discussion Hard hitting truths gay men aren't ready to hear?

[Xtina23]

That I'm the #BaddestBitch of all time. OKURRR??!!!!

[brooklyndaddy]

Jockstraps are ugly and you’d just look better naked or wearing skimpy clothing someone would actually where in real life… not in a tacky Samsung photo shoot in your gamer chair 

[discosean]

On 7/31/2023 at 1:21 PM, Technicolor said:

You can't turn a straight man gay 

Yes you can. My last two boyfriends were those. 

[Raptus]

Being gay does't mean you have to act/talk like a teenage girl in your 30/40/50s

[Whis]

6 hours ago, brooklyndaddy said:

Jockstraps are ugly and you’d just look better naked or wearing skimpy clothing someone would actually where in real life… not in a tacky Samsung photo shoot in your gamer chair 

Wrong. Muscle bottoms with jockstraps are HOT.

[imabadkid]

11 hours ago, brooklyndaddy said:

Jockstraps are ugly and you’d just look better naked or wearing skimpy clothing someone would actually where in real life… not in a tacky Samsung photo shoot in your gamer chair 

I actually agree... they just look ridiculous tbh. It's part of why gay p*rn doesn't rly turn me on all of the time. a guy in a jockstrap is just... there's nothing sexy or sensual about that.

[Kern]

12 hours ago, Jude said:

Age does not matter. Size does not matter. Race does not matter.

In a perfect world maybe but in reality gays always judge all those things and a lot more. 

[Stallo]

Sexuality is not a personality. 

[Wooper]

A LOT of us cheat in monogamous relationships

[Queen.]

I got a good one but I will be banned. 

 

 

 

[State of Grace.]

12 hours ago, discosean said:

Yes you can. My last two boyfriends were those. 

Okay and that doesn't make them straight. They were gay (or bi) and in denial or haven't come to terms with it yet

[VerdantHue]

The term masc for masc enforces misogyny - read between the lines.

[Mr. Blue_Shirt]

13 hours ago, discosean said:

Yes you can. My last two boyfriends were those. 

...and everybody clap

[DoubleRainbow!]

******* and showing your h***e at pride has nothing to do with the movement 

[Jukebox]

On 7/31/2023 at 9:25 PM, Peroxide said:

When I moved to London, one of my Uni friends told me… when you’re a gay man in a city, if you aren’t attractive, wealthy, well connected or sociable, you’re in for an incredibly harsh ride with the fellow community.

 

Being a chubby introvert from the country… I found this to be very, very true.

Literally me in London the last 5 years  This is so true

[Wooper]

On 7/31/2023 at 10:25 PM, Peroxide said:

When I moved to London, one of my Uni friends told me… when you’re a gay man in a city, if you aren’t attractive, wealthy, well connected or sociable, you’re in for an incredibly harsh ride with the fellow community.

 

Being a chubby introvert from the country… I found this to be very, very true.

This is such a mess but so true. After losing a ton of weight (30kg) I'm now interesting to the shitty boys that didn't see me before. 

[Monkey_Juice]

Stop promoting children under 16 from transitioning and taking hormones.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Specter]

Someone in this thread really said "my last two boyfriends were straight" 

 

[Gaia]

Monogamy isn’t a “heteronormative lifestyle” that is “anti gay”

 

 

Edited August 2, 2023 by Gaia

[Bubble Tea]

Being gay in itself isn't a personality. If all you've got going on is Ru Paul, gay memes, Grindr and having gay friends you're essentially void of a personality. So many gays I meet have zero hobbies or interest that aren't related to their sexuality.

[Cap87]

On 8/1/2023 at 1:21 PM, Theshigo Washidu said:

If only Lil Nas X knew this

Lil Nas X has not made that his personality but he's not going to tone himself down to please others

[Phaunzie]

Not every room is a place to show off how many shots you got. Keep it in the home where no one else has to witness your crusty face.

 

Get tested as often as you can because 99% is not 100%. 

 

Astrology is a pseudoscience, not a real science. Stop acting like the position of the moon, stars and sun has any effect on your mood, emotions and how you act. Like this is something that we should all know but, gays of all kinds are acting like pseudosciences like Astrology have truth to them. Like y'all treat it like some type of religion P.S No one cares about your astrological sign, keep to yourself & your friends + it is cringe when yall try to use star charts & horoscopes to explain away why you are being a dick. Dating advice: Astrology gays are like cult members, AVOID AT ALL COST.

Not all representation needs to be clean cut and wholesome, make us villains, make us messy and make us selfish. Those wholesome gays don't exist in the real world, and never will. And I am not talking about the bxtchy gay character trope, I want cultic bears (because bear groups are like cult y'all), promiscuous gymrat with lack of self-aware, the old gays that wait outside the clubs looking for drunk fresh meat, and the group of white gays with one token friend (You know who I am talking about(usually masc4masc pxrnstars or the pass around muscle bottoms & tops)). Make it a teachable moment for young gays who just came out, because these new gen z gays run into the community expecting some loving and caring brotherhood only to get used by the many social climbers that populate the gay community. 

 

Darker skin is not dirty, stop asking gays with darker skin tones if they bathed (for the asian gays). 

Edited August 3, 2023 by Phaunzie

[Phaunzie]

Forgot one, being a suga-baby is not an aspect of being gay. Stop pushing this idea that the dream life is shack up with some old man for money, instead of getting a job and being independent. Like why is it that this is seen as something to aspire to be. This directed to gay Hollywood and, those tiktokers and instagram influencers  that are hellbent on being in suga-baby relationship, at the tender age of 20-25. Stop trying to make it sexy, gay Hollywood. 

[jjmed59]

what yall are actually into is DL men but not straight men. straight men wont be putting their dickiana in your heauxle

[jjmed59]

14 hours ago, Wooper said:

A LOT of us cheat in monogamous relationships

 this is why me and my man have an open relationship. yall can downvote me all yall want but i think to expect ONE person to satisfy all your needs is very unfair. and to compromise your needs WILL lead to resentment.