kweenofxanax Posted July 2, 2023 Author Posted July 2, 2023 41 minutes ago, Allday said: Met someone new most break ups tbh. Always filled the hole with a new person. But after my last break I was so done with dating so I filled the hole with my favourite artist instead. Honestly just keep busy, meet new people. It's very hard I know that but yeah not exactly meeting a new person to date but someone to just hang and get to know does help a lot. Thank you. I'll finally get there eventually ❤️
Siblon Posted July 2, 2023 Posted July 2, 2023 I’m going through the same thing babe, today marks a month since my breakup with my first love. Even though he sneaks into my mind I’m in a much better place, I’ve trained my brain to remind me it’s not that serious, life goes on, this too shall pass, all my faves have gone through it and delivered masterpieces and magnum opus’ through heartbreak. I also ended up in a YouTube wormhole and found this queen who helped me find comfort, check her videos out! 1
kweenofxanax Posted July 2, 2023 Author Posted July 2, 2023 1 hour ago, Siblon said: I’m going through the same thing babe, today marks a month since my breakup with my first love. Even though he sneaks into my mind I’m in a much better place, I’ve trained my brain to remind me it’s not that serious, life goes on, this too shall pass, all my faves have gone through it and delivered masterpieces and magnum opus’ through heartbreak. I also ended up in a YouTube wormhole and found this queen who helped me find comfort, check her videos out! I respect you in so many ways!!! You did if!! Got over a guy somehow. Hopefully, I can do the same one day 💞
Riverbank Posted July 2, 2023 Posted July 2, 2023 When life starts throwing more important problems at you, you will move on. 2
Aristede Posted July 2, 2023 Posted July 2, 2023 You just quit caring once you realize they don't care about you. You start to realize how silly it is to think about them every waking moment when they probably haven't even thought about you once. 1
DamianSolo Posted July 2, 2023 Posted July 2, 2023 I moved on by just living my life. Of course you'll want to dwell on it and wonder about all of the reasons why it didn't work and why he was enough stupid to not realize how great you are; trust me, I've been there before. But realize that there is just better out there for you, that's where is starts. And, from there, I just live my life by indulging in my interests, trying new things, being focused on my work whenever I'm in the workplace and communicating with people who do have my best interests at heart—it does help to have a good support system; go out with friends and have fun! "Better" has always come around for me, one way or another. And that doesn't mean that they're going to have a permanent place in my life, but they do fulfill a role—even if it's just giving me hope for someone truly phenomenal. And the best person for you won't always be "the best." Do have standards, of course, but just go through life expecting the unexpected and don't brush people off so hastily.
Johnny Jacobs Posted July 2, 2023 Posted July 2, 2023 Trying to forget makes it worse. Only time and new people will help you do that. There is no forgetting button I'm afraid. There is no shortcut. I wish there was. Also from my prospective, you never really forget or stop feeling either. I still have some feelings and still remember my x even years after we broke up and years after i moved on with my current boyfriend. He made things harder by keep trying to get back together for 2 years but even when he stopped i still love him, not like before, but still love. Just go through the process of it. Grief the loss of it and take it one day at a time and listen to old avril and 00s rock bands. it helps 1
KatyPrismSpirit Posted July 2, 2023 Posted July 2, 2023 Shifting perspective. Realizing this life is temporary anyways lolz
Bethenny Frankel Posted July 2, 2023 Posted July 2, 2023 It's been almost three months since my breakup and I think I'm finally happy and loving myself again 1
Jjang Posted July 2, 2023 Posted July 2, 2023 2 minutes ago, Rotunda said: You kinda just wake up one day and are over it… as simple as that
SimpleKindofLife Posted July 2, 2023 Posted July 2, 2023 I realized that he didn’t treat me the way I needed to be treated and it’s been pretty simple since then for me to not be hurt anymore. He still texts me occasionally with flirty messages and it’s weird because he has a whole new man but it just reminds me that he had something very good and he lost it and I refuse to retread old territory. Every failed relationship is a lesson learned, keep your head up
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