm bad at making friends

I'm mentally unstable

Etc.

 

100% me 

[Bencharmer]

13 hours ago, GentleEarthquake said:

No

I have an ugly face

I have an awful body

I'm not smart

I'm not talented at anything related to science or art

I'm extremely clumsy

I'm bad at making friends

I'm mentally unstable

Etc.

 

Guess what, i could once relate to all those parts you listed.

 

You know what? Those were thought forms i actually nourished everyday. The more you put energy into those ideas, the more it becomes a reality for you.

 

If i learned something is you will always find people who are more intelligent, hot, rich, popular than you.... And the same for the opposite.

 

Also people most of people you look up to aren't immuned to those ideas to. When you saw "beauty stardards" as Selena Gomez or Bella Hadid crying about those subjects, you realise that beautiful faces, beautiful bodies are an idea, that's all.

 

The only thing i can advice is recognizing that you have, feeding your success, celebrating your victory, no matter big or small they look to you... The more you will allow you to lift yourself up, the less you will be entilted to ideas that you created yourself 

 

Edited January 4, 2023 by Bencharmer

[Cyanide]

Sometimes

[GentleEarthquake]

5 hours ago, Bencharmer said:

The only thing i can advice is recognizing that you have, feeding your success, celebrating your victory, no matter big or small they look to you... The more you will allow you to lift yourself up, the less you will be entilted to ideas that you created yourself 

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[Stellar1103]

Always 

[MonsterJohn]

I'm trying to be more of that but it's hard sometimes when I know I clearly messed up sth

[terrorblade]

my meal & sleep schedules have been in shambles for a long time so no

Edited January 4, 2023 by terrorblade

[Europe]

21 hours ago, Bencharmer said:

Guess what, i could once relate to all those parts you listed.

 

You know what? Those were thought forms i actually nourished everyday. The more you put energy into those ideas, the more it becomes a reality for you.

 

If i learned something is you will always find people who are more intelligent, hot, rich, popular than you.... And the same for the opposite.

 

Also people most of people you look up to aren't immuned to those ideas to. When you saw "beauty stardards" as Selena Gomez or Bella Hadid crying about those subjects, you realise that beautiful faces, beautiful bodies are an idea, that's all.

 

The only thing i can advice is recognizing that you have, feeding your success, celebrating your victory, no matter big or small they look to you... The more you will allow you to lift yourself up, the less you will be entilted to ideas that you created yourself 

 

Aw this is such a sweet comment

[PillowCase]

I am kind to everyone but me

[fountain]

Yes, it is a very important thing to always give yourself grace. 

[Aethereal]

Sometimes.