1 hour ago, Mythical said:

I definitely think it's looks. Personality is important for friendship, but if I'm in a relationship with you I want a good looking MAN, not a bestie.

Exactly! Friends need to be ugly to elevate my beauty but my man needs to match. And I always keep 2 anyway for when they act out

Looks can never make up for a nasty personality.

For those saying looks: what would you do if your partner got fat or their physical appearance were to be affected by other factors? Yall are shallow as ****. It's never black or white with someone that you are supposedly into.

OT: Both of course, a good mix is essential imo. Being good-looking/cute helps a lot at the beginning, but a nice personality seals the deal.

Edited September 1Sep 1 by Pepo

Just now, Pepo said:

For those saying looks: what would you do if your partner got fat or their physical appearance were to be affected by other factors?

Dump them

looks, bc ugly men can be a-holes too. so for me it's looks first, personality second. but both are important to me

looks can change, a personality can not

I know yall are lying, bffr yall would **** Perez Hilton or Frankie Grande if they had great personalities

5 minutes ago, TaggedGalaxy said:

I know yall are lying, bffr yall would **** Perez Hilton or Frankie Grande if they had great personalities

Performative gays in here

Looks are what draw me but if you have no personality it's an immediate one-and-done for me Bad personality and I won't even bother meeting you.

If we don't click then I'm not getting into a relationship with you no matter how you look like.

Looks, but not in the way most of you shallow mötherfückers think about them. There has to be something about his appearance that draws me in. With that said, I'm not attracted to the stereotypical "hot gay men" most of you fägs are. I have no interest in mega-hung, mega-jacked gym bros who look like they count every calorie they eat and have never gone a day without moisturizing their face or taking Finasteride to maintain the hairline of a teenage boy. I just want the vaguely cute guy next door who looks like he could pick up semi-heavy things every now and then without a huge struggle, walk for an hour or two without getting shin splints and passing out, and who is not lazy and obese. Basically the average kind of guy next door who most ATRLers would say "ewww disgusting!!" to if his photo was posted here. That's my type of guy.

Looks.

honestly both looks and personality are important i'd say 50/50

Personality but you need to be attracted to your partner too

You need to be attracted to your partner and want to do nasty things with them, that's the whole point. They also need to be someone you like spending a lot of time with where you won't be doing sexual things. You need both.

You gotta be some what of a catch to have me attractived to him

So both are important. I tried fuckin ugly guy once I just got the ick

Looks in your 20s, Personality in your 30s and above

Personality

None likes to drink sour milk because is in a beautiful carton tetra packaging

Looks for hooks. Personality for relationship.

Looks. Because you'll be even more annoyed when you get into and argument and they're ugly too.