Mezter Posted June 22, 2023 Posted June 22, 2023 Well what's it gonna be? When your man ain't treating you like the KING (or Queen) you are, which do you opt for?
ImsoLOUD Posted June 22, 2023 Posted June 22, 2023 (edited) permanent silent treatment tbh edit: there is someone in here that previously said that they were straight.. happy pride 💋 Edited June 22, 2023 by ImsoLOUD
Just a Gay on ATRL Posted June 22, 2023 Posted June 22, 2023 The best answer is neither. If this is someone who is supposed to be your SO, you have to talk to them about it. If you can’t communicate with your partner healthily, the relationship is doomed. Silent treatment won’t do anything but make it awkward overtime. Temper tantrum will escalate **** quickly. If after the communication, they’re still not treating you right, that’s when you think about leaving and moving on If this thread was about FRIENDS who don’t treat you right, that’s different and my answer would be silent treatment. If friends are not treating you right, best thing to do is not confront them and just quietly move on to people who will treat you better. I’m kind of in the middle of a quarter life friendship crisis where I’m re-evaluating all of my friendships tbh. 8
Before Today Posted June 22, 2023 Posted June 22, 2023 Rationally everyone will say "be an adult" but in relationships when emotions are involved... this kind of thing happens. Typically, I'd rather we have a fight" or confront each other if must, but my bf is rather non-confrontational so... now I tend to give the silent treatment. I'd rather just wait for the right time to talk and cool down. 1
Sawk Posted June 22, 2023 Posted June 22, 2023 48 minutes ago, Jaded. said: The best answer is neither. If this is someone who is supposed to be your SO, you have to talk to them about it. If you can’t communicate with your partner healthily, the relationship is doomed. Silent treatment won’t do anything but make it awkward overtime. Temper tantrum will escalate **** quickly. If after the communication, they’re still not treating you right, that’s when you think about leaving and moving on If this thread was about FRIENDS who don’t treat you right, that’s different and my answer would be silent treatment. If friends are not treating you right, best thing to do is not confront them and just quietly move on to people who will treat you better. I’m kind of in the middle of a quarter life friendship crisis where I’m re-evaluating all of my friendships tbh. You ate this up sis
PMKARDASHIAN Posted June 22, 2023 Posted June 22, 2023 I usually lean towards silent treatment but only when it’s initiated by them. I have kind of an explosive temper than I’ve actively been working on for years so throwing a tantrum isn’t something I would do these days. ideally I’d like to have a discussion and come to a resolution when I (or we) have our separate time to collect our thoughts and getting our emotions under control
Bussea Posted June 22, 2023 Posted June 22, 2023 2 hours ago, Jaded. said: The best answer is neither. If this is someone who is supposed to be your SO, you have to talk to them about it. If you can’t communicate with your partner healthily, the relationship is doomed. Silent treatment won’t do anything but make it awkward overtime. Temper tantrum will escalate **** quickly. If after the communication, they’re still not treating you right, that’s when you think about leaving and moving on If this thread was about FRIENDS who don’t treat you right, that’s different and my answer would be silent treatment. If friends are not treating you right, best thing to do is not confront them and just quietly move on to people who will treat you better. I’m kind of in the middle of a quarter life friendship crisis where I’m re-evaluating all of my friendships tbh.
byzantium Posted June 22, 2023 Posted June 22, 2023 I just communicate my thoughts and we work it out.
DamianSolo Posted June 22, 2023 Posted June 22, 2023 As an adult who is able to communicate effectively, I'm realistically giving the silent treatment. I'm just avoiding the situation and being sure to practice a very healthy amount of self-care in the process; these are the times I splurge on myself. Once he gets his mind right and comes around, I'll healthily communicate how I feel about what happened. Sometimes I just don't feel like having those types of conversations especially when someone already knows what they're doing is "wrong." There's no love lost, but I'll be doing my own thing—while still being faithful, of course.
bleuwaffle Posted June 23, 2023 Posted June 23, 2023 Bring up what's bothering you in a healthy way and if nothing changes, permanent silent treatment
Dream Posted June 23, 2023 Posted June 23, 2023 No need for drama. If it's not working out, opt for a permanent silent treatment and move on.
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