discussion Muscle gay is mad more Gays prefer average bodies

[Bussea]

muscles aren’t that attractive tbh 

[CottageHore]

Some of us are into real men, not men only seen in magazines and tv shows with severe eating disorders  I love watching the stereotypical, self-obsessed white male fading into obscurity 

[-brian]

20 hours ago, Caesar said:

the muscular guys who do it naturally & the roided guys who are actually cautious about what their putting to their bodies yes. but the ones who just put things in their body, not aware of what their putting into their bodies those are the f***ed up ones.

Sooo what ur saying is some muscular guys are ****** up and some aren’t? 

Edited September 11, 2023 by -brian

[-brian]

20 hours ago, ScorpiosGroove said:

most muscle gays don’t know how to **** and have the personality of a bathtub, no surprise here 

 

14 hours ago, ScorpiosGroove said:

this omg even in clubs or at raves, some of the most annoying and off beat people in there are the shirtless muscle hunks

 

15 minutes ago, CottageHore said:

Some of us are into real men, not men only seen in magazines and tv shows with severe eating disorders  I love watching the stereotypical, self-obsessed white male fading into obscurity 

Like this is giving coping mechanism idk

Edited September 11, 2023 by -brian

[ScorpiosGroove]

12 minutes ago, -brian said:

 

 

Like this is giving coping mechanism idk

struck a nerve huh ? 

[-brian]

42 minutes ago, ScorpiosGroove said:

struck a nerve huh ? 

 mess nice try, but no 

 

“Most of them don’t know how to **** and have no personality” like u just made this up.. u are talking about a body type that encompasses millions of men  

 

”some of the most annoying ppl at raves are muscle hunks” there are off beat ppl everywhere in all shapes, yet u are staring at/focusing on these shirtless muscle hunks why? 

 

just sounds like insecurity to me 

Edited September 11, 2023 by -brian

[KBax]

Why does he even care... must not be getting enough dick in his life

[ontherocks]

I don't get him. I am a muscle gay and I simply ignore those who are not my body type, cause I am superior. 

[BILLIONAIRE✘BOY]

It's really not that serious and the more grandiose you try and get about **** like this, the more hurt you sound tbh. **** whoever you want, whether they work out or not. 

 

Believe in whatever helps you sleep better at night because at this point it sounds like you're trying to convince yourself aka stop living on twitter...Yall just sound bored. 

[madonnas]

22 hours ago, tellem said:

I really hate when people say “you can walk into x place and everyone looks like that” about an obviously above average looking man. Like why are you lying? 

Right 

 

he may have some body fat but no way in hell is his body type average for a mid 30s California man, let alone texas  

[Rotunda]

As someone who’s been out of the clubs/apps lifestyle for a couple years now, I think you realize just how asinine these discussions are when you’re not in the game.
 

Trying to recompose your whole body solely so you can get more insta likes, matches, and hookups seems like a horrible time.

 

At the same time, people who go out of their way to convince themselves that insta gays or gym gays are all these vapid losers, or that these gays don’t represent a beauty standard don’t realize they’re only showing just how preoccupied they are with these gays. 
 

[madonnas]

12 minutes ago, Rotunda said:

As someone who’s been out of the clubs/apps lifestyle for a couple years now, I think you realize just how asinine these discussions are when you’re not in the game.
 

Trying to recompose your whole body solely so you can get more insta likes, matches, and hookups seems like a horrible time.

 

At the same time, people who go out of their way to convince themselves that insta gays or gym gays are all these vapid losers, or that these gays don’t represent a beauty standard don’t realize they’re only showing just how preoccupied they are with these gays. 
 

Yep.  What OP said is dumb because jack is obviously far from “average” and that’s what made the statement outlandish for me but you can’t obsess over muscle gays and how annoying they can be.  It will just lead you to be miserable!! 

[Dessy]

Dude has thousands of followers and he's mad cause some people liked a random sweaty hairy dude?

