Incel Gay posts questionable take on TT, do you agree?

[GotMyBlueprint]

I think social media just exposed how juvinile we millenials act, not only the gays with their Regina-George-wanna-be, high school mindset and personalities, but everyone in general is. Gay millenials need to leave zoomers alone, and not attack them cus they're tired of the incessant need to oversexualize everything, everywhere..

[FreeXone]

Ummm since when can gay men be incels?

 

But I’ll take a bite and say this. There is nothing with sexually expressing yourself. Some gay men can be cringe with it and make it their whole personality but go find you a conservative gay then. There are plenty of them as well lol.

I also feel men kind of peak in their mid 30s in sexual CONFIDENCE. You know what you want, You know what you like,  You still have good libido, and if you took care of yourself you should still have your looks. 
 

But as to why he is acting like gen z aren’t a pile of whores is Beyond me. I have so many 18-22 yo hitting me up and they seem FULLY EXPERIENCED lol

 

 

 

Edited December 25, 2022 by FreeXone

[HRH]

He was making some points untill he brought in whiteness into it and tried claiming that straight men don't act this way. Straight men are even worse so let's not.

 

But yeah, gays who are so open about their sex lives, fetishes, post about it online and make it their entire personalities are disgusting and an embarrassment to the community. Obviously, they shouldn't even have to represent anyone, but that's how it works when you are a minority and this type of behaviour is doing no one any favours. We get it, you are horny and you love sex, you have degenerate fetishes and want everyone to know about them, you are scared of actual relationships, you love orgies and drugs, you can't stop thinking about sex for two minutes, you love being degraded or degrading others, you are into men way older/younger than you. Now try to find actual personality and stop acting like a sex obsessed lunatic.

 

[RunUpDoneUp]

I thought tiktoks were supposed to be short? Also is this missing context? He just sounds whiny and like his hole hasn't been visited and he's mad about it.

[Mean Trees]

4 hours ago, Communion said:

 

 

I think (?) @Mean Trees is trying to comment on the reality that society coerces or demands elements of sexual exploitation - and the ability of being sexually exploited ("desirability") - as social cachet that determines individuals' worth and evaluating whether these elements of society are beneficial or harmful.

 

It's not a discussion of ****-shaming individuals (or individual choices and thus morality), but about the material reality of society valuing sexual "desirability" the way it does. And how it's fruitless to try and ignore something in which society is trying to coerce one into. Deciding not to be sexual won't stop the emphasis on how sex impacts one's worth in society.

 

The first guy is not some random person - he's an influencer who is trying to mark his appeal on his sexual desirability. The 2nd gay is silly though because their critiques are about the person as an individual, criticizing them for being "cringe" or "desperate" which doesn't articulate the real issue with a society that prioritizes and overly values sexual worth and the ability to be sexually exploited.

 

Though it's a tough convo cause I see both sides and thus don't really fall on one side (especially when we move away from thirst traps and into people whose actual labor is sex work). I think a societal demand to turn your body into a commodity for consumption is harmful but also don't feel good restricting choice.

Thank you so much!!!!! You are truly my second brain!

[brazil]

On 12/24/2022 at 2:59 PM, InventedGays said:

Also this is the person serving that "hot take" 

 

When someone is so bothered by something that doesn't directly affect them, you bet there is hypocrisy involved. He probably got ignored by some of these Rob A. In life and is petty about it

[terrorblade]

so all over the place

[PrettyHurts]

20 hours ago, HRH said:

He was making some points untill he brought in whiteness into it and tried claiming that straight men don't act this way. Straight men are even worse so let's not.

 

But yeah, gays who are so open about their sex lives, fetishes, post about it online and make it their entire personalities are disgusting and an embarrassment to the community. Obviously, they shouldn't even have to represent anyone, but that's how it works when you are a minority and this type of behaviour is doing no one any favours. We get it, you are horny and you love sex, you have degenerate fetishes and want everyone to know about them, you are scared of actual relationships, you love orgies and drugs, you can't stop thinking about sex for two minutes, you love being degraded or degrading others, you are into men way older/younger than you. Now try to find actual personality and stop acting like a sex obsessed lunatic.

