Does "Stop looking for love, let it find you" only work for Straights?

[katara]

1 hour ago, FreeXone said:

Nope it works for everyone. I’ve never actively looked for a relationship but always found myself in one! Like I will literally want

to so Badly be in my ho era and men just wanna date and be serious lol 

 

it will come when you not expect it or

not want it 

Now this is def true. I tried for a relationship the first months of this year but it just didn't work at all but these past 3 months I been just wanting sex and a lot of these guys suddenly want to go on dates and see if a relationship could form 

[DamianSolo]

Yes. A gay guy needs to put himself out there a bit, especially one who lives in a small city like I do. You have to make an effort; the thing, though, is the dating pool is very small. Once you do put yourself out there, within several months you'll have already been exposed to nearly all of the gays a town has to offer, in a manner of speaking. There's always going to be that wild card that just stays in their house all day that you just randomly come across online when they simply try again to find someone after years of not having had an online presence; I end up getting along best with guys like that.

 

Naturally, it's easier for a guy living in a big city like Los Angeles, Miami or Dallas. Meanwhile, I'm in small town USA—in the middle of Louisiana.

[RunUpDoneUp]

If you listen to anyone telling you to not be active in your own success, you deserve failure.

 

Love is a numbers game, you have to participate, you just don't have to obsess like people have been coded to be.