discussion What is the most hurtful thing a guy/crush/boyfriend said/did to you ?

[MoonGoodandHappy]

What is the most hurtful thing a guy/crush or boyfriend said/did to you ? 

 

One day a guy crush said to me that i was cute enough to sleep with him but not to have a serious relationship with him.   

 

Another day, one of my ex boyfriend ghosted me without any explanation. After months of relationships i wake up and he was not there anymore. 

 

 

What's yours ?

 

Edited May 31, 2023 by MoonGoodandHappy

[Big Bad Wolf]

Too much, all of my relationships have been extremely toxic on every level

[kandicha]

being ghosted was the worst, because it felt like i never got a sense of closure on that relationship.

[Gorjesspazze9]

My crush called the police on me and sent me to a mental institution for 3 months

 

[Karla Cabello]

giving me an ets

[Karla Cabello]

2 minutes ago, Gorjesspazze9 said:

My crush called the police on me and sent me to a mental institution for 3 months

 

this is so evil 

 

[Gorjesspazze9]

Just now, Karla Cabello said:

this is so evil 

 

This is clearly a troll post 

[Power love]

4 minutes ago, Gorjesspazze9 said:

My crush called the police on me and sent me to a mental institution for 3 months

 

 

2 minutes ago, Karla Cabello said:

this is so evil 

 

 

1 minute ago, Gorjesspazze9 said:

This is clearly a troll post 

[MoonGoodandHappy]

8 minutes ago, Gorjesspazze9 said:

My crush called the police on me and sent me to a mental institution for 3 months

 

What 

[#Beautiful]

saying "we should just be friends" ghosting me completely and moving to the uk after talking about life and kissing all night

[Bloo]

When I was 19, I told an older crush that I had a crush on him after he broke up with his then-boyfriend because he was wanting me to be a friend and it was weird keeping that to myself for some reason? Idk. But, he then proceeds to use me as an armchair therapist that would console him and reassure him he’s wrong when he says, “No one of value ever notices me.” He would drop text conversations when they weren’t about him. Then he would constantly ask me for opinions on guys he was talking to, even though it was obvious I still had feelings for him. He’d call my “cute as a button” and all this stuff during this time and drop so many things that made my impressionable self think he might be interested. Then he initiated cuddling with me one night and then went on to leave the country for a job overseas.
 

There were a lot of other weird things that happened. But that man played my emotions like a fiddle. 

[GentleDance]

8 minutes ago, Wizard said:

nothing crazy but i remember i hooked up with this guy who told me i'll need to get abs to be fwb with him  

[Kummercell]

my first boyfriend told me i was so disgusting he turned straight after dating me 

[Topaz]

1 hour ago, Kummercell said:

my first boyfriend told me i was so disgusting he turned straight after dating me 

OH WOW

[CBC]

we broke up and he told me my cat should die the same way my mum did

[Alldeezy]

Can't remember but I now tend to push every guy away.. so something has definitely been said to me that has made me afraid of ever meeting new guys and dating again.

 

Guess my ex telling me grow up and get a grip when his the most childish person I've ever dated and I got upset because of broken promises and he cracked the shits. He also spat in my face and when we went on holidays left me at the hotel to try and flirt with the girl he was friends with

 

He also yelled at me saying don't talk to me like im garbage when I said no to him when he wanted gobble gobble (we weren't even dating)

 

 

[Alldeezy]

Oh one guy also said I hope you never find love and he wins because now his engaged and im still single 4 years later.

 

And had one guy burn my pjs because I broke up with him 

 

I ******* hate guys.

[gatito]

of all the weapons he fought with his silence was the most violent 

 

3 hours ago, kandicha said:

being ghosted was the worst, because it felt like i never got a sense of closure on that relationship.

[bliaz]

 

 

[KBax]

So many events run through my head but okay I'll share two..

In highschool there was a guy that was openly bi and he heard that I thought he was cute, so he messaged me online later and said "Awe you think I'm cute that's so sweet" and so we talked for a bit and he seemed interested so I asked him if he wanted to go out sometime and he laughed and said "You're ******* ugly what makes me think I'd go out with someone like you" after that I felt so awkward whenever I seen him in the halls.

 

Second was wasting 6 years of my life with someone who slept with however many dudes behind my back and once I dumped him I found out he was telling his friends and random people that I was abusive and that I was the one cheating on him and that I treat him like ****. His friends and the dudes he slept with were the ones that I ended up finding everything out from. I was also told that he would talk about how stupid I was and that I couldn't possibly go anywhere in life because I wasn't smart enough.

 

[Cherish]

I have no physical attraction to you. If you left, I'd be good.  

[Sazare]

3 hours ago, kandicha said:

being ghosted was the worst, because it felt like i never got a sense of closure on that relationship.

Same. Had so much anxiety and so many trust issues after that. Hurt worse than anything anyone’s actually said to me.

[Ricanaire]

a guy i was into told me that his type was “conventionally attractive” people.

[gatito]

1 hour ago, CBC said:

we broke up and he told me my cat should die the same way my mum did

oh wow this is effin vile

 

he ain’t seeing heaven 

[Delirious]

Omg the amount of horrible stories in here. Y'all deserve better.