Bosque Posted June 18, 2023 Posted June 18, 2023 On 6/17/2023 at 4:02 AM, Tropez said: People can have relationships however they want. I don’t care. But it’s annoying seeing a guy that checks all your boxes but he’s in an open relationship. If they were in a closed relationship, they wouldn’t be available to you in the first place. Your logic makes no sense.
RunUpDoneUp Posted June 19, 2023 Posted June 19, 2023 No, they're not. Idk why people keep making other's preferences their issue. You did not have a chance at monogamy with these people. It's not a game, this is people's wants and needs. Stop limiting yourself to select groups in the first place, if you keep running into the same issue, it's what you're doing wrong not the community. You're squaring a round hole.
barbiegrande Posted June 19, 2023 Posted June 19, 2023 (edited) I’ll be honest, monogamy for gay men seems incredibly pointless. If you both agree to the terms and are smart, what’s wrong with having sex with other people? Most men don’t want one sex partner their whole life, that’s archaic. Gays who try to be monogamous seem more like they’re doing it because it’s what’s expected or because they’re insecure in what they have to offer OUTSIDE of sex. Edited June 19, 2023 by barbiegrande
barbiegrande Posted June 19, 2023 Posted June 19, 2023 On 6/17/2023 at 4:00 PM, Minogue said: Sounds like you don’t take sex seriously as a bonding experience, which it literally is from a biological standpoint, just as being hardwired to ****. By that logic you also don’t deprive yourself of anything cause you can literally have sex with your boyfriend, which ideally should be a great sexual experience. now if you’re not attracted or sexually challenged by your bf, that’s a different discussion but then I don’t think open relationship is the solution. Love and sex are not necessarily linked for most men. My bf and I love each other, have sex often, see each other everyday, but we also allow ourselves to have sex with other men because god forbid we don’t feel the need to deprive one another of pleasures. Im never worried about a side *****
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