discussion Are you more patient with your food servers/waiters/etc

[Katamari]

Since Covid-19 I have been patient or more lenient with these poor overworked individuals

 

if they get your food wrong, forget your order, etc how do you react now? And how do you talk about them when they are not around? Are tipping your ddasher well (ppl who don’t do this are just ) 

rude service is not needed tho

Edited June 28, 2022 by Katamari

[Illuminati]

Yeah I'm not an animal

[Airhead]

Very patient. And if I go out to eat with you and you are rude to the waiter/server I will never eat out with you again.

[Gladiator]

I've always been. I grew up in the food service industry.

[ArtForFreedom]

yes being in the food service industry is a dogs life

[Beyondslay]

Yes. I've worked in a restaurant before and it's not easy dealing with public all the time. 

[Katamari]

10 minutes ago, Illuminati said:

Yeah I'm not an animal

I mean I’ve never been rude to them or anything like that but it’s nbd is they forget a something small like an extra sauce or breadsticks

[wish]

10000% yes. Don't be ****ing rude

[madonnas]

I'm a very patient person in general, so yeah.  I also used to be a server back from 2015-2018 so I sympathize with the workload most servers have.

 

Honestly, people make mistakes.  If someone makes a mistake politely let them know and have it fixed.  You shouldn't really be going out to a restaurant to have a wine & dine experience if you're on a time crunch anyway (though I understand it can be inconvenient).

 

 

[Vitaly]

I always do, until some of them putting up an attitude for whatever reasons. Usually in a rather posher establishment. Then I will pull this

 

 

[Yves]

I've always been.

[Breathe On Moi]

I make threats all the time 

[discosean]

Yes. 

If they do somehow get something wrong for my order, I am polite about getting it corrected. 
 

[Smarticle]

**** no, hurry the **** up

[James_Dean]

Very patient. You don't **** with ppl that make your food 

[Donquizote]

Yes. My parents dont raise me to be rude to servers or underpaid people. Instant turn off to anyone who I go out with for date yet they are rude to servers

[harwee]

Of course. I want my meals served unspat

[Illuminati]

38 minutes ago, Katamari said:

I mean I’ve never been rude to them or anything like that but it’s nbd is they forget a something small like an extra sauce or breadsticks

Some people can be so trash about it, even if the waiter does everything right. It's good to keep a positive respectful attitude imo

[PMKARDASHIAN]

Imagine NOT being patient/polite with servers. Even if the service is absolute GARBAGE I’m still polite and still tip well. 
 

I’ve been with people who have no business being in restaurants and they’re so embarrassing. If you can’t behave or tip then stick to drive throughs or eat at home. 

[Mitsouko]

2 minutes ago, PMKARDASHIAN said:

Imagine NOT being patient/polite with servers. Even if the service is absolute GARBAGE I’m still polite and still tip well. 

[Likingstars]

Yes. If I go on a date and they’re rude to the server I will never see them again

[TaggedGalaxy]

I’ve always been patient with servers and waiters. I’ve also learned to be patient with call center people after working in one during one of my summer breaks. There’s no need to treat someone who is overworked and underpaid like **** 

[John Slayne]

I've always been. Plus I worked fast food and service jobs when I was in school so I know those jobs are crap. 

[Douglas Booth]

I would slap and kick my server in the groin if they are a minute late

[Oktober Knight]

Absolutely, I have always been patient with them. And if the place is short staffed and our server is slammed and overwhelmed, we always leave an extra tip. 

 

These people work harder than most of us ever will.