I've always had the hots for my friend, but he's straight.

He's not particularly handsome or anything.

If I could describe him, he looks a lot like Martin Johnson from Boys Like Girls. 6'2", good body.

He's kind of a jerk too. (He has a reputation of being like that, especially about 10 years ago lol)

But every time he plays the drums . . . and I see him super sweaty. And those arms being tatted af.

I JUST DIE. He's so f**king hot to me even if people don't see it.

(And they're all straight, and I'm the only one who's gay . . . though I feel like he's suspecting that I'm gay lol)

I don't know what it is.

I've even had to pretend to liking metal & metalcore just so I can talk properly when he brings up music stuff. He loves screaming into the mic but I can't do that shouty thing metalheads do lol

Do you have a similar experience?

Edited September 8Sep 8 by Carbohydrates

Are you not out to them?

It usually happens to me with actors, there is an actor here in Chile that's ugly af he is bald, short, not muscular at all but when I saw him as a village men on some soap opera a few years ago I found him so hot it was just ridiculous. After that he did a very different role and I found him ugly again but well… that shows he is a great actor after all so I guess good for him

Just now, Mythical said:

Are you not out to them?

To certain circles, no.

I have a bunch of friends in his community (metalheads) and I'm not out to them . . . yet.

I soft-launched my leather kink in my FB/IG stories (just showing me wearing leather)

And one time I was talking about a potential relationship, he asked me . . . "Is it a girl or...?"

and then I said "it's a girl" (lie)

So he suspects it I think

Edited September 8Sep 8 by Carbohydrates

Just now, Julia Fox said:

It usually happens to me with actors, there is an actor here in Chile that's ugly af he is bald, short, not muscular at all but when I saw him as a village men on some soap opera a few years ago I found him so hot it was just ridiculous. After that he did a very different role and I found him ugly again but well… that shows he is a great actor after all so I guess good for him

Ugh!!! I feel you. This happens to me too, but with p*rn stars. Haha. James Mogul is one of them. Goddamn he's not a looker but I WILL SUBMIT any time he wants me to.

The hot ones are almost always the unattractive faces, I'm sorry

Edited September 8Sep 8 by BorderBoy

I always see this discussion on social media like "which celebrities are not attractive but still turn you on?" and people ALWAYS end up posting conventionally attractive guys like idk David Harbour. I swear everyone who isn't Henry Cavill or Michael B. Jordan is not "conventionally attractive" to these people

I like guys who knows how to genuinely smile and can dance. they all are attractive to me even if they aren't physically gifted

OP:

14 minutes ago, Carbohydrates said:

And they're all straight,

no they're not

I find 7-8s hotter than 9-10s if that makes sense.

Seth Rogen

15 minutes ago, Breathe On Moi said:

no they're not

Trust me, they are. Some of them are married and have kids, and all are very manly. I'm the only one who feels out of place and has to put up a tough act to match them. I feel so fraudulent. . . They're really his friends though. Because he's a musician.

6 minutes ago, Hector said:

Seth Rogen

I see this too. Something about him being an everyday man type of guy makes him so likeable.

can we have pix please....

Jay Z in the Deja Vu video

Just now, LittleStarmen said:

can we have pix please....

That's not allowed. He's a person I know in real life. But he does resemble Martin Johnson from Boys Like Girls quite heavily. 💀

Honestly, I've had many instances where a man is a 4-5 in the face but he has THAT phat ass and it takes him up to a 7 for me…

Edited September 8Sep 8 by CaptainMusic

That Martín Johnson guy is attractive tho?

Mike Shinoda

Adrien Brody

Bill Gates, Gavin Newsom, Emmanuel Macron, Alexandre Arnault, Shinjiro Koizumi!

Hung Skater

i think post malone would be hot without all those tattoos, he looks pretty handsome in fortnight mv

but i feel you, most of my crushes are not conventionally attractive

hot guys are actually pretty ugly... it's the ugly guys that are actually hot... this DOES make sense