satellites.™ Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 8 minutes ago, theoghon said: Can you elaborate that last sentence, asking for a friend I'm in my 30s now, the first half of my 20s I was overweight so I REALLY felt like I missed out on hot guys. I lost weight, started lifting and became "attractive" as one would say to other men. My late 20s were all about me finding the most attractive guys I could to prove to myself I could land them and have sex with them. I hooked up with some of the most stunning guys, 10/10 and the ONE thing that was always consistent with them is they SUCKED AT SEX. I feel like all of the guys who've been told how good looking they are dont spend time adding points to any other attributes outside of looks and it shows to someone of a certain experience. So, if you find yourself comfortable around bimbos or great looking guys who cant hold a conversation or keep up with a critical thinking discussion in a group of friends/family, you might also be a bit of a bimbo. To each their own, but like the OP asked, I find intelligence or a sense of humanity attractive. Some guys are literally all about looks, clothes, the gym, sex, their phone, and repeat. They do not ever speak about anything else or have opinions or thoughts about life, the future, finances, or anything of importance. 8
YourNumber1Witch Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 Personality 100%. Confidence, in many forms, is so attractive 2
Likingstars Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 (edited) 23 minutes ago, satellites.™ said: I hooked up with some of the most stunning guys, 10/10 and the ONE thing that was always consistent with them is they SUCKED AT SEX. I feel like all of the guys who've been told how good looking they are dont spend time adding points to any other attributes outside of looks and it shows to someone of a certain experience. This tea omg It’s never the hot looking guy that gives you mind blowing sex. Edited June 15, 2023 by Likingstars
theoghon Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 25 minutes ago, satellites.™ said: I'm in my 30s now, the first half of my 20s I was overweight so I REALLY felt like I missed out on hot guys. I lost weight, started lifting and became "attractive" as one would say to other men. My late 20s were all about me finding the most attractive guys I could to prove to myself I could land them and have sex with them. I hooked up with some of the most stunning guys, 10/10 and the ONE thing that was always consistent with them is they SUCKED AT SEX. I feel like all of the guys who've been told how good looking they are dont spend time adding points to any other attributes outside of looks and it shows to someone of a certain experience. So, if you find yourself comfortable around bimbos or great looking guys who cant hold a conversation or keep up with a critical thinking discussion in a group of friends/family, you might also be a bit of a bimbo. To each their own, but like the OP asked, I find intelligence or a sense of humanity attractive. Some guys are literally all about looks, clothes, the gym, sex, their phone, and repeat. They do not ever speak about anything else or have opinions or thoughts about life, the future, finances, or anything of importance. Hugely insightful, thanks for sharing
Illuminati Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 Confidence, passion and good personality. I was always attracted to what I'm not
MoonGoodandHappy Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 A man who is not arrogant, who is ambitious, and caring
Chiidish Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 I love charm a lot and that can look a lot of ways and be interpreted a lot of ways. I don’t have a massive filter or like expectations I find a wide range of men attractive.
SimpleKindofLife Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 An attentive man who listens and pays attention to my small quirks and doesn’t mind them my exes criticized me for the dumbest **** I’ll never put up with negative men again
Happylittlepunk Posted June 15, 2023 Author Posted June 15, 2023 39 minutes ago, satellites.™ said: I'm in my 30s now, the first half of my 20s I was overweight so I REALLY felt like I missed out on hot guys. I lost weight, started lifting and became "attractive" as one would say to other men. My late 20s were all about me finding the most attractive guys I could to prove to myself I could land them and have sex with them. I hooked up with some of the most stunning guys, 10/10 and the ONE thing that was always consistent with them is they SUCKED AT SEX. I feel like all of the guys who've been told how good looking they are dont spend time adding points to any other attributes outside of looks and it shows to someone of a certain experience. So, if you find yourself comfortable around bimbos or great looking guys who cant hold a conversation or keep up with a critical thinking discussion in a group of friends/family, you might also be a bit of a bimbo. To each their own, but like the OP asked, I find intelligence or a sense of humanity attractive. Some guys are literally all about looks, clothes, the gym, sex, their phone, and repeat. They do not ever speak about anything else or have opinions or thoughts about life, the future, finances, or anything of importance. This needs to be framed for all gays at their homes. 1
BOOMBAYAH Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 Confidence, but an almost stealth confidence. They don’t need to utter a word and you just know they’re absolutely sure of themselves.
imabadkid Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 isn’t intimidated by the girlz… a lot of guys try to disguise it with bravado but *some* are intimidated by people who aren’t afraid to be 100% themselves. so a man who is actually a man and comfortable with their sexuality. works out and goes to the gym, doesn’t necessarily have to be a gym bro per se but… also masculine. sexually experienced is important too.
brenda-walsh Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 funny, down to earth, sexy voice, great sense of humor. i like guys who are physically stronger/ bigger than me and are more masculine
ATRL Moderator feelslikeadream Posted June 15, 2023 ATRL Moderator Posted June 15, 2023 A big honkin' dong. And kind eyes.
Eat The Acid Posted June 15, 2023 Posted June 15, 2023 Kindness, well dressed, smells good, friendly personality, hairy armpits.
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