Distantconstellation Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 So if a guy only goes after trans women and crossdressers is he straight? These guys show NO interest in cis gender women. Is it a fetish? I agree trans women are women but then why do some men only go after trans women and not cis women? This has always confused me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
byzantium Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 Yes. If a guy is only attracted to women then I am pretty sure that is the common definition of straight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illia Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 it sounds like a fetish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoveInStereo Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 Crossdressers by definition are men that dress as women so no, that’s not straight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SimpleKindofLife Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 Equating crossdressing to transgenderism is transphobic. Did you even think before you typed that out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TiaTamera Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 1 minute ago, SimpleKindofLife said: Equating crossdressing to transgenderism is transphobic. Did you even think before you typed that out? You would have to assume that the OP’s use of the word “and” is making the two things synonymous as opposed to be inclusive of two categories. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
getBusy Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 Please educate yourself before opening threads like this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taemin Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taylucifer Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 no, he’s just weird Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodflowers. Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 They are however they identify as Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mxoonlight Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 22 minutes ago, SimpleKindofLife said: Equating crossdressing to transgenderism is transphobic. Did you even think before you typed that out? They know what they’re doing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ricky Wilson Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 If he’s only into trans women yes, he’s straight. But if he’s also into crossdresser, he’s factually not straight as they are men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Material Girl Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 Sounds like he needs to speak to a therapist to work out that obvious fetish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erotic Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 They can be straight chasers. they can be bisexual they can be gay they can be anything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueberries Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 nope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otter Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 Depends on whether he specifically is attracted to the cross dressing/trans element Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ATRL Moderator feelslikeadream Posted June 15, 2022 ATRL Moderator Share Posted June 15, 2022 30 minutes ago, SimpleKindofLife said: Equating crossdressing to transgenderism is transphobic. Did you even think before you typed that out? I believe the user is referring to the very common phenomenon of men on apps like Grindr who have "trans and CD only!" in their profiles. You very often see that exact language, which is not to say they're synonymous but that for those men, they are paired according to their sexual interests. OP: Nah, it's serving queer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otter Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 32 minutes ago, SimpleKindofLife said: Equating crossdressing to transgenderism is transphobic. Did you even think before you typed that out? Have you not been on grinder and seen guys only looking for fem/trans? I imagine he's referring to this as opposed to saying they're interchangable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The7thStranger Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 Sounds more like bi- or pansexual. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mister Gaga Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 if he's attracted based on their sex, he's gay. if it's on their genders, i assume straight? maybe is better to ask him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TiaTamera Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 You’re sexual orientation has to do with attraction based off of the sex of that person. Although trans women are women, they are still males and a “sex” change surgery doesn’t make her a female, it makes her a male with a ****** as there are more biologically aspects that a female a female. with all that being said, at the END OF THE DAY, it doesn’t matter what soles sexual orientation is. It shouldn’t bother you or anyone what a man that sleeps with trans woman calls himself. Let him sleep with who he wants to sleep with, and mind your business Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tropez Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 Yes they are very straight. Trans women are women. So if they are attracted to women and they are the opposite gender clearly they’re straight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TiaTamera Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 I do want to add though that my friends that are trans have expressed concern of gay (well DL gays) using trans women to sleep with “males” (because they still have their *****) while walking around with someone that has the gender expression of woman. They refer to it as a fetish, so to add to OP’s question, yes it can be a fetish. With that being said, the sexual orientation should only matter to that trans woman that he’s sleeping with to protect her heart from a man that’s just using her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Distantconstellation Posted June 15, 2022 Author Share Posted June 15, 2022 2 minutes ago, Tropez said: Yes they are very straight. Trans women are women. So if they are attracted to women and they are the opposite gender clearly they’re straight. What im asking is why do they only go exclusively for trans women and not cis women also? Also people who mentioned about dudes on grindr only going after "trans/cd only" are right. Im not saying they are the same but more often then not guys on grindr and tindr always group them both together, of course i know they are different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bosque Posted June 15, 2022 Share Posted June 15, 2022 Atrl stop being obsessed with straight people challenge [impossible] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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