discussion Do you think it's biphobic if women choose to not date bi men?

[babyboy1]

Yes... as per scientific researches, 99 percent of the bisexuals are future gays

[ICLDXU4HS]

8 minutes ago, dumbsparce said:

Toxic masculinity is different and, dare I say, more serious in the straight world. A husband refusing to feed his kids or wash the dishes bc that's "a woman's job to do" is not really comparable to an insecure gay man who wants to make sure that everyone knows how much he despises Kylie Minogue and that he lifts 5 elephants a day.

It comes in many different ways and levels of severity, not sure what gays had to do with this?

 

If women reject bi men because "the thought of them having dick up their ass disgusts them" (which many of them aren't even into), all it does is contribute to men sneaking, lying and staying on the DL which then again hurts themselves and other women. Most bi men don't even mention the fact to women when they aren't trying for more than a casual relationship because they know it's often a dealbreaker. If that's the environment women want to cultivate, okay, so be it. Just be aware you're a direct contributing factor.

[Abel Minaj]

You all think everything is a phobia. 

[iiswhoiis_max]

Can we please accept that everyone has the right to choose their dates or sex partners? The reasons can be as foul as they can be you still can't make them do what you want. You will never change their preferences.

[dumbsparce]

27 minutes ago, ICLDXU4HS said:

It comes in many different ways and levels of severity, not sure what gays had to do with this?

Nothing, I just encounter multiple gays every day who throw terms around without knowing their true meaning so I just gave an example as a precautionary measure.

27 minutes ago, ICLDXU4HS said:

If women reject bi men because "the thought of them having dick up their ass disgusts them" (which many of them aren't even into)

Straight people do not think of us as tops. Especially boomers. They can't process the fact that someone has to give the dick in the first place for someone else to receive it. It's just the way it is unless they have prior exposure to gay culture.

 

Edited September 16, 2023 by dumbsparce

[BGKC]

I think it’s more of a matter of trust issues than it is biphobia. 

[loveisdead9582]

Yes. 100%. There’s a huge double standard currently. Hollywood has exploited this as well. Two women making out and/or fooling around is deemed as “hot”. Two men fooling around - even if they also enjoy women - is viewed as shameful, edgy, being woke for the sake of being woke, or disgusting. The fact that women can fool around with anyone of any sex but a line is drawn at men doing the same… highly hypocritical. I’ve met quite a few women who have stated that while they’ve fooled around with other women and view themselves as bisexual, they wouldn’t be okay with dating a guy who also fools around with other men. 
 

Im certainly not trying to imply that men don’t have it easier in most other areas of life, but Bi women  rarely get criticized as much as Bi men. 

[Mornings]

sounds like 3 idiots. unhygienic... all sex is unhygienic. thats why you get STD if you don't use protection. they're homophobic losers if they think its only the gay sex that is dirty. 

[Finite]

43 minutes ago, loveisdead9582 said:

There’s a huge double standard currently

There’s always been a double standard, this isn’t new lol. 
 

27 minutes ago, Mornings said:

sounds like 3 idiots. unhygienic... all sex is unhygienic. thats why you get STD if you don't use protection. they're homophobic losers if they think its only the gay sex that is dirty. 

girl…WHAT?! This is just irresponsible and ignorant to say. 

[Mornings]

Just now, Charcoal Baby said:

girl…WHAT?! This is just irresponsible and ignorant to say. 

What you mean? safe sex is called "safe" for a reason. use protection please everyone. multiple forms if possible

[Finite]

Just now, Mornings said:

What you mean? safe sex is called "safe" for a reason. use protection please everyone. multiple forms if possible

Yes, safe sex means protecting yourself sexually with various forms of prophylactics, however that doesn’t mean that you will automatically get an STD/STI everytime because you don’t use safety precautions OR PEP. What you’re doing is generalizing and bordering on fear-mongering to make a point, inadvertently or not. 

[Mornings]

2 minutes ago, Charcoal Baby said:

Yes, safe sex means protecting yourself sexually with various forms of prophylactics, however that doesn’t mean that you will automatically get an STD/STI everytime because you don’t use safety precautions OR PEP. What you’re doing is generalizing and bordering on fear-mongering to make a point, inadvertently or not. 

okay, fear mongering? im not telling anyone they're going to hell or that they are going to die(although well all know STDs can be fatal), just that you can catch an STD or three when your don't use protection. and I didnt say every time. I'll always tell people that not using protection is a gamble. You cannot trust anyone except yourself with your sexual health. having exceptions to the rules can have dangerous consequences. Sure if you have a long term partner I guess, but I have friends who got STDs from boyfriends who were cheating. anyway, I stand by my statement that all sex hetero, homo or otherwise is unhygienic. And furthermore, these women are actively creating and encouraging the "toxic masculinity" which prevents and shames sexual liberation and a self assurance that would greatly improve the lives of everyone everywhere.

