discussion He was being the cutest to me but he hasn't answered me in 3 days

[cyberpunkgoth]

we were supposed to be just friends, but after we first met (we were online friends) he showed he was very interested and since then we got very close, tons of messages, saying that he was feeling very loved and moved by me and that my messages made his day happier and **** and then out of nowhere he disappeared, am i worrying for no reason? 

 

Edited May 30, 2023 by cyberpunkgoth

[wehavetostan]

He’s not interested

[Space Cowboy]

He’s ghosting you. Forget him and move on with your life

[cyberpunkgoth]

1 minute ago, wehavetostan said:

He’s not interested

 

Just now, Space Cowboy said:

He’s ghosting you. Forget him and move on with your life

yeah... but we kinda have a event together next weekend 

so i am kinda waiting for him to appear still

it is actually stressing me out but whatever, no one should be forced to answer me anyways

[Alldeezy]

Found someone else.

 

I had someone who was like that too then went radio silence 

[CBC]

Find another guy and take him to the event. You might book a 3some

[suburbannature]

People are fickle it happens to everyone no matter how attractive you are 

[DamianSolo]

Move on and find someone else; he's not interested. It's worthless to dwell on him.

[Bloodflowers.]

He passed away or he's meditating you guys

[midnightdawn]

Drop him. Even if he comes back he's still going to come and go as he pleases and mess with your emotions.

[Karla Cabello]

thats men for you

[magazine]

He found your last.fm

[gatito]

he’s probably ghosting you and you deserve better 

[Giancor]

12 minutes ago, magazine said:

He found your last.fm

 

just let him go and don’t get attached too quick next time 

 

sorry sis

[Power love]

56 minutes ago, cyberpunkgoth said:

so i am kinda waiting for him to appear still

[GentleEarthquake]

Forget about him, delete this thread

[Smarticle]

[selena_lavigne]

just remember that people have their lives separate from you.

if you have an event together remind him of it to plan and make sure it's still happening.

[sweetblindness]

I would refrain from texting him for now, then see if he reaches out before next weekend's event you have scheduled.

[BeingRicardo]

8 minutes ago, selena_lavigne said:

just remember that people have their lives separate from you.

if you have an event together remind him of it to plan and make sure it's still happening.

Yup but tbh in 3 days you can text back, you can take 5 minutes a day if you're interested.

 

It does not mean he is not interested in you tho, some people have insecure attachment and whatever they start to feel something for someone they fade away. You can text him back if everything is fine, if he still ignores, ignores him, you deserve better after all

[CottageHore]

You’re worrying because you like this guy and are worried he’s lost interest. That’s a valid thing to be worried about. But is it the end of the world? Not even close. Give it a few more days. If he’s still MIA, I suggest being forward, for your own sanity, and simply texting “hey, haven’t heard from you. Just wondering if you’re still interested in _______.”

 

If he continues not to respond, he’s not worth your energy. If he’s not willing to give you the decency of a simple explanation or response, then that’s a reflection on where he is in his life, not you. You deserve somebody who doesn’t make you question all the time. You deserve someone who cares about you undoubtedly and who leaves little room for worrying/wondering. 

[Into The Void]

Hes a jerk and u deserve better 

[Blade Runner]

He was just bored and you were right there. 

 

Men are cruel. Just move on, sis. 

[Jude]

Are you sure he's still alive?

[Zox]

He’s gone babes x