Dei Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 Of course! Disappointed to see some of the responses here in the community
RideOrDie Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 some of y'all probably getting raw'd in some "straight dl" guy basement who washes his dick once a week and hasn't been tested in his life and u only get tested when ur bussyhole itches and u fear u got the clap and u say u wouldnt date a hiv+ guy who takes care of his health, takes his meds and gets tested regularly to answer the question yes i would, i take prep daily and i have no problem having sex or dating a hiv+ guy who takes his meds
Materialboy215 Posted May 11, 2022 Author Posted May 11, 2022 25 minutes ago, Beyoncé Knowles said: I don't want to date anyone. Humans are so exhausting! Being alone, doing your own thing, enjoying food and music, it's so peaceful. Being alone is so soothing to me. Everytime I talk to someone, I just feel disappointed... Girl after doing almost 7 yrs in my last relationship I feel the same way and ENJOY my time alone its so peaceful and I have no plans on changing that either. Tho me and my ex just started commutating again but we won't be living again thats 4 sure!
ZeroSuitBritney Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 6 minutes ago, 305 said: Yes I currently am and he's the love of my life. I was ignorant and uneducated like many people in this thread and didn't know what undetectable meant and that HIV pos people can live a relatively normal life I think we were all ignorant on the topic at some point. But living in San Francisco for over 7 years now has REALLY opened my eyes. I've met and talked to so many people from different walks of life. I know so many HIV+ people who I consider really good friends. I'm also participating in the AIDS/LifeCycle bike ride event at the beginning of June (not as a rider, but a roadie) for the first time and I am so excited for it! I've also raised almost $3000 just for this event. I really hope all the people who are saying "no" or making a joke out of it in this thread are just young and haven't fully developed yet. Hopefully as they mature, their perspective on this topic matures as well.
Materialboy215 Posted May 11, 2022 Author Posted May 11, 2022 2 minutes ago, Dei said: Of course! Disappointed to see some of the responses here in the community Me too I didn't think this many would be so ignorant smh. 1 minute ago, RideOrDie said: some of y'all probably getting raw'd in some "straight dl" guy basement who washes his dick once a week and hasn't been tested in his life and u only get tested when ur bussyhole itches and u fear u got the clap and u say u wouldnt date a hiv+ guy who takes care of his health, takes his meds and gets tested regularly to answer the question yes i would, i take prep daily and i have no problem having sex or dating a hiv+ guy who takes his meds Drops ?
katara Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 7 minutes ago, RideOrDie said: some of y'all probably getting raw'd in some "straight dl" guy basement who washes his dick once a week and hasn't been tested in his life and u only get tested when ur bussyhole itches and u fear u got the clap and u say u wouldnt date a hiv+ guy who takes care of his health, takes his meds and gets tested regularly to answer the question yes i would, i take prep daily and i have no problem having sex or dating a hiv+ guy who takes his meds I mean exactly LOL
Badgalbriel Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 A friend of mine died from common cold a few years ago. He was HIV positive and in treatment for a year. I know the medication should make you live a normal life, but I'm not going to go into this type of risk.
Royal Culture Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 23 minutes ago, The7thStranger said: Absolutely. We need to end this played out stigma already. .
PMKARDASHIAN Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 Yes. My ex of 8 years was undetectable. We took the necessary precautions and I remained negative. I thought the stigma around HIV was diminishing but I guess not
Prisoner Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 Yeah. Both my ex and my current bf are hiv positive. i don't go around chasing them like a fetish though, they just both happen to be one
CovalentBondage Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 The people saying no here. Disgusting. If the person is undetectable there is zero risk.
JoeAg Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 yeah i would. preferably they'd be undetectable, but honestly if they're on meds it'd be fine!
JoeAg Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 my ex girlfriend and their girlfriend (we were poly) used to hook up with this dude who was positive and undetectable and none of the three of us ever got it
Headlock Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 41 minutes ago, tiagol88 said: No...but Im the guy that refused to kiss another gay once that suffered from herpes so... Are you talking about oral herpes? Cause sis 2/3 of the entire world's population has that already, most are just asymptomatic and never show any signs of infection, that's how it spreads so easily Not that you should kiss someone with an active cold sore but lighten up a bit
Not Like The Movies Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 Some of y’all need to educate yourselves.
Headlock Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 (edited) 32 minutes ago, RideOrDie said: some of y'all probably getting raw'd in some "straight dl" guy basement who washes his dick once a week and hasn't been tested in his life and u only get tested when ur bussyhole itches and u fear u got the clap and u say u wouldnt date a hiv+ guy who takes care of his health, takes his meds and gets tested regularly to answer the question yes i would, i take prep daily and i have no problem having sex or dating a hiv+ guy who takes his meds Literally, having sex with someone undetectable is significantly safer than having sex with some random person who doesn't know their status. And this is isn't just about HIV+. Those who are positive are far more likely to be up to date on all their STI screenings, HIV ain't the only one out there that you can get. Edited May 11, 2022 by Headlock
bestfiction Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 If he's undetectable and is taking care of his health, then why not. I actually know a guy who's HIV+ and he has a boyfriend, they seem to be quite happy
Headlock Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 29 minutes ago, ZeroSuitBritney said: I think we were all ignorant on the topic at some point. But living in San Francisco for over 7 years now has REALLY opened my eyes. I've met and talked to so many people from different walks of life. I know so many HIV+ people who I consider really good friends. I'm also participating in the AIDS/LifeCycle bike ride event at the beginning of June (not as a rider, but a roadie) for the first time and I am so excited for it! I've also raised almost $3000 just for this event. I really hope all the people who are saying "no" or making a joke out of it in this thread are just young and haven't fully developed yet. Hopefully as they mature, their perspective on this topic matures as well. This just further underscores how important representation and education is. The more people that interact with and see those who are positive, either in person or in the media, the more humanized the HIV+ community is and the less stigmatization there will be, even amongst the queer community.
gatito Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 they're just regular people with a treatable condition would they date you?
fountain Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 If they were honest about it before anything happened and are on a treatment plan, then it would just be discriminatory not to.
Headlock Posted May 11, 2022 Posted May 11, 2022 1 minute ago, gatito said: would they date you? Now this is the million dollar question
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