discussion Is it ever ok to have sex with someone who is drunk or on drugs while u are sober?

[Distantconstellation]

Even if they said yes when drunk or drugs, does it count. Asking this after reading a comment on the roof.

[Sweet Sexy Savage]

Absolutely not

Edited July 20, 2022 by Sweet Sexy Savage

[phreshprince]

Absolutely not. Absolutely NOT. End thread. 

[Breathe On Moi]

6 minutes ago, Distantconstellation said:

Even if they said yes when drunk or drugs, does it count. Asking this after reading a comment on the roof.

where’s the comment? link it 

[magazine]

No.

[VAST]

Absolutely not.

[Lipgloss]

Yes. I do it all the time. 

[venuss]

Just now, Lipgloss said:

Yes. I do it all the time. 

Ehm 

[Trav]

only if the sober person is the bottom

[Isaiah]

Just depends. If it’s someone you’ve had consensual sex with in the past and they’re asking you to do it again then I don’t see why not. But if it’s someone new and they’re realllllly drunk then I’d say no 

[Into The Void]

That is borderline rape

[xclusivestylesz]

If they wanna **** then why not? Y'all need to stop overthinking everything ??‍♂️ 

[Domination]

Generally speaking, no.

[Rotunda]

I’ve hooked up with a drunk guy once, but we had been hooking up for a couple of years at that point and he initiated it. 

 

I wouldn’t hookup with a stranger if either of us were under the the influence. 

Edited July 20, 2022 by Rotunda

[Joyride]

uhm? no. they're on drugs. people who are on drugs cannot take proper care of their decisions/impulses while in that state.

[Blade Runner]

Of course NOT, WTF. 

 

It's called taking advantage of someone and almost RAPIST behaviour. 

 

All the weirdos in here saying "yes". Yikes. 

Edited July 20, 2022 by Blade Runner

[wehavetostan]

4 minutes ago, xclusivestylesz said:

If they wanna **** then why not? Y'all need to stop overthinking everything ??‍♂️ 

Drugs can alter the judgement of people. Under the influence they may wanna have ***, but you don’t know if they’d consent if they didn’t consume the drugs. People should think more about the other person, actually 

[HASHTAGPOW]

[Tropez]

Hell no! They are impaired, this is close to SA. 

[JohnWayneHolland]

18 minutes ago, Sweet Sexy Savage said:

Absolutely

 

10 minutes ago, Lipgloss said:

Yes. I do it all the time. 

 

7 minutes ago, xclusivestylesz said:

If they wanna **** then why not? Y'all need to stop overthinking everything ??‍♂️ 

 

 

OT: no

 

[loveisdead9582]

About 99% of the time, no. Now if this is a long term partner that has stated when they are completely sober that they don’t mind or that they want it, then I suppose it’s between y’all. Either way, you should probably avoid it even in that situation because you don’t want it to come up if the relationship has an ugly ending. 

[helikesitheymikey]

I’ve had the same straight guy ask me for a b*** j** three different times drunk. I’ve always turned him down. Want to do it, but it don’t think it would be right.

[Cheers]

Absolutely NOT. Their judgement is impaired. Some people say they "need it to get the confidence" but that is still not OK. If they want you, they'll ask sober.

[Sergi91]

It’s not ok because they are not in control of their senses to give consent. 

[Gottasadae]

NO. End of discussion.