shinyshimmery Posted July 25, 2023 Posted July 25, 2023 Adding my name to the list of breakups this year Who else is going through it right now? maybe we can help each other cope
SinnerCity Posted July 25, 2023 Posted July 25, 2023 Well, Virgo is retrograding so a lot of changes in relationships are happening between now and early September. It’s a great moment to stop and reassess what you’ve learned in your past relationships and what do you need to heal before starting a new one.
shinyshimmery Posted July 25, 2023 Author Posted July 25, 2023 34 minutes ago, Siblon said: Hi, broke up a month ago but I’m here. How long were ya'll together? personally I was with my ex for almost 3 years in November.
Siblon Posted July 25, 2023 Posted July 25, 2023 9 minutes ago, shinyshimmery said: How long were ya'll together? personally I was with my ex for almost 3 years in November. I’m so sorry We lasted about 1.5 years. First love, first heartbreak.
shinyshimmery Posted July 25, 2023 Author Posted July 25, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, SinnerCity said: Well, Virgo is retrograding so a lot of changes in relationships are happening between now and early September. It’s a great moment to stop and reassess what you’ve learned in your past relationships and what do you need to heal before starting a new one. I learned to not forgive a third time The first time it (infidelity) happened, I forgave him... he did it again, the worst part is finding out about it the hard way. We were building a house together, he wanted a hero... I wanted a life partner. I learned I will never fix anyone's life ever again. The next person will have to meet me halfway, bc I am not dating another insecure bum again. Well, he wasn't technically a "bum" but out of the two of us... I am the most financially responsible. Edited July 25, 2023 by shinyshimmery 1
shinyshimmery Posted July 25, 2023 Author Posted July 25, 2023 (edited) 19 minutes ago, Siblon said: I’m so sorry We lasted about 1.5 years. First love, first heartbreak. this is my first too. agonizing pain Edited July 25, 2023 by shinyshimmery
Siblon Posted July 25, 2023 Posted July 25, 2023 1 hour ago, shinyshimmery said: this is my first too. agonizing pain Keep yourself distracted. See friends. Go out. Hike. Journal. Give yourself reasons why the breakup is a good thing. And listen to Susan Winters. Hope this helps you. It helped me a lot. 2
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