Darkgalord Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 I'll always regret not being mature enough at that time to understand that your first time should be special, with someone unique. A moment to cherish. I rushed myself to experience my first time with a random guy. Stupid af. What about you?
Selegend Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 No. mine was with a "random" guy but i didn't regret it we weren't completely strangers, we have seen each other like 2 or 3 times before, he was a friend's friend. it was okay! i had a first time doing it with someome that i loved like one year after and i think it was as special and magical and fire as if it were my first time overall, and at least i kinda knew how to do things. i don't regret it what is done is done, always take the best of it. 1
VOSS Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 No it was someone I met that night and never saw again
Mr. Peanutbutter Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 No. I don't even remember his name, background or whatever I used a fake name too and was basically playing a character because I didn't want him to stalk me cause I was still in the closet, so it was just the most random encounter but I don't really regret it
kimberly Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 no and I don't regret it. first time isn't really special in my opinion and I barely knew what I was doing. you should love and cherish sex with the people you love, regardless of you've had sex before. the virginity-centered framing isn't ideal imo.
mystery Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 (edited) No, it was with someone random. I am grateful for the experience though because it showed me that kind of approach is not something I want. Edited September 11, 2023 by mystery
visions Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 Yeah and it was still kinda bad nnn so don’t have too many regrets
Darkgalord Posted September 11, 2023 Author Posted September 11, 2023 2 minutes ago, Selegend said: No. mine was with a "random" guy but i didn't regret it we weren't completely strangers, we have seen each other like 2 or 3 times before, he was a friend's friend. it was okay! i had a first time doing it with someome that i loved like one year after and i think it was as special and magical and fire as if it were my first time overall, and at least i kinda knew how to do things. i don't regret it what is done is done, always take the best of it. I was very young, a teen. I met a man in his 30s online, he told me everything would be okay and found him extremely attractive tbh ( he was huge, very masculine) He obviously didn't rape me because I consented everything that happened, but I wish I had waited for someone special. My first love.
Hephaestus Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 Random guy for me as well and I don't regret it, although I also fantasized about doing it with someone special. Truth is most often than not first times are messy because you don't really know what you're doing, so it's not like you're missing on something amazing anyway.
Devin Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 Yes. The Pros: We were closer. The Cons: We were closer. (toxic/hard breakups)
Darkgalord Posted September 11, 2023 Author Posted September 11, 2023 1 minute ago, gatito said: yeah he was my first boyfriend Good for you.
glitch Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 No and people massively overrate first times. I remember it being awkward and not really that fun. The best part was waking up the next day and realising "losing your virginity" results in absolutely no material difference for your day to day life. I'm glad that now when I do have sex with people I actually like I've got that initial awkwardness out of the way
bliaz Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 No. It was with a neighbor, in a vacant lot. We were both 14 2
harwee Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 (edited) Um no Edited September 11, 2023 by harwee 1
PaloSanto Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 Yeah and i'm glad it was. It really set a standard for me tbh. My then bf didnt believe at first it was my first time and said he couldnt tell I also tried bottoming with him after a couple of months and it wasnt for me sadly 1
NickAurora Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 Yes. It was then that I knew bottoming wasn't for me, but he tasted good. Lol 1
Rei Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 Haven’t had my first time yet but I don’t want it to be with someone random. K bye for now, Sunshine. <3
shyboi Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 At the time yes but the breakup was a mess and now there's only hate lol
JoeAg Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 I regret how I didn’t make a big deal of my first time, it just felt like another hookup with an fwb of mine (his name was Scott, he was a total sweetheart) except this time with the added element of a d in my a lmaooo I don’t remember if I even ever told him that he was my first but I had already given/received head a ton of times before that instance, so I felt pretty experienced already anyway idk if I loved him, but I had a crush on him and he was such a great person!
WitnessOblivia Posted September 11, 2023 Posted September 11, 2023 Yes. I'm not with that person anymore, but I don't regret it.
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