 

Just say he's not for you and move on

[-brian]

1 hour ago, CottageHore said:

Lol plz. Let’s compare photos then, little miss projection  https://drive.google.com/file/d/11KKF4mEPJCbkvQUFfq4J_4EqDzIGO1B7/view?usp=drivesdk

Um what is this?? and do u know what projection means?  “some of us are into REAL men”.. do u not see the irony in that?  

 

Just bc your only experience with muscular men is from media doesn’t mean they’re not real men or that “99% of them have severe eating disorders” ?!! like bffr  clearly an underlying issue here sorry

Edited September 12, 2023 by -brian

[spree]

muscles will always be the hottest body type.  That's why gyms exist.  No one is looking at the dad bod at the bar, they are looking at the ripped guy, personality or no personality.  That's what draws the attention.  I just think a lot of guys are so lazy to even attempt to pick up a dumbbell that they make the excuse that an out of shape person is more attractive.  Dad bod guys can be very attractive, but overall the muscle gays will always have the edge.  Muscles are hot.

[spree]

2 hours ago, -brian said:

Um what is this?? and do u know what projection means?  “some of us are into REAL men”.. do u not see the irony in that?  

 

Just bc your only experience with muscular men is from media doesn’t mean they’re not real men or that “99% of them have severe eating disorders” ?!! like bffr  clearly an underlying issue here sorry

if anything, muscle men eat 99% BETTER than everyone who doesn't go to the gym.  You don't see them downing venti iced coffees with 10 pumps of toffee nut, or eating pizza and chicken nuggets and fries every night.  They eat clean.  It's a lifestyle.  Takes discipline, and a lot of hard work.  How is that a bad thing?  

[Jjang]

these men are so overtly consumed with themselves sex is horrible w/ them anyway

[venuss]

20 hours ago, rhaenyra said:

My favorite body type on men is this

 

But yes, way too many gay men nowadays care way too much about puffing their popcorn muscles

Bruno is such a hottie 

 

[Sir Galahad]

I think some of you confuse circuit gays with muscle gays. Even then, the generalisations seem like something most of you have accepted as truth, because it's easier to demonise body types which are largely seen as being unobtainable to most.

 

A lot of discipline goes into building muscle, and no they don't live in gyms or any less vain than the gays who put their efforts into makeup, clothing, hair etc. The only difference here is that they have a hobby which benefits them in many more ways in the eyes of others.

[spree]

43 minutes ago, Sir Galahad said:

I think some of you confuse circuit gays with muscle gays. Even then, the generalisations seem like something most of you have accepted as truth, because it's easier to demonise body types which are largely seen as being unobtainable to most.

 

A lot of discipline goes into building muscle, and no they don't live in gyms or any less vain than the gays who put their efforts into makeup, clothing, hair etc. The only difference here is that they have a hobby which benefits them in many more ways in the eyes of others.

yep!  Think of all the gay men that take an hour to get ready with hair, makeup, changing clothes multiple times, etc.  I can go to the gym, get a great workout, and come home, shower, and put something on quick in the same amount of time.  And I improved my life!

[kimberly]

this conversation is so tired. the muscle gay in the OP is vapid and stupid for trying to body shame Lana's ex and call him average. most people in this thread are pushing it if they think the gay standards of beauty are going anywhere. and if you respond to them saying "you're coping" you're just really weird, I don't know what to tell you.

 

my word of advice: you do not have to consider or declare your opinion on the attractiveness of anyone who you don't plan / have the possibility to have sex with. I know, crazy concept. let the average people enjoy their average bodies. let them compliment and swoon over the averageness. you lose nothing by withholding your negative, belittling opinion. tough for an attention seeker, I imagine.

 

the only thing I'll disagree with is some gays' infatuation with straight white men. they'll treat you like ****, even if they **** you in the DL. you deserve better than that.

[madonnas]

11 hours ago, kimberly said:

this conversation is so tired. the muscle gay in the OP is vapid and stupid for trying to body shame Lana's ex and call him average. most people in this thread are pushing it if they think the gay standards of beauty are going anywhere. and if you respond to them saying "you're coping" you're just really weird, I don't know what to tell you.