 

You don’t have to follow/pay attention to them 

[brooklyndaddy]

Rob Anderson is a corny millennial gay, yes, and he makes me cringe. But I’m not sure it really reflects a “problem” in gay culture. And I bet you PLENTY of equally cringe and sex-hungry millennial gays swiped up consenting to whatever popper fueled foursome with ugly harnesses was about to ensue. So where’s the issue? Yes it’s cringe and a turn off for me personally but… so what lol. Consenting adults 

Edited December 27, 2022 by brooklyndaddy

[as-usual]

Gen Z in general are more conservative and puritanical, but I think this person was just in the mood to be mean. Someone being horny on main isn’t that deep and Rob A is probably just doing it because it’s his brand. Not everyone is a repressed gaycel, and equally not everyone wants to show the world their ****. Make your own choices but shaming gay men for expressing sexuality isn’t a serve. It’s just old fashioned ‘pick me’ behaviour.
 

it’s giving ‘I’m a good gay, not one of those deviants’
 

There is also a neoliberal tendency to unironically (and maybe accidentally) lean into right wing conservative ideas of morality atm. All the while thinking it’s somehow progressive. 

 

If you want equality and equity , don’t be rushing online to infantilise people or shame them for being sexual beings. It’s just social conservatism.
 

If it don’t apply, let it fly. 

[BionicWooHoo]

It’s giving holier than thou I’m not like other girls energy. Like I bet he thinks he’s soooo progressive 

[DonSiblon]

On 12/25/2022 at 10:41 AM, Chris said:

The "35 year old guy" can do whatever the hell he wants and can post whatever the hell he wants.

 

That gayrod with the obnoxious voice needs to get his gay ass beat.

This.

 

Like shut up  and what is this Gen Z obsession with with being Gen Z and comparing it with other gens? Millens never did that. Life is going to hit them real hard and fast once they start aging

[Elusive Chanteuse]

It doesn't bother anyone how puritanical the newer generation of gays are? I've noticed this trend on social media.

 

[Elusive Chanteuse]

On 12/25/2022 at 4:38 PM, HRH said:

 

 

But yeah, gays who are so open about their sex lives, fetishes, post about it online and make it their entire personalities are disgusting and an embarrassment to the community. Obviously, they shouldn't even have to represent anyone, but that's how it works when you are a minority and this type of behaviour is doing no one any favours. We get it, you are horny and you love sex, you have degenerate fetishes and want everyone to know about them, you are scared of actual relationships, you love orgies and drugs, you can't stop thinking about sex for two minutes, you love being degraded or degrading others, you are into men way older/younger than you. Now try to find actual personality and stop acting like a sex obsessed lunatic.

 

This is really shameless honestly. Who in the community hurt you?

[HRH]

6 minutes ago, Elusive Chanteuse said:

This is really shameless honestly. Who in the community hurt you?

No one. Feeling called out?

[Pacify Him]

No. He’s right. It’s why I prefer Gen Z gays over millenial gays. I’m a millenial myself, I know them full well

[Elusive Chanteuse]

1 hour ago, HRH said:

No one. Feeling called out?

 No, I'm not ashamed of gay sex or being sexual so.... I'm also not a white gay living my best **** life.

But anyways....There is clearly something deeper there based on that post. Look inward and maybe a therapist.

[HRH]

1 hour ago, Elusive Chanteuse said:

 No, I'm not ashamed of gay sex or being sexual so.... I'm also not a white gay living my best **** life.

But anyways....There is clearly something deeper there based on that post. Look inward and maybe a therapist.

Yes, I need a therapist cause I find people who base their whole life and personality on sex to be embarrassing. What a weird advice lmao

 

[Machete]

I didn't hear a single lie. Old gays (+30) are embarrassing when they act like that.

[Archetype]

If you’re 35 and still acting like this, get your f*cking life together.  Go to rehab.  

[Fruity]

Is there supposed to be something wrong with being 35 (or 45 or 55 for that matter) and advertising that you're sexually active like?  Yeh it's a bit tacky but the sex negativity of gen-zs and many losers on twitter/this forum/elsewhere agreeing with him is cringier. Like damn live your life and quit worrying about how other people with different interests behave

Edited December 28, 2022 by Fruity

[The7thStranger]

He's so incredibly inarticulate that nothing he's saying makes any sense.

 

And I'm sorry, but there is no reason to hate on Rob Anderson. He's harmless.

Edited December 28, 2022 by The7thStranger

[SinnerCity]

Bold of him to assume that he can date someone with that nasty judgmental attitude 

[Crazy Lights]

Why does he care what a 35 year old is doing? Rob is grown man and can do what he wants. Why was he trying to prove his point (which made no sense since he’s so horribly inarticulate) by talking about generations? 

[CandleGuy]

The internet is so ******* annoying like why does everyone have to have an opinion on what everyone else is doing. Guy was horny and posted a thirst trap hoping to hook up. End of story. It's cringe but you don't need to give a powerpoint presentation about it.