discussion Tips for going to a concert alone?

[Jotham]

I'm planning on seeing Carrie Underwood's concert this weekend, but none of my friends listen to country music so I'm going to be alone. I was wondering if y'all have any tips for going to concerts alone? I'm used to going to movie theatres alone but I feel a little awkward about going to concerts by myself, especially since I don't have much experience with going to concerts to begin with. What advice do you have and what seats do you recommend getting?

[Beyonnaise]

Talk to other people who look like they're alone. If they aren't interested in talking it's not the end of the world, you won't see them again. I've made friends at concerts I went to alone.

[Thinking Of You]

You will never see those people ever again. 
 

As soon as those lights go out, everyone’s attention will be on the artist. There’s no reason to feel awkward about it.

[dussel_06]

Watch out for those girlies or cliques that spot loners, take videos of them then post in social media. If you found some of these groups, stay away  or tell them your companion is just using the washroom. They will laugh at you and take pictures of you. 

 

 

[Ewan Chaos]

I've never gone to a big artist's concert like that, but I go to concerts by myself all the time. Just find a spot you like, chill, if you're near people who seem friendly feel free to strike up a conversation but you shouldn't need to feel awkward just standing around in waiting for the opener/waiting for Carrie since everyone else is just standing around too.

 

Make sure your phone is as charged as possible. If you think you'll be in a pit and will wanna leave for drinks/bathroom definitely try to make a friend or two to save your spot. Have fun!

[Raver]

Don’t over think it just do it 

 

[Breakdown]

I always go to concerts alone because I have no friends and it's fine.

As soon as the concert is about to start you will not care anymore. You'll be happy you attended, you will regret it if you don't. 
And there's always some other people who go alone, that comforts me. 

I mostly prefer seats instead of standing though and when possible pick a seat next to another loner lol, but when I visited an all standing concert lately, even as a socially awkward person I got into a conversation with the people in front and behind of the line and we spent the concert together. But even when it doesn't happen, the concert itself is always a pleasant experience.

[katara]

What you asking for tips? Just do it 

[katara]

19 minutes ago, dussel_06 said:

Watch out for those girlies or cliques that spot loners, take videos of them then post in social media. If you found some of these groups, stay away  or tell them your companion is just using the washroom. They will laugh at you and take pictures of you. 

 

 

Wut? Never heard of something like this. Sounds like fear projection to me. 

[Lipgloss]

Don't do it, it isn't fun. 

[PoisonedIvy]

54 minutes ago, Thinking Of You said:

You will never see those people ever again. 
 

As soon as those lights go out, everyone’s attention will be on the artist. There’s no reason to feel awkward about it.

 

45 minutes ago, Raver said:

Don’t over think it just do it 

 

Yes to both of these

 

1 minute ago, Lipgloss said:

Don't do it, it isn't fun. 

no to this

 

I just saw the 1975 by myself last night. I’ve also seen Lorde and Ellie Goulding and The Neighbourhood alone. A lot of my favorite concert experiences have been on my own. Like it’s been said, the people around you don’t care. You might meet someone who talks to you or interacts with you a little but even then, the focus of everyone is on the artist. Just direct your attention forward, dance sing and have a great time.

[JustLikeHoney]

Do it. One time I went to a Madonna concert alone because it was a last minute decision. I bought the ticket from a person outside the venue the day of. 

 

I had a great time. I made friends with the people next to me. 

[JustLikeHoney]

52 minutes ago, dussel_06 said:

Watch out for those girlies or cliques that spot loners, take videos of them then post in social media. If you found some of these groups, stay away  or tell them your companion is just using the washroom. They will laugh at you and take pictures of you. 

 

 

Imagine being this kind of pathetic. 

[khalyan]

I saw Florence + the Machine's High as Hope tour by myself and it was great.  I was able to get a general admission ticket, wait early without having any friends complain, get a good spot at the front and squeeze in since I'm only one person, and enjoy the concert without any distractions.  Bring AirPods and a portable charger, just so you can listen to music or watch something on your phone while you wait for the concert to start and then just enjoy the show!  When the concert starts, nobody will be concerned with who's there by themselves.

[Last Boy on Earth]

I don’t understand how is there any issue. Concerts are not a place to socialize anyways just go and focus on the experience

[KillingYourCareer]

Just keep in mind there'll be thousands of people who like the same thing you're into, it will be very easy to make friends!

[LoveInStereo]

I've had tons of fun going to shows alone. In my experience, it's easier if you have seats > general admission/standing area because some crowds can be pushy to get a good spot & it's harder to stand up for yourself if you're all by yourself. But not 1 person will judge you or even take notice of you being alone

[Virgos Groove]

Just do it. I went to the FN tour alone and had a great time. Waiting in line is the hardest part, but once the show starts it really doesn't matter if you have company or not.

[XxxKatyCatxxX]

I always go alone on concerts, it's not a big deal. Just go and enjoy your time. When the music starts, nobody will look at you. 

[magazine]

Don't go (yet)

[harwee]

I go alone plenty. Especially with costs of concerts, planning with a group is tricky.

 

Bring a power bank.

IF you don't feel like talking to anyone entertain yourself. Literally 90% is doing the same (even those with someone).

By the time you get in, its dark and nobody cares about anyone but themselves and the stage.

[MadonnasBoyfriend]

You just show up and sit on your seat. Talk to your neighbor I guess. I saw Madonna and Britney alone and chit chatted with neighbors 

[sweetblindness]

Don’t listen to the negative people in here. I prefer going to concerts alone - I can eat at whatever restaurant I want, I’m not at the mercy of friends to stop on the road for a bathroom break or to get food, I don’t have to worry about anyone not enjoying themselves, I can stay after and try to meet the artist (if applicable) without worrying about a friend who may want to go home, if it’s GA I can wait for hours before the show to get a good spot without worrying about a friend joining me, etc. It’s really liberating and I highly encourage you to go. Just go, chat with some people if you feel like it (you already have an appreciation for the artist in common, so ask their favorite album or song!), and enjoy the show without the burdens of going with others. 

[Guest]

3 hours ago, Raver said:

Don’t over think it just do it 

 

 

[John Slayne]

don't overthink it, people don't care about you and are there to see the artist. don't let your fears and anxieties stop you from living your life and doing things you want to do. i'm sure you will have a good time on your own as long as you enjoy the artist!