Anomaly Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 (edited) 12 hours ago, Demi Lovato said: spanking doesn’t teach anyone anything, it just creates fear Fear works for better or for worse. I’m pretty sure like 75% of my productivity in my life has been the result of some level of fear. Gets the job done. I’m in strong muscular shape —-> result of fear of being attacked Got good grades in school —-> result of fear of parents punishing me I do good work at my job —-> result of fear of being fired and being on the street Keep up with my looks —-> result of fear of being the ugly and single loser of the family Edited October 11, 2022 by Anomaly 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsterJohn Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 Spanking only shows that you completely lost the control of the situation that being said, white people need to learn how to educate their kids, many white kids are incredibly spoiled and disrespectful Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ricardo1993 Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 12 hours ago, Ombre said: Tbh its akward having this conversation with white people because I always feel like they view us as savages when I tell them spanking/hitting were commonplace in our household/culture Yeah I noticed some white people love judging Asian and Latino families that spank their children. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trash Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 Spank me mom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yassskween Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 She's right 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robert Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 I don’t think it’s the best approach but it’s not the end of the world either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GraceRandolph Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 7 hours ago, RussianRoulette said: One older neighbour of mine never beat her kid. I remember one time her daugher was 6 or 7 and my mum and her were chatting outside on a sunday and the little loser comes with a bat and hits her mum then spits on her and tells her to get inside. The mum then proceeds to get teary eyed and goes inside the house. If my child would do that to me... You realize there are other forms of discipline besides beating a child right? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GraceRandolph Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 25 minutes ago, Ricardo1993 said: Yeah I noticed some white people love judging Asian and Latino families that spank their children. This thread is about a white woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
applestar Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 maybe we wouldn't have so many school shooters if people actually disciplined their children 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K@rm@ Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 I agree with Kelly and I can’t with that tabloid digging up a old as interview and her to respond to it. She will discipline her kids the way she seems fit and should not feel the need to explain or comment on it. There is a difference between spanking and abusing your kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RussianRoulette Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 28 minutes ago, GraceRandolph said: You realize there are other forms of discipline besides beating a child right? What would you have done in that situation? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ImsoLOUD Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 13 hours ago, liver said: yall should've been spanked more as well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GraceRandolph Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 2 minutes ago, RussianRoulette said: What would you have done in that situation? Put the kid in a time out and take their toys away. The fact that some people can't discipline without going to spanking or hitting immediately is a big problem. I guess it's not surprising Kelly is divorced with a **** relationship with her dad if she solves problems with violence. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fuecoco Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 So what? It’s her kids. It’s her choice how she raises and chooses to discipline them - as long as she’s not bludgeoning them to a pulp. Maybe if more parents spanked their kids, maybe some of these kids won’t be such a**holes in society. And some of you sure deserve it considering how most of the internet is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GraceRandolph Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 Just now, Fuecoco said: So what? It’s her kids. It’s her choice how she raises and chooses to discipline them - as long as she’s not bludgeoning them to a pulp. Maybe if more parents spanked their kids, maybe some of these kids won’t be such a**holes in society. And some of you sure deserve it considering how most of the internet is. All these pro-spanking people act like spanking isn't still super common, and proven to NOT be helpful for kids as discipline. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
plasticboy Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 8 hours ago, tiagol88 said: i mean...my parents spanked me like 3 times and i can tell you i still remember why they did it, what i had done and that i never did those 3 things again But if you mean those parents that slap their kids around like it's nothing...is there even a point? You can't call that parenting for sure. this is a VERY good distinction and that kind of common sense I was looking for in this thread. I feel like I'm just bouncing from one extreme to the other reading these posts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ATRL Moderator MissedTheTrain Posted October 11, 2022 ATRL Moderator Share Posted October 11, 2022 50 minutes ago, GraceRandolph said: I guess it's not surprising Kelly is divorced with a **** relationship with her dad if she solves problems with violence. This is an absolutely gross thing to say. Kelly's dad abandoned her when she was a child. Putting a blanket generalization like "she solves her problems with violence" is being ridiculously obtuse. Spanking is obviously not the first and only thing she does to discipline her kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xDiamondx Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 51 minutes ago, GraceRandolph said: Put the kid in a time out and take their toys away. The fact that some people can't discipline without going to spanking or hitting immediately is a big problem. I guess it's not surprising Kelly is divorced with a **** relationship with her dad if she solves problems with violence. Her dad chose to walk away from her when she was just a kid. Grow up and realize the two issues aren't related. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOOMBAYAH Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 (From someone who got beats growing up) I’m never beating my kids, lol. From a young age I saw it as cruel. I remember me and my only other black friend in middle school bonding over how we wished we had white parents sometimes so we could have soft parenting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GraceRandolph Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 5 minutes ago, MissedTheTrain said: This is an absolutely gross thing to say. Kelly's dad abandoned her when she was a child. Putting a blanket generalization like "she solves her problems with violence" is being ridiculously obtuse. Spanking is obviously not the first and only thing she does to discipline her kids. 2 minutes ago, xDiamondx said: Her dad chose to walk away from her when she was just a kid. Grow up and realize the two issues aren't related. I'm being harsh, but this thread is way oot. I have a friend who has back problems because her dad slapped her back so much as a kid. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jqnetto Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 a child beater Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xDiamondx Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 1 minute ago, GraceRandolph said: I'm being harsh, but this thread is way oot. I have a friend who has back problems because her dad slapped her back so much as a kid. I understand. Divorces don't necessarily correlate in the way you were implying in the other post, is my only criticism. On the other hand, my parents never ever used spanking on us as kids so I never understood this method anyway. Just noticed that white people (generally) don't discipline their kids in a healthier ways and even then they don't discipline as much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ab1818 Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 1 hour ago, GraceRandolph said: Put the kid in a time out and take their toys away. The fact that some people can't discipline without going to spanking or hitting immediately is a big problem. I guess it's not surprising Kelly is divorced with a **** relationship with her dad if she solves problems with violence. I don’t ever respond to weird, hateful posts like this, but this response shows who you are. Spanking is a controversial topic, but to say this about someone makes me feel like a lot of the responses here are correct and a lot of you have a “holier/ better than you” attitude… when many of you don’t even have children. If this is your response to this, you should probably check yourself first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
getinthezone Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 i could never hit my children... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charot Posted October 11, 2022 Share Posted October 11, 2022 3 hours ago, ChapelHooker said: I’m so tired of y’all saying that caring for human decency is being over sensitive. Gives me the same vibe of those people who say “buzzwords!!” when someone says the word “feminist”. Like, are we adults here? The American Academy Of Pediatrics On Spanking Children: Don't Do It, Ever. And I'm so tired of y'all SJWs making a big deal out of everything. Maybe you're the problem lol 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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