discussion What do you look for in a guy personality-wise?

[Revolution]

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[Odette Violet]

Smart first and foremost. I'm a bit nerdy/geeky myself so I want someone who I can talk to with topics. 

Edited August 20, 2023 by Odette Violet

[magazine]

I don't look for guys

[sweetblindness]

Loyal, respectful, kind of reserved but fun, smart.

[Nightingale]

Kindness

At least some intelligence

Same sense of humor/a little sarcasm

Some self-confidence

[YellowRibbon]

Reserved

Fun

Kind-hearted 

[Smarticle]

A big....heart 

[Asparagus Spears]

If you’re really funny and witty I’ll open my butthole for you 

[princedonte]

Like me Quiet, boring and peaceful. 

[brooklyndaddy]

Reserved, independent and intelligent

 

I can’t stand big personalities and I definitely like to be the more dominant personality 

[Alldeezy]

besides got long hair?  they need a sense of humor (someone that can banter) Love music and isn't a narcissist. 

[Onyxmage]

If you can’t make me laugh you don’t exist to me I don’t care how good looking you are. I get bored EXTREMELY fast which is why I have mostly girl friends because so many guys are brain dead and no going to the gym is not a replacement for a personality. Literally if you are dumb or boring I run away.

Edited August 20, 2023 by Onyxmage

[DamianSolo]

I look for a kind and humble sensibility. I like someone who's more quiet and down-to-earth, who can still let loose and have fun, while also still being open to new experiences.

[DeepEnd]

Dominant, assertive, aggressive. 

[playboi]

Smart, open-minded, shy/introverted, funny

 

+1 if we can’t understand each other even in silence

[CristianGarcia]

Funny, kind but also chill and very sure of himself. 

[superben]

Respectful, understanding, and positive energy.

[Pop Life]

At least as smart as me, unashamedly geeky about something, stable (emotionally and financially), generous, (because I like to be a taken care of) soft-spoken and a little weird. 

[ugo]

toxic, red flags

[Flower]

Funny, caring, self-aware, educated, mindful, chill

[popmusicisdead]

a RICH personality 

[WEEKND]

A socialite with a sense of humour. 

[XO_Life]

Someone who is sweet & chill. 

 

[GreatCoolBright]

Chill

Confident

Sarcastic/funny

Has his own life and ambitions

Edited August 20, 2023 by GreatCoolBright

[cOe]

I've lately noticed I'm attracted to slightly dominant guys. Not too much but maybe just enough. Otherwise I feel no attraction even if they're very handsome