For us attractive and str8 passing gays, what do you do when you know a girl is crushing on you? Like a coworker or somewhere you're a regular at. I feel bad for coming out to them because I don't like disappointing people. But I also don't want them to think that str8 guys are amazing like me. What do you do?

 

 

I start talking about Lady Gaga and RuPaul's Drag Race 

just say that you're gay  who cares if you disappoint them just tell them so they can move on and it won't be as awkward in the long run 

i ask them if they know santa isnt real and look at them like this 

Eat her *****

it gets awkward for me  

Run

 

 

 

Having sex with her and then dump her ofc!

36 minutes ago, Mythical said:

For us attractive and str8 passing

Ask her what her skincare routine is, so she'll confirm I'm a sissy

lead her on, get married, have kids and blow the family up after 10 years of misery 

this whole thread

i start talking about boys

 

and i act extra-gay

 

Sometimes I even say; "it's so weird when people don't notice I'm gay, I'm too obvious"

Edited August 15, 20251 yr by Strawberry Bubble

I ask her if she has a brother or a cousin 

 

Spoiler

or a dad 

 

I instinctively act gayer around women. One of my straight male friends pointed it out to me  

Just now, Cheers said:

I instinctively act gayer around women. One of my straight male friends pointed it out to me  

Do you act gayer around woman or str8er around str8s 

Just now, Mythical said:

Do you act gayer around woman or str8er around str8s 

Def gayer around women. I'm not saying I'm super masc but I turn up the gayness when women are around especially if it's my first time meeting them and I don't want them to think I'm a creep that's hitting on them when I'm just trying to be friendly.

 

Edited August 15, 20251 yr by Pikachoo

well I'm attractive but I'm definitely not straight passing, I'm somewhat effeminate but also just very androgynous. I'm also bisexual. usually when a girl likes me, I'll hang out with her and maybe hook up with her. occasionally I'll date her too,  but I'm not typically looking for a relationship 

Turn up the gayness to establish early on that my friendliness isn't because I'm hitting on them. I'm not particularly masc or straight acting so it's usually not an issue but I've had some odd encounters.

One time I told a girl I was gay when she had a crush on me and then she threatened to turn me straight, so maybe just dodge her altogether?

 

Well, for the ones that are simply oblivious I like to inform them that I'm strictly dickly. For those that think that they can "can turn me straight" I like to laugh in their faces and then hook up with at least one of their exes… if applicable… (or their dad in one case). 

Just tell her you're not interested. 

"Oh sweetie..." *head tilt + limp wrist*