Revolution Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 Is it? After analyzing many years of conversation with multiple people, I have to say it is. People seem to find it very off-putting. I think we should all be https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cwLRQn61oUY confident. Even if we are not, we should still pretend. We have to appear strong. Because the reality is that people in this dünya do not care about you. We really only have ourselves. What do you think? 1
Popular Post playboi Posted August 7, 2023 Popular Post Posted August 7, 2023 No I would say lack of intelligence and overconfidence are worse 15 1
Popular Post Kayseri Mantisi Posted August 7, 2023 Popular Post Posted August 7, 2023 Are you also trying to appear more attractive and confident by talking like this? 5 1 16
byzantium Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 Just now, playboi said: No I would say lack of intelligence and overconfidence are worse This. Also violent personalities and abusive personalities are far less attractive. 3 1
ATRL Moderator Legend E Posted August 7, 2023 ATRL Moderator Posted August 7, 2023 INSECURITY IS HOT! 5 1
popmusicisdead Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 i would say overconfidence and know-it-allism are worse. 6 1
Dancehall Queen Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 Just now, Legend E said: INSECURITY IS HOT! Where are all the hot shy **** who apologize too much 4 2
ATRL Moderator Legend E Posted August 7, 2023 ATRL Moderator Posted August 7, 2023 1 minute ago, Dancehall Queen said: Where are all the hot shy **** who apologize too much I am sorry UwU! 1
Beyonnaise Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 I think the least attractive trait is being a cynical, bitter downer who always brings down the mood. I never gel well with those types.
Siblon Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 It's unattractive when one projects their insecurities onto you. Just now, Dancehall Queen said: Where are all the hot shy **** who apologize too much Hi 1
Dancehall Queen Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 1 minute ago, Beyonnaise said: I think the least attractive trait is being a cynical, bitter downer who always brings down the mood. I never gel well with those types. I’m sorry
Illuminati Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 A healthy amount of confidence in a person is really important imo, it drives your ambition and goals and confident people are also usually more passionate, they surround themselves with people and have a positive outlook on the world. Pretty much everything I don't have
Jon Snow Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 I don't think so. I find it attractive when people are honest about their insecurities. I find it more attractive when they are facing their insecurities. That's courage.
Revolution Posted August 7, 2023 Author Posted August 7, 2023 47 minutes ago, Beyonnaise said: I think the least attractive trait is being a cynical, bitter downer who always brings down the mood. I never gel well with those types. Agreed. There is enough negativity in our lives. I don't mind when people have something they want to open up about. But some people are always cynical and not nice to be around.
Arrows Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 “Pretending to be confident” will always be seen through and is infinitely more unattractive. It depends how your insecurity makes you act. Everyone is insecure about something. 1
Aquamarine Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 47 minutes ago, Jon Snow said: I don't think so. I find it attractive when people are honest about their insecurities. I find it more attractive when they are facing their insecurities. That's courage. . This. Emotional intelligence and healthy communication trump all else (insecurity can affect communication, but that can be fixed with time!) Also, ngl I think super shy, insecure, fearful, apologetic etc. guys are so hot. 1
Jon Snow Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 1 hour ago, Aquamarine said: . This. Emotional intelligence and healthy communication trump all else (insecurity can affect communication, but that can be fixed with time!) Also, ngl I think super shy, insecure, fearful, apologetic etc. guys are so hot. I like to care for them 1
DamianSolo Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 If their insecurity is strong enough to where they can't even enjoy doing the simplest things in life, yes. I'd rather someone who was overconfident, however annoying that would end up being. But I just couldn't babysit someone's insecurity.
Kimi Posted August 7, 2023 Posted August 7, 2023 Overwhelming insecurity is unattractive but there are worse things, id take insecure man over an idiot
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