It feels like people are either into trans or older guys. Nobody seems that interested in young guys or twinks anymore

Gay death actually happens at 50.

 

I recently visited Barcelona and most gays in circuit parties were in their 30s and 40s. I felt like i was always the youngest wherever i go 

Gays don't care about age. Just like straights. They only care whether you're good looking or not. Humans are shallow. If you're ugly, you're ugly no matter what age you are

30 was old In the 90 lol, right know it's totally different..

Probably because yall scream PDF at any normal age gap. 

11 minutes ago, Dual Lips said:

It feels like people are either into trans or older guys. Nobody seems that interested in young guys or twinks anymore

 

in the 80s-early 00s a 30 year old could afford a house and family, which made it seem like you should have your life together by then. Now that that isn't the norm anymore 30 seems younger  

We're gonna start seeing more age gap relationships even with the str8s, as we're seeing that a lot of Gen Z men are incompetent, treat women horribly, and don't know how to love and provide.

this self reassurance thread 

me saying goodbye to my gravestone as I get out of my coffin and drive away from the cemetery at age 32

 

Honestly we need to end the stigma around turning 30  

Only if you're white and masc will gay men be into you

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It never was a thing unless ur whole life is based on being a jail bait twink

21 minutes ago, Rian said:

Probably because yall scream PDF at any normal age gap. 

 

This  im sick of age gap discourse and people throwing the word pedophile around  

 

Like i'm so sorry but i'm not going to look at someone who's 30 dating/having sex with a 22 year old the same way I would a grown adult who actually molests a prepubescent   The conversation has gotten unserious and i feel like people won't be happy until you're dating someone who was born on the same day as you down to the exact minute

You are right. We need to normalize finding middle-aged men hot.

 

Bears & Daddies > Twinks

My life actually started at 30 

12 minutes ago, King Fabray said:

Honestly we need to end the stigma around turning 30  

Not when you bully me for being 35

3 minutes ago, King Fabray said:

This  im sick of age gap discourse and people throwing the word pedophile around  

 

Like i'm so sorry but i'm not going to look at someone who's 30 dating/having sex with a 22 year old the same way I would a grown adult who actually molests a prepubescent   The conversation has gotten unserious and i feel like people won't be happy until you're dating someone who was born on the same day as you down to the exact minute

I've noticed that people who are too critical of age gaps are either teens or immature people in their early 20s

 

Which let's be honest, no one takes them seriously irl

 

But they dominate twitter and tik tok were these discourses get exponential

 

I do remember being scared of 30 when I was 20, but also always was attracted to older men

 

I think is just immature and people grow out of it

 

 

being 30 sounds too serious for me 

I'm 31 and I'm in the best moment of my life. 

Gay death only applies to bottoms. I'm having more sex than ever at 32 because yall love a Latino top with dad weight but I only pick out the twinks in their early 20's 

25 minutes ago, Josh said:

Only if you're white and masc will gay men be into you

you wish this were true 🤣🤣🤣

9 minutes ago, CristianGarcia said:

Gay death only applies to bottoms. I'm having more sex than ever at 32 because yall love a Latino top with dad weight but I only pick out the twinks in their early 20's 

"Tops" like this think way too highly of themselves

 

Gay men are still obsessed with younger men. That will never change.

14 minutes ago, CristianGarcia said:

Gay death only applies to bottoms. I'm having more sex than ever at 32 because yall love a Latino top with dad weight but I only pick out the twinks in their early 20's 

Fresh off of being a teen. Crazy.