Let's talk about it!

Edited September 3, 2025Sep 3 by King Fabray

Not asexual myself but I just wanna say that you all are so valid and real.  Don't ever let any ass hole tell you different.

Edited September 3, 2025Sep 3 by Lethal

you're asexual?

 

2 minutes ago, Smarticle said:

youo're asexual?

 

 

 

13 minutes ago, Lethal said:

Don't ever let any ass hole tell you different.

asexuals wont have to worry about that since we wont be seeing any assholes anytime soon 

Spoiler

no but for real I think I have conditional asexuality. I know it's a little controversial in the ace community but it is what it is. 

 

Sexuality is a spectrum and I'm somewhere between gay and asexual I guess.

It's been a challenge in this world for me as asexual/aromantic. Trying to afford life as a single lad is really quite difficult and it's been really hard the past few years.
 

Also seeing all of my friends get married and have someone beside them as a partner through this messy ride called life has been rough because I fear I may always be alone. I love people I just don't get romantic/sexual things very much.

 

Bless all of y'all I must say.

Haven't had sex in nearly 4 years definitely a asexual girlie here I've always hated it I just did it to keep a man

Do Asexual people still get aroused, and self-pleasure? Not tryna be crude I'm just curious 

i'm pretty sure i'm what you would call aromantic but i'm still a huge sl*t so i don't think i'm asexual at all 

I still don't know if i enter into this zone of the "spectrum" I tend to appreciate sensuality, kisses but not so much the sexual side.

13 hours ago, Cow-1 said:

It's been a challenge in this world for me as asexual/aromantic. Trying to afford life as a single lad is really quite difficult and it's been really hard the past few years.
 

Also seeing all of my friends get married and have someone beside them as a partner through this messy ride called life has been rough because I fear I may always be alone. I love people I just don't get romantic/sexual things very much.

 

Bless all of y'all I must say.

I don't really feel like i'm missing out on these things simply bc it's not what i want and i prefer friendship. A lot of the times I get asked do I ever feel like i'll be alone and the answer is no  there's more to life than those things 

1 hour ago, AM98GJ said:

Do Asexual people still get aroused, and self-pleasure? Not tryna be crude I'm just curious 

Well, yes! 

 

7 minutes ago, Bencharmer said:

I still don't know if i enter into this zone of the "spectrum" I tend to appreciate sensuality, kisses but not so much the sexual side.

I'm the same way too and i feel like the more times I force myself to have sexual experiences the harder it is for me to have another. These past couple weeks have been absolute torture bc one of my close guy friends confessed he had feelings for me and the kissing felt nice but whenever he tried to take it past that i got EXTREMELY uncomfortable and im afraid to see him again because I'm not interested in the idea of having sex with him (or anyone). He knows i'm ace but I don't think he takes me seriously because a lot of sex positive aces aren't taken seriously at all lmao

ace awareness week is coming up. our time is coming girlies 

 

Still havent been laid in years so easy having a sexless life

 

Though if a hot Korean boy came up to me I probably would give in for only a night