artc0cx Posted August 4 Posted August 4 I need to forget about my ex. We haven't talked in 2 years and im still having dreams about him, no hookups will make me forget about him. Wonder if I should do one of those cord cutting rituals with candles. Hes almost getting married and then there's me struggling with moving on. Im so delulu that I just know im gonna play this song the entire day he gets married. 2
#Beautiful Posted August 4 Posted August 4 please tell me hes not getting married to a woman ill kill myself
Maxxxine Posted August 4 Posted August 4 What went wrong? Did you leave him or he leave you? Is there hope for a reconciliation?
DawnAnti Posted August 4 Posted August 4 Not you pulling a selena gomez ? Girl you HAVE to move on somehow or you will live a very miserable life , your process is slow a bit but you will eventually get over him , hope you will soon but get it together for the sake of your own mental health and inner peace 5 2
Alldeezy Posted August 4 Posted August 4 Same and I've even had 2 long term relationships since that one ex I'm always thinking about and we broke up early 2019 Like his now single but I'm never gonna have the guts to hit him up again.
DawnAnti Posted August 4 Posted August 4 Just now, Alldeezy said: Same and I've even had 2 long term relationships since that one ex I'm always thinking about and we broke up early 2019 Like his now single but I'm never gonna have the guts to hit him up again. Is it cause he was like your first bf or breakup ?
Alldeezy Posted August 4 Posted August 4 Just now, DawnAnti said: Is it cause he was like your first bf or breakup ? No he probably was like my 5th serious relationship like he just gave me those butterflies like he was cool and caring. But sadly my mental health was bad then he had to break it off but man can't seem to move on from that one.
artc0cx Posted August 4 Author Posted August 4 10 minutes ago, #Beautiful said: please tell me hes not getting married to a woman ill kill myself He is 9 minutes ago, Maxxxine said: What went wrong? Did you leave him or he leave you? Is there hope for a reconciliation? He got deep in church and things were over bc of it
artc0cx Posted August 4 Author Posted August 4 10 minutes ago, DawnAnti said: Not you pulling a selena gomez ? Girl you HAVE to move on somehow or you will live a very miserable life , your process is slow a bit but you will eventually get over him , hope you will soon but get it together for the sake of your own mental health and inner peace Clock me i mean theres periods of time when i dont think about him at all, but my birthday is coming soon this month, and he was always so special before, last year he didnt sent a message on my bday, so thats probably why im feeling like this again
Mean Trees Posted August 4 Posted August 4 2 minutes ago, artc0cx said: He is He got deep in church and things were over bc of it Poor woman he's marrying. Not to be mean, you can't help your emotions but I could never be in love with someone like this so deeply. He's just a disgusting liar.
artc0cx Posted August 4 Author Posted August 4 7 minutes ago, Alldeezy said: Same and I've even had 2 long term relationships since that one ex I'm always thinking about and we broke up early 2019 Like his now single but I'm never gonna have the guts to hit him up again. Thats why i feel we are connected with a cord with some people, its hard to let them go bc of that
GardenPanty Posted August 4 Posted August 4 (edited) You might never "move on" from them but you'll be in a place where you feel better. Sadly we can't control what we dream about. It's just our brains processing information. And they especially suck when they're about an ex because then the thought of them is fresh on your mind again. Healing isn't a linear process and it takes time. You're missing the feeling you had when you were with him, not the actual person. you just have to feel your feelings and keep pushing through life Edited August 4 by GardenPanty 1
DawnAnti Posted August 4 Posted August 4 11 minutes ago, artc0cx said: Clock me i mean theres periods of time when i dont think about him at all, but my birthday is coming soon this month, and he was always so special before, last year he didnt sent a message on my bday, so thats probably why im feeling like this again I understand your pov but maybe he just don't want to open that door again to not make you feel like he wants you again , and it will eventually make things worst for you 1
BGKC Posted August 4 Posted August 4 I feel worse for the woman he's currently involved with. Unless he's bi?
Princess Aurora Posted August 4 Posted August 4 Taylor Swift just gave me an idea Jk I think you should move on and yes, it'll take a lifetime to move on but you can do it. I believe in you 1 1
selena_lavigne Posted August 4 Posted August 4 (edited) I've moved on from everybody except well, the one person i didn't move on from, well i made sure even if he never speaks to me again he will never forget my existence and know i am the baddest b*tch that ever did it. Edited August 4 by selena_lavigne
Lil' Oz Posted August 4 Posted August 4 Reading the comments… Ugh, y'all STILL don't believe in bisexuality? Sexuality is a spectrum, it can evolve and people can discover new aspects about their sexuality everyday. 2
CottageHore Posted August 4 Posted August 4 What is it that's keeping you so fixated on him? Are you holding out hope he'll come back? Are insecurities keeping you from thinking you can find better? What's the story you're telling yourself and how true is it? I'd ask yourself these questions first and then the process of moving forward and onward will be more clear, I think.
itshyolee Posted August 4 Posted August 4 Baby come back to me In my heart I still believe We were meant to be Together so whatever it takes Baby come back to me I should've never set you free Love maybe Come back 3
ChooseyLover Posted August 4 Posted August 4 (edited) Letting go ain't easy It's way easier loving someone else than loving yourself. But you really need to reset and change your priorities. This person must be filling so much space on your mind for you to dream about him and think about him 2 years later. If there's no way for this person to be a part of your life again in any way then it's just not worth the struggle. He seems misguided and troubled (based on that religious bs). You deserve peace of mind and you have to be open to opportunities and experiences that will eventually turn this person into a distant memory. Edited August 4 by ChooseyLover 1
selena_lavigne Posted August 4 Posted August 4 (edited) You know i like thinking about this, i like thinking about this now, because writing an album about going through what it's like to not be able to get over somebody, and ending it, with this whole repeated cycle, of like yeah, i'm never gonna get over it, writing that and being so like open about the fact that you feel like this feeling will never end, doing that, and not being scared of painting yourself in a bad light, just being completely honest about your feelings, doing this, taking all of the steps that i took to recover, which in those days i didn't think it was helping but it did. It did. Because i can look back and say today is the most me i've felt ever. Today i feel like the version of me i like hanging out with. And going back to the point that i can say with certainly that mfer is a POS and look back on it and say, he made this decision. He made the decision to always be the person i reference when i have to think about the sh*ttiest man on the planet. So to me, after going through this, it's not about moving on, it's about putting you in your place. And that was really fun. Edited August 4 by selena_lavigne 1 1
artc0cx Posted August 4 Author Posted August 4 Thanks everyone for your advise i will keep trying to move on even tho its hard. yes hes bi, i dont know how he identifies now tho after all that
.thumb.gif.6eb1d4febf9152ed6a1458b8d7eb2390.gif)
Recommended Posts