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Is insecurity the least attractive trait?


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 Is it?

 

After analyzing many years of conversation with multiple people, I have to say it is.

 

People seem to find it very off-putting.

 

I think we should all be https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cwLRQn61oUY confident.

 

Even if we are not, we should still pretend.

 

We have to appear strong. Because the reality is that people in this dünya do not care about you. We really only have ourselves.

 

What do you think?

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Just now, playboi said:

No I would say lack of intelligence and overconfidence are worse

This.  Also violent personalities and abusive personalities are far less attractive. 

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INSECURITY IS HOT!

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Yes. Stream Confident to celebrate

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i would say overconfidence and know-it-allism are worse.

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Just now, Legend E said:

INSECURITY IS HOT!

Where are all the hot shy **** who apologize too much :jonny: 

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1 minute ago, Dancehall Queen said:

Where are all the hot shy **** who apologize too much :jonny: 

I am sorry UwU! :chick1:

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I think the least attractive trait is being a cynical, bitter downer who always brings down the mood. I never gel well with those types.

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It's unattractive when one projects their insecurities onto you.

 

Just now, Dancehall Queen said:

Where are all the hot shy **** who apologize too much :jonny: 

Hi :jonny3:

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1 minute ago, Beyonnaise said:

I think the least attractive trait is being a cynical, bitter downer who always brings down the mood. I never gel well with those types.

I’m sorry :emofish:

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No, it's narcissism

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A healthy amount of confidence in a person is really important imo, it drives your ambition and goals and confident people are also usually more passionate, they surround themselves with people and have a positive outlook on the world. Pretty much everything I don't have :thing:

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Jealousy from the wise sis Keri Hilson

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I don't think so. I find it attractive when people are honest about their insecurities. I find it more attractive when they are facing their insecurities. That's courage.

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47 minutes ago, Beyonnaise said:

I think the least attractive trait is being a cynical, bitter downer who always brings down the mood. I never gel well with those types.

 Agreed. There is enough negativity in our lives.

 

I don't mind when people have something they want to open up about. But some people are always cynical and not nice to be around.

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“Pretending to be confident” will always be seen through and is infinitely more unattractive. 
 

It depends how your insecurity makes you act. Everyone is insecure about something.

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47 minutes ago, Jon Snow said:

I don't think so. I find it attractive when people are honest about their insecurities. I find it more attractive when they are facing their insecurities. That's courage.

. This. Emotional intelligence and healthy communication trump all else (insecurity can affect communication, but that can be fixed with time!)

 

Also, ngl I think super shy, insecure, fearful, apologetic etc. guys are so hot. :jonnycat:

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1 hour ago, Aquamarine said:

. This. Emotional intelligence and healthy communication trump all else (insecurity can affect communication, but that can be fixed with time!)

 

Also, ngl I think super shy, insecure, fearful, apologetic etc. guys are so hot. :jonnycat:

I like to care for them :ducky:

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If their insecurity is strong enough to where they can't even enjoy doing the simplest things in life, yes. I'd rather someone who was overconfident, however annoying that would end up being. But I just couldn't babysit someone's insecurity.

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 I’d take insecure over arrogant any day. 

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Overwhelming insecurity is unattractive but there are worse things, id take insecure man over an idiot 

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Or like smelly one, thats also worse

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NORMALLY THERE THE MOST FAITHFUL SO NO.

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