ConceptD Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 8 hours ago, brazil said: No person with BPD is good at keeping emotional control under stressful situations that last days. And adding to the case, a mutual friend who loved with the two just confirmed Johnny was abusive towards Amber today in trial. I normally like and agree with your takes but this isn’t necessarily true. I’m not sure if the diagnosis is correct and I’m not a doctor, but my cousin was married to someone with what I assume is BPD and she was insanely sweet to everyone but him TO A FAULT where it looked fake and put on. Behind closed doors she would hit him, break his ****, isolate him etc. He wound up killing himself before he would be without her or hit her back despite putting up with it for 2 years. He was a big muscly 6”2 gym person and she was a tiny 5” skinny little thing but I saw glimpses of her when she’d turn and it was wild, it just wouldn’t happen in public very often.
flower moon Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 the way people love to rewrite definitions to fit their narratives Anyway, they're both trash and are people still choosing sides? Totally bizarre at this point.
Patient Zero Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 Another idiot who thinks that men can’t be abused because they’re bigger and stronger
Buddy Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 10 hours ago, aesthetic bih said: Not y'all taking sides. Both are abusive and not innocent Literally this
Dolce Vita Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 (edited) 10 hours ago, makeme said: But queen you just said on your podcast you made up with Azealia wait which episode? i wanna hear this Edited May 18, 2022 by Dolce Vita
brazil Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 1 hour ago, ConceptD said: I normally like and agree with your takes but this isn’t necessarily true. I’m not sure if the diagnosis is correct and I’m not a doctor, but my cousin was married to someone with what I assume is BPD and she was insanely sweet to everyone but him TO A FAULT where it looked fake and put on. Behind closed doors she would hit him, break his ****, isolate him etc. He wound up killing himself before he would be without her or hit her back despite putting up with it for 2 years. He was a big muscly 6”2 gym person and she was a tiny 5” skinny little thing but I saw glimpses of her when she’d turn and it was wild, it just wouldn’t happen in public very often. Sorry about your loss baby, since a personality disorder is something that is with people 24/7 and that bpd is characterized by impulsiveness and difficulty controlling emotions I thought that someone being in a stand for 7 hours in a day, for several days, being asked questions about traumatizing events and being accused of all sorts of things wouldn't manage to keep their calm and respond so well, as Amber did. Not denying that people who are sometimes physically stronger can be victims of abuse though.
BobBertran1992 Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 1 hour ago, Patient Zero said: Another idiot who thinks that men can’t be abused because they’re bigger and stronger She's using singular third-person pronouns all of the time, meaning that she's talking about Depp and Heard, not all men and women. You're putting words in her mouth (or rather fingertips, which she used to write this).
Pheromosa Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 Toxic couple abuses each other, I could not give a **** the fact that this is such a big story for so long is SAD!
Horizon Flame Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 (edited) 2 hours ago, brazil said: Sorry about your loss baby, since a personality disorder is something that is with people 24/7 and that bpd is characterized by impulsiveness and difficulty controlling emotions I thought that someone being in a stand for 7 hours in a day, for several days, being asked questions about traumatizing events and being accused of all sorts of things wouldn't manage to keep their calm and respond so well, as Amber did. Not denying that people who are sometimes physically stronger can be victims of abuse though. Borderlines are also manipulative and make life hell for those around them. Sinead O’Connor is Borderline and she did the classic, “I’m going to kill myself because you don’t love me,” repeatedly against her kids who had to stay away from her. The narcissism is off the charts. While I feel bad for anyone who has a mental disorder, when it comes to BDP, the victims are always those on the receiving end of it. It is a very hard disorder to get under control. And for the record, I can’t stand Johnny Depp, and I hope I never have to see or hear from him again. That being said, Amber Heard is dangerous to anyone who gets involved with her. She’ll happily lie and send someone to prison. She’s like Roseanne Barr, another Borderline, who lied and said her parents molested her, ruining their lives and then later admitted that she made it up and then gave four explanations as to why she did it, all of which she thinks exonerates her from culpability. Edited May 18, 2022 by Horizon Flame
UnusualBoy Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 She's clearly not the brightest bulb in the box and I still don't know why people keep taking sides on this, is quite obvious that Amber and Johnny were abusive to each other, maybe one more than the other but still, neither is better than the other.
ATRL Moderator Legend E Posted May 18, 2022 ATRL Moderator Posted May 18, 2022 smartest person alive me thinks
Komet Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 “Did she hit him? Yes. Was it abuse? No." The mental gymnastics
Antisocialites Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 (edited) She just keeps spilling. Edited May 18, 2022 by Héloïse
Frappucino Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 7 hours ago, BobBertran1992 said: You're right, men can be abused too, and more often than not they're not believed because of the expectations put upon them by our patriarchal society. STILL, tell me, who had more control and power in this relationship? The three time Academy Award nominee, whose net worth is currently 150 million dollars, or the C-list actress? I don't care for either them so I wouldn't know the facts. Just cause Johnny has had a more established career doesn't mean Amber hasn't managed to network and pull some strings to have some big people on her side even if she's a C-lister like you say. Regardless my post wasn't made to defend Johnny but rather remind people that men can be abused and it doesn't have to be physical to be considered abuse.
BobBertran1992 Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 13 minutes ago, Frappucino said: I don't care for either them so I wouldn't know the facts. Just cause Johnny has had a more established career doesn't mean Amber hasn't managed to network and pull some strings to have some big people on her side even if she's a C-lister like you say. Regardless my post wasn't made to defend Johnny but rather remind people that men can be abused and it doesn't have to be physical to be considered abuse. Amber Heard has barely received support from any celebrities, so her alleged network has clearly failed. Chris Rock mocked her a few days ago, Joe Rogan supports Depp, Javier Bardem did in 2020… And again, power and wealth play an important part in abuse, and only one side on this trial has it.
popstar Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 So happy that Amber was heavily removed from Aquaman 2 too, equality both are toxic
Daddy Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 That heroin junkie needs to shut the f up about things she clearly knows nothing about. Stop protecting abusers because you share the same gender.
Digitalism Posted May 18, 2022 Posted May 18, 2022 Both were abusive But I get what she is saying It's a common behaviour in the dynamics of abuse. The person with more power pulls a bunch bs and the weaker person can only resort to hitting to defend themselves. That's why you always have to get out of the relationship before it reaches that point.
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