terrorblade Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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ChapelHooker Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 1 hour ago, Guthix said: I mean, you’re in control. Calorie deficit and exercise. No need to play victim unless there’s an underlying reason like a medical issue. And only reason I’m being this blatant about it is because I’m in the same (but opposite) circumstance by being a twig. That’s like me saying nothing I can ever do will gain me weight or muscles, which is false - I just don’t want to commit to it. I also committed myself to a gym 4-6 days a week for 2 years straight. I saw results, but not enough for me to continue committing to it as I’ve always hated working out. No one else’s fault but mine I ******* hate this website so much like… literally worse than r*ddit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guthix Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 3 minutes ago, ChapelHooker said: I ******* hate this website so much like… literally worse than r*ddit Why? Because Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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wastedpotential Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 I take good care of myself by eating right and exercising frequently, and I want to be with someone with a similar lifestyle, and my lifestyle generally precludes obesity Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChapelHooker Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 1 minute ago, wastedpotential said: I take good care of myself by eating right and exercising frequently, and I want to be with someone with a similar lifestyle, and my lifestyle generally precludes obesity What if someone is fat but eats right and exercises frequently? All of y’all need to just say it as it is: you don’t think fat people are attractive. This whole “well, they don’t live a healthy lifestyle!!” story is a facade and we fat people know it x 12 minutes ago, Guthix said: Why? Because because it’s none of your business and they didn’t ask. People opening up about their body is not an invitation for critique. its condescending. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Jobs Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 1 hour ago, Guthix said: I mean, you’re in control. Calorie deficit and exercise. No need to play victim unless there’s an underlying reason like a medical issue. And only reason I’m being this blatant about it is because I’m in the same (but opposite) circumstance by being a twig. That’s like me saying nothing I can ever do will gain me weight or muscles, which is false - I just don’t want to commit to it. I also committed myself to a gym 4-6 days a week for 2 years straight. I saw results, but not enough for me to continue committing to it as I’ve always hated working out. No one else’s fault but mine Y’all need some self love and therapy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UnusualBoy Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 No. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BadHabits Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 No. I am very slim myself and it runs in our whole family. My Mum would probably low-key fat-shame him, without meaning to. We can be friends but I have never found a fat-guy attractive. I have found some overweight guys attractive. Chubby-fit, Chris Pratt is a good example. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roberto Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 Honestly, it's all about the hygiene. If the guy is obese and is clean as hell, I would totally date him. Not here for skinny/"hot" smelly men, tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PoisonPill Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 No. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PoisonPill Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 1 hour ago, ChapelHooker said: What if someone is fat but eats right and exercises frequently? I have never personally known anyone who is very overweight/obese who exercises frequently and eats healthy. Perhaps that exists though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theshigo Washidu Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tropez Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 34 minutes ago, PoisonPill said: I have never personally known anyone who is very overweight/obese who exercises frequently and eats healthy. Perhaps that exists though. I can see exercising frequently and being overweight. There's a lot of powerlifters for instance that are, simply because they are focused on different things. You can exercise a lot, but if your diet isn't there you'll just have lots of fat and muscle. But eating healthy? I think that's not possible unless there's a serious medical condition. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sharapov Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 Absolutely not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gesamtkunstwerk Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 No Also people getting mad in here because overweight = eat too much and move too little 99% of cases. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raptus Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 No, sorry. When you try to cuddle it would get too hot/sweaty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guthix Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 (edited) 3 hours ago, ChapelHooker said: because it’s none of your business and they didn’t ask. People opening up about their body is not an invitation for critique. its condescending. They posted their opinion on the matter on a public forum and I responded with my opinion on their comment and yet your responses to me fall under my exact initial point - stop victimizing yourself and start doing something about it 3 hours ago, Steve Jobs said: Y’all need some self love and therapy More like y’all need to stick to a plan and stop crying crocodile tears that sitting on your ass all day and doing nothing doesn’t bring in any results, lol. AGAIN - coming from someone who does this himself - but I’m not playing victim and am owning up to it Edited July 24, 2022 by Guthix Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prisoner Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 Yes if they are tall and hold me like a kitten during winter times Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Jobs Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 20 minutes ago, Guthix said: More like y’all need to stick to a plan and stop crying crocodile tears that sitting on your ass all day and doing nothing doesn’t bring in any results, lol. AGAIN - coming from someone who does this himself - but I’m not playing victim and am owning up to it I’m absolutely fine with my body but thanks for the concern Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wastedpotential Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 4 hours ago, ChapelHooker said: What if someone is fat but eats right and exercises frequently? I've honestly never encountered this. I've seen a few obese people who exercise frequently and think they eat right, but I've never seen it actually be true. 4 hours ago, ChapelHooker said: All of y’all need to just say it as it is: you don’t think fat people are attractive. This whole “well, they don’t live a healthy lifestyle!!” story is a facade and we fat people know it x Well yes, I generally do find obesity to be a turnoff and an unattractive feature, but that's because it signals to me that the person is not actually taking care of themselves properly and doesn't make the person inherently worth less. 99 times out of 100 it's possible for obese people to lose at least some weight and get to a healthier state, but many just don't pursue that, which is what makes them less attractive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 Some of the replies in here..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alyssa Edwards Posted July 24, 2022 Share Posted July 24, 2022 9 hours ago, hurricane326 said: As an obese person myself that doesn't look obese, just overweight This makes no sense to me. (And this is for almost everyone in this thread) I wish y'all would write down what y'all consider "obese" because it's seems y'all demonize the word a LOT, I don't. The scientific definition of obesity is exactly what it means. OP : Yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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