TheArgonaut Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 Do you complete your Lemonade redemption arc or are you just a full blown Don't Hurt Yourself'd gay? Discuss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chromatica Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 Forgive but don't forget, holding grudges and hate is just unhealthy, better to thrive and pretend they don't exist Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gatito Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 i forgive once i get my revenge Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jotham Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I hold grudges Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
State of Grace. Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pikachoo Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 i try to forgive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breathe On Moi Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I hold grudges really badly, like I sometimes wish i didn’t. And I want to learn to not to, but I never can. I actually hate that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KnightOfAllRealms Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I actually forget but try to act bitter when talking about the person who wronged me just so people feel bad for me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheArgonaut Posted June 24, 2022 Author Share Posted June 24, 2022 8 minutes ago, KnightOfAllRealms said: I actually forget but try to act bitter when talking about the person who wronged me just so people feel bad for me Loves it I do this too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheArgonaut Posted June 24, 2022 Author Share Posted June 24, 2022 33 minutes ago, Breathe On Moi said: I hold grudges really badly, like I sometimes wish i didn’t. And I want to learn to not to, but I never can. I actually hate that. Don't feel bad. I easily hold grudges just like you and it takes a toll sometimes. Just let them go sis, if you can't take them out of your mind take them out of your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdamRiver96 Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 Nah. Anyone that willingly or intentionally hurt me, will never be forgiven. I believe in inducing karma - not just wait around for it happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zeferino Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I forgive but I never forget; there was a cute pic I saw on twitter about it tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pop Life Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 It's not really about forgiveness. I don’t stay mad or anything, but once someone has proven they can't be trusted I cut the link and move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gladiator Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I forgive since I tend to be pretty indifferent to most things in life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Auraeolux Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I'm a grudge holder, but I don't really think about them unless I have to interact with that person or if a similar situation is brought up in a conversation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buddy Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I don't necessarily forgive, but try my best to avoid & forget the person if possible for the sake of my mental health. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zasderfght Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 (edited) You don't have to forgive. Forgive only if you truly believe that person is genuinely sorry for their misbehavior, and you have seen actual, sizable change from the person who wronged you. However, as cliche as it sounds, you cannot hold grudges. When you allow people to live rent-free in your head, especially people that hurt you or took advantage of you in some way (or hell, even nice people that you just didn't clash with), you're just making yourself miserable. 9.5 times out of 10, people you burned bridges with are not thinking about you, and are probably enjoying their life. Be these people. Think about yourself. Be selfish. Obviously, give back to your community and catch up with your friends and family, have fun, date, but please, do not let negativity consume your life. Been there, done that. It's simply not worth it. Edited June 24, 2022 by zasderfght Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Velvet Night Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I’m not someone who holds grudges, it’s just a waste of energy. However I don't need to forgive someone to be able to move on from what they did to me. I just discard the person from my mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kandicha Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I forgive but I don't forget. Then I end up with a laundry list of things I was previously mad about it in my head... which can come up again if we fight again. As I get older though, I find that the best revenge is doing better in your life than they are doing in their lives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flower moon Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 forgive and forget. i dont need to be thinking about someone or something bad/negative forever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lex Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 Anyone can start again Not through love but through revenge Through the fire, we're born again Peace by vengeance brings the end Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wantedyoutogrow Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I forget but I don't forgive. Sometimes I even forget why I don't like certain people, I just do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ATRL Moderator Legend E Posted June 24, 2022 ATRL Moderator Share Posted June 24, 2022 both Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bumpah Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 def hold grudges, wont stop till they felt what they did to me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terrorblade Posted June 24, 2022 Share Posted June 24, 2022 I used to hold grudges but nowadays I've become less sensitive and just forgive unless it's a grave mistake Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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