 

my word of advice: you do not have to consider or declare your opinion on the attractiveness of anyone who you don't plan / have the possibility to have sex with. I know, crazy concept. let the average people enjoy their average bodies. let them compliment and swoon over the averageness. you lose nothing by withholding your negative, belittling opinion. tough for an attention seeker, I imagine.

 

the only thing I'll disagree with is some gays' infatuation with straight white men. they'll treat you like ****, even if they **** you in the DL. you deserve better than that.

I mean honestly it is coping. 
 

speaking as someone who has my own issues with insecurities about my body, when I was younger, dismissing people as shallow/vapid/etc for having the body I wanted was definitely a cope.  Of course there’s some truth that some people who are super super meticulous about their physical appearance might be a bit vain but it’s also true that a lot of the negative comments about buff gays are like coming from a place of insecurity.  I get it and sympathize but yeah.  Projecting a negative personality onto someone just cuz they’re fit is kinda tired.  You gotta get over it.
 

my only issue with the tweet in the OP is that Jack D is not average in the slightest.  And he is probably the worst example of the “muscle gay” stereotype it seems. 
 

 

[kimberly]

30 minutes ago, madonnas said:

I mean honestly it is coping. 
 

speaking as someone who has my own issues with insecurities about my body, when I was younger, dismissing people as shallow/vapid/etc for having the body I wanted was definitely a cope.  Of course there’s some truth that some people who are super super meticulous about their physical appearance might be a bit vain but it’s also true that a lot of the negative comments about buff gays are like coming from a place of insecurity.  I get it and sympathize but yeah.  Projecting a negative personality onto someone just cuz they’re fit is kinda tired.  You gotta get over it.
 

my only issue with the tweet in the OP is that Jack D is not average in the slightest.  And he is probably the worst example of the “muscle gay” stereotype it seems. 

I mean, let people cope? you don't have to jump into the conversation implying that they all must be insecure and it's absolutely impossible they're not attracted to muscles and mean gays with fit bodies. isn't it literally projecting when you do that?

 

in my personal experience, I've found that the more "conventionally attractive" a man or woman is, the less personality they tend to develop. I don't think that makes me insecure, I can just observe a trend. of course this doesn't apply to all attractive people, but a majority that I have encountered (and especially among men).

 

nowadays my dating pool and dynamics are much more different as a trans woman. I don't compare my own body to the guys I see. that's got to be the most challenging part of being a gay man, when the ideals of beauty for men you are attracted to are the same as the ideals you have to live up to yourself.

[AvadaKedavra]

I love all man. With muscles and dont  As long as they give me love

[madonnas]

25 minutes ago, kimberly said:

I mean, let people cope? you don't have to jump into the conversation implying that they all must be insecure and it's absolutely impossible they're not attracted to muscles and mean gays with fit bodies. isn't it literally projecting when you do that?

 

in my personal experience, I've found that the more "conventionally attractive" a man or woman is, the less personality they tend to develop. I don't think that makes me insecure, I can just observe a trend. of course this doesn't apply to all attractive people, but a majority that I have encountered (and especially among men).

 

nowadays my dating pool and dynamics are much more different as a trans woman. I don't compare my own body to the guys I see. that's got to be the most challenging part of being a gay man, when the ideals of beauty for men you are attracted to are the same as the ideals you have to live up to yourself.

I mean if someone says their personal preference is something I take their word for it.   
 

but I’m not talking about people’s preferences like that. I’m talking about the comments that blatantly come from a place of hurt and insecurity 

“They’re all mean gays”

”they’re roided out and only care about themselves” 

“I don’t want a guy who spends 7 hours at the gym a day”

 

it’s like, I get what they are saying but when I read that I just know it comes from a place of insecurity cause I’ve been there and I wish gay people freedom from that insecurity.  Because lashing out and saying things like that doesn’t actually make one feel better in the long run.