kweenofxanax Posted June 17, 2023 Author Posted June 17, 2023 Just now, Karla Cabello said: cause hes just not that into you Yeah, I'm an emotional mess. I'm just trying to navigate through how I feel. It was wrong and I apologise.
Karla Cabello Posted June 17, 2023 Posted June 17, 2023 Just now, kweenofxanax said: Yeah, I'm an emotional mess. I'm just trying to navigate through how I feel. It was wrong and I apologise. youre not girl, i used to be the same but i realized most men dont feel any emotional responsability and they can leave you hanging for ever instead of just telling you they are not interested so its best to move on, its for the best.
kweenofxanax Posted June 17, 2023 Author Posted June 17, 2023 1 minute ago, Karla Cabello said: youre not girl, i used to be the same but i realized most men dont feel any emotional responsability and they can leave you hanging for ever instead of just telling you they are not interested so its best to move on, its for the best. Yes. Thanks for understanding I was just really curious. I just wanted to know if maybe, somewhere, out there that they tweeted or posted about how they felt. I'm just so left in the blue, I need to know how to proceed. But obviously in the way they acted, I should know better.
TheCheshireCat Posted June 17, 2023 Posted June 17, 2023 This exact scenario happened to me last year, it was maddening so I feel your pain. What I ended up doing is just texting him saying something like “Hey, I really enjoyed our back and forth but I can’t help but notice the pace of conversation has changed this past few weeks and I’m curious if you are still interested in seeing me?” which he almost immediately responded to with a kind yet very direct rejection. This was after 3 very fun and spicy dates which seemingly had so much potential, but being direct gave me the closure I needed.
Noodles Posted June 17, 2023 Posted June 17, 2023 He's not NOT interested, but you're into him way more than he's into you. That doesn't reflect your worth nor his, so don't let that make you feel not valued. You sound like you have anxious attachment style, whereas he might be the flip flopping fearful avoidant style though I don't have enough info to really say. It helps to put a name onto things so you might want to read up on attachment styles. The only thing that works is to get in touch with yourself and address the codependency you might have. I'm still working on that myself. Establish your boundaries, move on to the next man but with better expectation and more self-love. You'll figure it out
Johnny Jacobs Posted June 17, 2023 Posted June 17, 2023 Answering aftsr more than 8 Hours tops isn't acceptable... And i say 8 cause its working om hours or something. 3-4 days sis? Respect yourself and move on sweetie. You deserve better than this
Cyanide Posted June 17, 2023 Posted June 17, 2023 If he’s not answering it means he wants to see you IRL. Go to his house!
OrgVisual Posted June 17, 2023 Posted June 17, 2023 4 hours ago, kweenofxanax said: Yes. Thanks for understanding I was just really curious. I just wanted to know if maybe, somewhere, out there that they tweeted or posted about how they felt. I'm just so left in the blue, I need to know how to proceed. But obviously in the way they acted, I should know better. I don't know how old you are? But letting go is a really hard part of growing up, that's why dating sucks and I'd never want to go back to it again cuz it plays with your emotions all the time. If you want closure, maybe just straight up ask him. Wait for a week or two if he's texting back, and ask him if he's still interested in meeting up, tell him how you feel about him and if he would feel the same way.
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