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Is it OK for gay teachers to come out in class?


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My teachers would mention their husbands and wives all the time in school.  Not sure why gays can’t do the same.  

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this shouldn’t be an issue in the year of our lorde 2023

 

there’s people that are dying @Genius1111

Posted

I never thought about it. Personally I never cared about my teacher's sexuality and it's not my bussiness. It could help to raise awareness tho, a trans friend of mine is a teacher and his students and their parents have taken it well fortunately, unlike some horror stories told here and there :gaycat6:

Posted

Come out? Hell no. Be themselves? Absolutely. 

Posted

students literally ASKED ME if i was gay. if you don’t say it, they’ll probably be gossiping about it regardless 

Posted

i mean, if it comes out in casually conversation, “my husband and I went to on a trip to…” sure. I dont think the teacher has to make a direct announcement though

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10 minutes ago, JanStan said:

Come out? Hell no. Be themselves? Absolutely. 

Can you elaborate this? lol.

Posted

Yeah. Straight teachers usually do those PowerPoints on the first day where they talk about their spouses/kids so a gay teacher should be able to as well.

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Kids gossip about it regardless so it’s not like they will be shocked 

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I would've loved it if my 7th grade math teacher came out in class. My God, he was hot. :jonny:

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It honestly depends on what this means.

 

LGBT teachers shouldn’t have to hide their identity and experiences, but why are you standing in front of your class and announcing that you’re gay/trans/nb?

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No, not purposefully. Teach the curriculum.

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34 minutes ago, Nashe said:

Can you elaborate this? lol.

They don't need to say "Hi students my name is mike, i'm 32, i like pizza and i'm gay" but "hi students my name is mike, i'm 32, i like pizza and my husband loves it too".

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I wouldn’t say they should “come out” but if they have a photo of their significant other on their desk they should be able to say who it is.

 

 

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1 hour ago, Pikachoo said:

i mean, if it comes out in casually conversation, “my husband and I went to on a trip to…” sure. I dont think the teacher has to make a direct announcement though

 

38 minutes ago, OnikaSlays said:

It honestly depends on what this means.

 

LGBT teachers shouldn’t have to hide their identity and experiences, but why are you standing in front of your class and announcing that you’re gay/trans/nb?

Basically this. It should just be normalised without it having to even be a thing.

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This shouldn't even be a question

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Depends where you live, safety is more important than coming out if you live in Russia or Qatar for example

 

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If it’s just a casual thing sure nothing wrong with that since heterosexual teachers do it all the time. As long as they(gay or straight) don’t bring their personal issues from work to disrupt students learning. 

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2 hours ago, vale9001 said:

They don't need to say "Hi students my name is mike, i'm 32, i like pizza and i'm gay" but "hi students my name is mike, i'm 32, i like pizza and my husband loves it too".

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Posted

Yes lol, teachers always talk about their personal lives to some degree in the classroom, and its completely acceptable for teachers to state their sexual orientation to their students regardless of the grade. 

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Why would it not be? :psyduck:


I've had so many straight teachers talk to us literal children/teens about their divorces and ****, let the gays have something too

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Yes.

 

Be mindful of the fact that homophobic parents do not see these statements as different:

  • "I am gay."
  • Male Teacher: "My husband and I went to the zoo this past weekend."

Trying to be clever by coming up with some contrived distinction only gives more room for homophobes to persecute queer people.

Posted

Yes, next question.

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So many teachers when I was at school mentioned their husbands/wives/family members from time to time. One of my teachers told me she and her husband got married in a registry office and honeymooned in a caravan. It was relevant to the class topic and nobody ever took issue with it or anything like that. 

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