[Abel Minaj]

38 minutes ago, Charcoal Baby said:

Yes, safe sex means protecting yourself sexually with various forms of prophylactics, however that doesn’t mean that you will automatically get an STD/STI everytime because you don’t use safety precautions OR PEP. What you’re doing is generalizing and bordering on fear-mongering to make a point, inadvertently or not. 

These BB gays are something else 

[Mystic Warrior]

2 hours ago, Charcoal Baby said:

Yes, safe sex means protecting yourself sexually with various forms of prophylactics, however that doesn’t mean that you will automatically get an STD/STI everytime because you don’t use safety precautions OR PEP. What you’re doing is generalizing and bordering on fear-mongering to make a point, inadvertently or not. 

[Before Today]

Yes but it happens with both genders tbh. Bi people have it more rough. That said, it's completely the women's right too to not wanting to date bi men regardless. Just find the women who are willing to accept you.

[thinking]

2 hours ago, Charcoal Baby said:

Yes, safe sex means protecting yourself sexually with various forms of prophylactics, however that doesn’t mean that you will automatically get an STD/STI everytime because you don’t use safety precautions OR PEP. What you’re doing is generalizing and bordering on fear-mongering to make a point, inadvertently or not. 

dumbass

[Komet]

It's absolutely biphobic. **** them

[LittleStarmen]

theres two types of Bi guys

 

1. A guy thats fully BI out and is truly bi

 

2.Guys who are into men more than woman but stay with woman coz of society

 

80% of cases are number 2

6 hours ago, babyboy1 said:

Yes... as per scientific researches, 99 percent of the bisexuals are future gays

Yes. I only believe Bi guys if they have come out as gay first and then as Bi. not the other way around

[JoeAg]

yes. talk to my biphobic ex girlfriend for example, who despised it whenever I mentioned that I like men too

[Komet]

2 hours ago, LittleStarmen said:

theres two types of Bi guys

 

1. A guy thats fully BI out and is truly bi

 

2.Guys who are into men more than woman but stay with woman coz of society

 

80% of cases are number 2

Yes. I only believe Bi guys if they have come out as gay first and then as Bi. not the other way around

 The way biphobia gets thrown out casually like it's nothing by queer people (!!!) is frightening.

 

Being bi doesn't only mean you're 50% attracted to men and 50% to women, it doesn't mean you need to hook up with a guy after a woman to continue being bi and vice-versa, it doesn't mean your past romantic partners cannot only be of one sex. 'fully and truly bi' like what the actual **** is this post 

 

[Finite]

5 hours ago, Mornings said:

okay, fear mongering? im not telling anyone they're going to hell or that they are going to die(although well all know STDs can be fatal), just that you can catch an STD or three when your don't use protection. and I didnt say every time. I'll always tell people that not using protection is a gamble. You cannot trust anyone except yourself with your sexual health. having exceptions to the rules can have dangerous consequences. Sure if you have a long term partner I guess, but I have friends who got STDs from boyfriends who were cheating. anyway, I stand by my statement that all sex hetero, homo or otherwise is unhygienic. And furthermore, these women are actively creating and encouraging the "toxic masculinity" which prevents and shames sexual liberation and a self assurance that would greatly improve the lives of everyone everywhere.

Girl, you literally said, “thats why you get STD if you don't use protection” please don’t play dumb. You can still get STDs WITH protection (via needles, oral sex, etc.) What I’m trying to point out is that, your comment comes across as an absolute. I agree people should be safe, but words matter and the way you use them matters. Maybe it’s a grammar or contextual issue that you don’t get it, but don’t try and gaslight me like my reply didn’t make sense. Be purposeful obtuse if you want to.

 

5 hours ago, Abel Minaj said:

These BB gays are something else 

Girl, go to hell . You can choose not to read and understand what I’m talking about if you want. That’s on you. 

3 hours ago, Mystic Warrior said:

Girl, go to hell [2]

3 hours ago, thinking said:

dumbass

Do like your username and actually think. 

[Finite]

Y’all will literally bandwagon off someone’s comment and reply with the dumbest **** instead of actually reading into and understanding the context of someone’s reply, but won’t criticize the ignorance of the comment I responded to. F*ck outta here. 

[ScorpiosGroove]

the random meltdown 

 

 

[Last Boy on Earth]

12 hours ago, Johnny Jacobs said:

As a bi guy. No. Stop 

 

Stop making up phobias. 

You’re not bi

[Johnny Jacobs]

Just now, Last Boy on Earth said:

You’re not bi

 

1 minute ago, Last Boy on Earth said:

You’re not bi

Save your pathetic self hate for yourself thanks