Bacardo Royale Posted June 11, 2023 Author Posted June 11, 2023 8 hours ago, Robert said: He only touched on it but said it wasn’t gonna work coz he wanted to impress the guy which wasn’t helping his mental health. Never heard of him but what a coincidence we both post about this issue on the same day
Bacardo Royale Posted June 11, 2023 Author Posted June 11, 2023 7 hours ago, MonsterJohn said: I mean he's your therapist, just discussing with him that you want to **** someone and describe exactly as he is. Get it girl Yeah I think I'm gonna be gradual with it. At some point we'll be talking about my sex history so it'll probably slip out 7 hours ago, Bussea said: is it really that hard for y’all to control yourselves when a hot person is within close proximity to you? I can control my actions but I can't control my thoughts. It's the elephant in the room and the more he digs into my mind the more likely he'll find out I wanna ride him
Specter Posted June 11, 2023 Posted June 11, 2023 Sis, don't be feral. Therapy is good. Help yourself first, then help other people (getting off). Aside from the NUMEROUS ethical violations (he can kinda lose his job if it comes out he is sleeping with clients??), do you actually want to sleep with someone who has such direct access to all your mental issues? 1
JoeAg Posted June 11, 2023 Posted June 11, 2023 4 minutes ago, Bacardo Royale said: Yeah I feel guilty for even thinking about him in that way. Seems like he really cares about me yet I'm being shallow. Should I tell him my concerns about his hotness or is it gonna make things awkward? well do you think you can eventually look past it? or tell some friends who can empathize well about it?
Bacardo Royale Posted June 11, 2023 Author Posted June 11, 2023 42 minutes ago, Phantom said: Sis, don't be feral. Therapy is good. Help yourself first, then help other people (getting off). Aside from the NUMEROUS ethical violations (he can kinda lose his job if it comes out he is sleeping with clients??), do you actually want to sleep with someone who has such direct access to all your mental issues? But how would it come out that he is sleeping with me unless I expose him? and I wouldn't expose him cuz I have a heart I'm not desperate to sleep with him, but the problem is I might not be as honest as I need to be about my issues Cuz a part of me wants to look f*ckable to him
Specter Posted June 11, 2023 Posted June 11, 2023 1 hour ago, Bacardo Royale said: But how would it come out that he is sleeping with me unless I expose him? and I wouldn't expose him cuz I have a heart You aren't the only one. He might also actually have an ethics code, confess, and subsequently lose his license. 1 hour ago, Bacardo Royale said: I'm not desperate to sleep with him, but the problem is I might not be as honest as I need to be about my issues Cuz a part of me wants to look f*ckable to him Sis. This is sad. You don't even really like him then, you just like the idea it seems. So not only are you, by your own admission, unable to be transparent and get your own help, you are PAYING someone per hour just on the vague ass notion that he may want to **** you. Does that not sadden you? Because it should, to the point of changing him. That's the goal of this post.
Bacardo Royale Posted June 11, 2023 Author Posted June 11, 2023 7 hours ago, Phantom said: You aren't the only one. He might also actually have an ethics code, confess, and subsequently lose his license. Sis. This is sad. You don't even really like him then, you just like the idea it seems. So not only are you, by your own admission, unable to be transparent and get your own help, you are PAYING someone per hour just on the vague ass notion that he may want to **** you. Does that not sadden you? Because it should, to the point of changing him. That's the goal of this post. I waited half a year on a list for him because he specializes in what I need help for, so no I'm not willing to ruin it cuz of my dick I think the way I word things make it seem more dramatic than it is , it's just I've never had a hot therapist and am nervous about it potentially becoming an issue. Does it make me sad? Maybe but i can't control how I feel ya know Really I should wait and see what happens. Maybe the more I get used to him the more I'll open up
Specter Posted June 11, 2023 Posted June 11, 2023 11 minutes ago, Bacardo Royale said: so no I'm not willing to ruin it cuz of my dick Okay this is good 12 minutes ago, Bacardo Royale said: it's just I've never had a hot therapist and am nervous about it potentially becoming an issue. Does it make me sad? I mean I only vaguely understand because the starting of your post made it seem like you were envious of him as a young, successful, and attractive guy. That at least makes some sense, some people can relate to that feeling. But definitely do not give him any indications of it. At best it will waste both of y'all time, and at worst it will end in major flames. (Also I only called it sad to deter you from keep seeing him ksjgh sis if he was a specialist you should have mentioned in the OP) 14 minutes ago, Bacardo Royale said: Maybe the more I get used to him the more I'll open up As long as the opening up is only emotional, not physical 1
Bacardo Royale Posted June 11, 2023 Author Posted June 11, 2023 46 minutes ago, Phantom said: As long as the opening up is only emotional, not physical I'll try to be professional but if he makes the first move I'm letting him hit it idc. 43 minutes ago, katara said:
Bacardo Royale Posted June 11, 2023 Author Posted June 11, 2023 @Phantom the tea is I had you on ignore for months, I've just lifted it now this conversation has changed my mind about you cuz you seem to care and I appreciate the feedback. Maybe there's hope for a Barbz and Bardigang reunion someday 1
Specter Posted June 11, 2023 Posted June 11, 2023 3 minutes ago, Bacardo Royale said: @Phantom the tea is I had you on ignore for months, I've just lifted it now this conversation has changed my mind about you cuz you seem to care and I appreciate the feedback. Maybe there's hope for a Barbz and Bardigang reunion someday Xhfjfhc Truth is the stan **** is mostly fun and games for me, I don't really participate in any stan culture outside of ATRL. So outside of Nicki/Cardi (& other femcee mess), I don't get into online scuffles. There are periods when I'm not even posting about the gyals, just arguing politics online. Now that I'm older I'm trying to cut down on that too. So yea appreciate it. I don't have any members on ignore but as for barbz, you're one of the fun ones because you keep Lounge/Roof messy and active, real stories or not
Bacardo Royale Posted June 11, 2023 Author Posted June 11, 2023 15 minutes ago, Phantom said: Xhfjfhc Truth is the stan **** is mostly fun and games for me, I don't really participate in any stan culture outside of ATRL. So outside of Nicki/Cardi (& other femcee mess), I don't get into online scuffles. There are periods when I'm not even posting about the gyals, just arguing politics online. Now that I'm older I'm trying to cut down on that too. So yea appreciate it. I don't have any members on ignore but as for barbz, you're one of the fun ones because you keep Lounge/Roof messy and active, real stories or not Aww yeah I've seen you around in all kinds of threads including politics threads I like how articulate you are , keep doing you. I also need to grow up, the stan stuff can be fun as long you don't get too emotionally invested And it's so funny to me when people think my life problems are made up , I wish 1
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