reymiu Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 1 hour ago, Peroxide said: When I moved to London, one of my Uni friends told me… when you’re a gay man in a city, if you aren’t attractive, wealthy, well connected or sociable, you’re in for an incredibly harsh ride with the fellow community. Being a chubby introvert from the country… I found this to be very, very true. Sending love and hugs to you babe
JoeAg Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 3 minutes ago, Solaris said: Maybe you just don’t fit in with gay men, that’s certainly the impression I get from speaking to you I do fit in with gay men. two of my closest friends are gay trans men. my closest college friend is an anti-social, hilarious, sexy, nerdy cis gay man. we've hooked up a lot in our friendship, but it's never been based on that fact. another good friend is a loud, occasionally aggressive, ultimately sympathetic and funny cis gay man who's turning 30 soon. my brother, who is tied with my sister as the sibling I'm closest to out of the four, is a gay man. hell, most guy fwbs I have are gay men and not bi lol. they just so happen to be that way, just like I so happen to be one of the many bi men they're comfortable around. so no, you don't know me, but now you know that I have so many gay men in my life I love and treasure. so ya 4 1
CBC Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 12 minutes ago, JohnWayneHolland said: Y'all shouldn't be naked at pride, nobody wants to see that, there are other ways of fighting for your rights than showing your genitals to strangers on the street yall gotta stop spreading this bs and actually go outside and experience pride 8 1
Josh Posted July 31, 2023 Author Posted July 31, 2023 14 minutes ago, JohnWayneHolland said: Y'all shouldn't be naked at pride, nobody wants to see that, there are other ways of fighting for your rights than showing your genitals to strangers on the street How is that any different than breeders at Mardi Gras? Gay Pride is our Mardi Gras 1
BraveNewSeth Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 1 hour ago, P.O.P said: You are still a man and the worst qualities of a man still applies to you. Not even gonna lie, it took me so long to come to terms with this 2
imabadkid Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 1 hour ago, Technicolor said: You can't turn a straight man gay honey this mouth has done it... several times 1
Josh Posted July 31, 2023 Author Posted July 31, 2023 (edited) Just now, imabadkid said: honey this mouth has done it... several times they were never straight to begin with Bicurious maybe Edited July 31, 2023 by Josh
MidnightsAtPeace Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 your obsession with bulking up and looking like you are in your mid-20s is so weird and ****** up. 1 1
CBC Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 yall gotta stop patrolling the community, acab applies to you too 1
JohnWayneHolland Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 3 minutes ago, Josh said: How is that any different than breeders at Mardi Gras? Gay Pride is our Mardi Gras I've no idea what Mardi Gras is, but I'm against any type of nudity/sexual acts on public, so... 1 2
meangreen11 Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 Some of us call very reasonable rules “oppression” even though it wouldn’t be ok if a straight person did it either. The restaurant not letting you in wearing a mesh tank top isn’t homophobic, being asked to wear something more than a jockstrap at Pride isn’t oppression, being asked not to be obnoxious, loud, and talk about sex in public isn’t censorship. Act like responsible, respectful adults in public, because you’re representing an already scrutinized community and not doing us any favors. 12 2 2
BionicWooHoo Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 Padam Padam, vodka soda and RPDR being your only personality traits is very basic 1 1
JohnWayneHolland Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 7 minutes ago, CBC said: yall gotta stop spreading this bs and actually go outside and experience pride Girl idc, that's MY OPINION 1
cockatoo Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 Your trauma is yours to deal with, stop lashing out at other people because you're not happy with yourself. It won't make you any happier in the long run and it will just push people away. 3
CBC Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 1 minute ago, JohnWayneHolland said: Girl idc, that's MY OPINION your opinion is based on an hypothetical scenario 1
Josh Posted July 31, 2023 Author Posted July 31, 2023 1 minute ago, cockatoo said: Your trauma is yours to deal with, stop lashing out at other people because you're not happy with yourself. It won't make you any happier in the long run and it will just push people away. I hate how people say that the reason why some gay men who love older gay men is because they have repressed daddy issues they haven't dealt with. 1
Peroxide Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 21 minutes ago, reymiu said: Sending love and hugs to you babe Thanks sis. There’s no greater motivator to lose 3 stone than your own community giving you the cold shoulder 1
50thStateofMind Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 22 minutes ago, imabadkid said: honey this mouth has done it... several times honey those were NOT straight men
50thStateofMind Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 oh here's one older gays hate to hear: bisexuality EXISTS 8
Kimbra Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 Not the worst thing the bisexuals have to deal with is people assuming their straight while gay men and lesbian women deals with actual material violence. OT: Alot of y'all grew up to be the bullies you resented for bullying you. 4
ScorpiosGroove Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 being on prep doesn’t mean you should **** strangers bareback
Mtjjproducer Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 (edited) 2010s era of edm pop was trash and current music especially rnb is MUCH better Edited July 31, 2023 by Mtjjproducer 1 5
imabadkid Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 28 minutes ago, Josh said: they were never straight to begin with Bicurious maybe 5 minutes ago, 50thStateofMind said: honey those were NOT straight men if a man says he's str8 i believe them. but they prob are (bi) but it's not my job to tell someone what their sexuality is tbh. 2 minutes ago, ScorpiosGroove said: being on prep doesn’t mean you should **** strangers bareback it honestly shocks me how condoms have become a relic of the past for gayz... as if other STDs don't exist. I've noticed when I hook up with men who typically hook up with women they're way more likely to use condoms then guys who exclusively only sleep with other men. I feel like it this area the community has gone backwards. yes, prep is great but u still need to protect yourself. 1
Headlock Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 1 hour ago, Solaris said: Like what are you talking about? Biphobia? I also don’t see specifically straight passing, closeted bisexual people as really part of my community These statements being back to back, thank you for giving a perfect example of what biphobia is 2
Headlock Posted July 31, 2023 Posted July 31, 2023 1 hour ago, Solaris said: Like oh no, someone told you to “pick a side” That must have taken years of therapy to get over 49 minutes ago, Solaris said: Maybe you just don’t fit in with gay men, that’s certainly the impression I get from speaking to you Jesus christ you really are digging that hole further huh
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