Single ladies - do you like being single?

[Kern]

I must admit I wonder sometimes how would it be to be in a relationship. I wouldn’t have to do everything alone and I would probably spend less time online but then also I wouldn’t have that much time for myself.

it doesn’t help that usually I am the one rejecting guys that are into me it’s like I am fine with being alone but I don’t want to be single forever 

 

[Jon Snow]

I like being independent and having time for myself, but sometimes I wish I had closeness with someone, I wish to sleep and cuddle with them, and be loved and love back. I guess I don't wanna sacrifice my independence, and I'm probably scared. I like it this way, and I have decided that I'm waiting to find the right person. I don't wanna be hurt, and I don't wanna hurt someone else, cause I feel that would happen if I'm not sure that the thing is real. So, yeah... I really like being single and all the independence and lack of toxicity that I have, but I would very much like to be in a healthy relationship, eventually.

 

EDIT: If someone asks why I don't have a girlfriend, I'm focusing on my studies.  That is partially true, though. I do wanna focus on my studies. 

Another thing that scares me is that I would wanna hold hands with, kiss and hug my eventual boyfriend in public. What scares me is that I won't be able to do it in my homophobic surroundings. I was once seeing a guy that didn't wanna get close to me when we're outside, even though no one could see us. I hated that. 

Edited July 27, 2023 by Jon Snow

[Selegend]

i love being single. sometimes i wish i wasn't someone who falls in love easily cuz my single months/years are always the best.

i'm currently in my 3rd serious relationship and i had 5 relationships (2 without labels but that lasted handful months if i include my school days), for 26 yrs old + gay man that is kinda of a lot. 

but the liberty u feel single is everything, don't take it for granted!!

 

my advice is: don't think about it that much. enjoy your single love to the fullest. 

but when u fall in love, don't think twice, dive right in. i think that's the secret of a happy life

don't think about the heartbreak: it happens but it pass! so just enjoy ur single life so then u can dive right in a releationship. 

loving to the fullest when u're in love, but living ur single life also to the fullest. u don't need to worry to be single forever. 

enjoy what u have now, the absolute freedom, the don't having to text someone about what u did on ur day (it's cute for some days but it gets tiring sometimes). 

when u live a full happy single life it will be even easier for u to get into a releationship 

 

 

 

[Kh-Loud]

Honestly, I love being single. I’ve been in two serious relationships. One was probably the best person I’ve ever known and we are still very good friends; the other one had made me grow so much  because of the pain that the relationship had caused me. 

 

Having said all that, unless I meet the right person, I’m staying single forever! Also, men are simply holes and ducks to me unless they have great personalities. 

Edited July 27, 2023 by Kh-Loud

[EtherealCat]

i cant imagine myself in a relationship, i dont see myself working in one, im too disconnected from that now

[cockatoo]

I really enjoy periods of being single when I'm not dating at all, I feel like that's when I'm at my happiest. When I'm in dating mode it can be fun, but it's quite draining cycling through guys, first dates, hookups etc.

[réveuse]

I'm fine with being single as of the moment. Maybe in the future when I'll find the one.

[Alex]

The Single Life > 

 

but I don't think I'll be opposed to getting into a relationship, if and when I find the right person 

[Alldeezy]

Yes & No, for a girl with bpd being in a relationship is exhusting and hell for me espically if they decide to act a littlest cold towards me, so been feeling relaxed and happier not having to worry about that, however I miss having a bf I can take to concerts (because i'm so lonely and want to go see concerts and in the past my boyfriends are always my best friends and I drag them to everyone I see) 

 

 

however I should think about dating again, it's just every male gives me the ick lately

 

and i'm not young like all of you, most men my age are either married or in long term relationships, so I feel at this point my time is up and I wasted it on so many jerkbags (10 years, 6 boyfriends) just hasn't been a good run.