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No, and I do regret it. Around that time i was deeply in love with my best friend but he rejected me so one day I decided to "hurt" him so i got wasted and really drunk and i decided to hook up with the first guy that messaged me on grindr, he wasnt my type at all and i didnt enjoy it

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it was a good time that's all I'm gonna say

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No, it was for food and money. :gaygacat1:
 

I was in my first work trip ever. I was 21. Transport & accommodation on office expense, meals supposed to be on them too, but I want to shop nice things and eat nice foods, so I can't do that on reimburse, cos my budget are small. So I gotta do what I gotta do. It was a 4some. Got generous amount of munnies from each of them. Didn't regret it, I return 2 more times since they know where I stayed to fetch me after the first night.:gaycat:

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11 minutes ago, Vitaly said:

No, it was for food and money. :gaygacat1:
 

I was in my first work trip ever. I was 21. Transport & accommodation on office expense, meals supposed to be on them too, but I want to shop nice things and eat nice foods, so I can't do that on reimburse, cos my budget are small. So I gotta do what I gotta do. It was a 4some. Got generous amount of munnies from each of them. Didn't regret it, I return 2 more times since they know where I stayed to fetch me after the first night.:gaycat:

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1 hour ago, glitch said:

No and people massively overrate first times. I remember it being awkward and not really that fun. The best part was waking up the next day and realising "losing your virginity" results in absolutely no material difference for your day to day life.

 

I'm glad that now when I do have sex with people I actually like I've got that initial awkwardness out of the way

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Yes but I almost wish it was with someone random so I could have maybe learned a thing or two before going into a relationship.

 

On the other hand, being "bad at sex" with someone I loved made me get those first awkward experiences out of the way with someone kind and relatively understanding.

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It was with my neighbor and it was awakerd with me. I don’t think I was very good I was only 16 and he was 20 at the time but we did it many times. He was huge and wanted to go harder on me but I wouldn’t let him. After a while of fooling around things got better and the sex was very good tbh to a point we’re we just did it on a daily basis. I don’t regret it though I got it outta of the way. I didn’t matter to me if it was someone special or not. I had plenty of amazing  sex since then.

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1 hour ago, Devin said:

Yes.

 

The Pros: We were closer.

The Cons: We we closer. (toxic/hard breakups)

This :rip:

 

High school relationships are a mess.

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No :rip:

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Yes with my first bf and we are still together 1 year later :heart2:

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'Love' is a big word for 16-17 year olds but we really were into each other in every way and I'm very thankful that my first time was so valuable!

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yes and no. my first ever sexual experience was with someone I loved at the time, but It was not a "put-it-in" type of experience, more like an oral type of thing, and we used to do that all the time.

but my first ever penetration was with a nice and good looking stranger and I don't think I regret it :gaycat2:

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Yeah, mine was with my adolescent love. Definitely a special memory that I'll cherish forever. :heart:

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No and I regretted it at the time but now it just is what it is

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Not really. But I really liked them

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No mine was with my older sugar daddy :gaycat4:

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No. And it as "the first time" was overrated. We really didn't have great chemistry, being from two different worlds.

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My first time was with a girl and it was terrible. 
 

I’ve never been with a man (as of now) 

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Yes. I was never in any rush to have sex so I was content to wait. When I finally lost my virginity it was with someone I'd been friends with since 10th grade. He'd been str8 in high school, but came out as bi a few years after we graduated and we went on multiple dates before doing anything. 

I'm glad I waited because for me sex is a very vulnerable thing and it was really special to take my first steps in that world with someone I loved and trusted. 

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no, just someone from Grindr

 

he kept doing "it" even after i told him no so it wasn't really enjoyable on my part :rip:

 

he was really ******* ugly too idk what i was thinking

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yes. it was with Lewis Capaldi

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no I always had trauma to the point me and the guy I was together for almost 3 years we never proper did it so years after we broke up I told a friend and he slipped it in and popped me cherry and it done and dusted :weeps:

 

 

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